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Posted: 15 years ago
#31
Originally posted by MERARAI

The way I see it Pratigya is no Mother Teresa. There is plenty of blame to go around in how Krishna and Pratigya are dealing with each other. She is portrayed as a weak woman who blames everyone else for her life. She has made poor choices along the way before she knew about Krishna.... hiding things and lying to her family to begin with. The way I see her, no self-respecting strong woman will marry a man who has humiliated her family. She embraces her sasural as her own but not her husband? She stands up for Kesar's truth about the baby with her sasural but won't stand up for her own right and out the lie? If she is a strong woman why isn't she fighting back with her sasural when they treat her poorly instead letting Krishna stepping in to save her day every time? Let's not forget her verbal tongue-lashing at Krishna when she can't handle the stress in that household, a choice she walked herself into with her own justifiable reasons.

Prats is fundamentally lacking in common sense. Her treatment of Krishna is the more subtle verbal and emotional kind that leaves no physical scars but deep emotional ones. Krishna said as much to the Sucksenas at the pooja. When he of his own volition stepped in to defend Arushi's honor and that of his sasural, he gets a verbal lashing from Arushi as her way of showing him gratitude. Pratigya in her own way pretended like it never even happened even after seeing the chaaku stab. This girl raised with good sanskar didn't have anything nice to say to thank him for standing in for her family, did she?😕 If she did, I didn't see it.😕

When Prats doesn't know how to problem solve she expects Krishna to step in and save her from the wrath of her sasural. If she thinks she can say and behave any way she pleases with Krishna and expects him not to react, that's ridiculous. Every person has a snapping point, even if he is a saint. And we all know that Krishna is no saint. 😲😊

completely agree with u.if krishna is wrong,on the same way partigya is also wrong.her intention of marriage is revenge.and i want to say if there some forum members blamed partigya also for this worst suitation of marriage so it doesnt mean that we are supporting krishna bad deed also.(rape track).
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Pratigya always humilates krishna even when he behaves nicely to her! 😡😡😡😡😡😡then why she is living with him????? she shuld tell her in-laws dat she hates krishna and she is not prgannt!n she will never ever love him!!!!! why she is behaving like a good bahu! even when she can see that that her mother in law is rude to her!she shud try to be a good wife ! n if she can't do dis den she shud leave krishna's house!!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: snehadhanda

Pratigya always humilates krishna even when he behaves nicely to her! 😡then why she is living with him????? she shuld tell her in-laws dat she hates krishna and she is not prgannt!n she will never ever love him!!!!! why she is behaving like a good bahu! even when she can see that that her mother in law is rude to her!she shud try to be a good wife ! n if she can't do dis den she shud leave krishna's house!!!!😡



Excellent point! If Prats behaved this way I'd accept that Prats is a strong woman who stands up for her rights and a role model for other women as well. Right now we have rarely seen her stand up for herself much at all. Her convos. with Krishna are more confrontational which doesn't resolve much but adds to the disharmony between them.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: zanish_k

Originally posted by MERARAI

The way I see it Pratigya is no Mother Teresa. There is plenty of blame to go around in how Krishna and Pratigya are dealing with each other. She is portrayed as a weak woman who blames everyone else for her life. She has made poor choices along the way before she knew about Krishna.... hiding things and lying to her family to begin with. The way I see her, no self-respecting strong woman will marry a man who has humiliated her family. She embraces her sasural as her own but not her husband? She stands up for Kesar's truth about the baby with her sasural but won't stand up for her own right and out the lie? If she is a strong woman why isn't she fighting back with her sasural when they treat her poorly instead letting Krishna stepping in to save her day every time? Let's not forget her verbal tongue-lashing at Krishna when she can't handle the stress in that household, a choice she walked herself into with her own justifiable reasons.

Prats is fundamentally lacking in common sense. Her treatment of Krishna is the more subtle verbal and emotional kind that leaves no physical scars but deep emotional ones. Krishna said as much to the Sucksenas at the pooja. When he of his own volition stepped in to defend Arushi's honor and that of his sasural, he gets a verbal lashing from Arushi as her way of showing him gratitude. Pratigya in her own way pretended like it never even happened even after seeing the chaaku stab. This girl raised with good sanskar didn't have anything nice to say to thank him for standing in for her family, did she?😕 If she did, I didn't see it.😕

When Prats doesn't know how to problem solve she expects Krishna to step in and save her from the wrath of her sasural. If she thinks she can say and behave any way she pleases with Krishna and expects him not to react, that's ridiculous. Every person has a snapping point, even if he is a saint. And we all know that Krishna is no saint. 😲😊

completely agree with u.if krishna is wrong,on the same way partigya is also wrong.her intention of marriage is revenge.and i want to say if there some forum members blamed partigya also for this worst suitation of marriage so it doesnt mean that we are supporting krishna bad deed also.(rape track).



Well said! If this marriage is on shaky ground, the responsibility lies with both of them.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: snehadhanda

Pratigya always humilates krishna even when he behaves nicely to her! 😡then why she is living with him????? she shuld tell her in-laws dat she hates krishna and she is not prgannt!n she will never ever love him!!!!! why she is behaving like a good bahu! even when she can see that that her mother in law is rude to her!she shud try to be a good wife ! n if she can't do dis den she shud leave krishna's house!!!!😡



Thank u for pointing out this?
I have been asking the same question since the pregnancy lie track has begun
Okay I get that she was stalked by baba, for revenge she married him. She kept on hating him and has constantly humiliated him despite his constant efforts without him knowing the real reasons?
As result of the hatred he reacted the way he knows the best (BTW I am not saying it is correct).
He has physically abused and attempted rape.
Now my question is :

WHAT THE HELL IS SHE STILL DOING IN THAT HOUSE? WHAT IS WAITING FOR BEFORE SHE LEAVES THAT MAN?

1) Is she still living there because she continues to seek revenge? Has she not realised that everytimne she shouts and humiliates him she justs aggrevates him and the whole abuse process starts again? Well girl wld u be still thinking of seeking revenge if your life was at stake? For all u know Shaktia and Amma mite be planning that😆😆

2) Is she staying there because she is scared of the society (not so strong then) and is worried that family wld be upset that she has come back to them. Well girl her parents despite the fact they are Sucksenas wld be happy that she safe rather than married.

3) Does she believe that she is very strong and brave and wants to prove it everybody? Well bravery and strength will show results in your favour only if used with that grey matter within your skull else it results into a disaster. We have the whole history to prove it.

4) Does she have a very strong drive to do social service and wants to fight for women then the suggestion join a NGO which fight for such causes.

5) Does she love her in laws and wants to win the ideal Bahu award at SPA awards😆😆? Well honey such things have no value in life if you are traumatised and your self respect is wounded?

6) The last one and the least possible one Ican think of is SHE ACTUALLY LOVES APNA BABA AND IS NOT AWARE OF IT😆.I will leave it for ppl who think Prats hasn't done anything wrong defend this line😆


WHAT WILL TAKE TO PUT SOME SENSES IN THAT SKULL OF HERS THAT SHE IS NOT SAFE THERE?


IF AN OPPRESSER IS AT FAULT THEN SO IS THE OPPRESSED


Edited by krishna_chalbo - 15 years ago
Posted: 15 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo



Thank u for pointing out this?
I have been asking the same question since the lie story has begun
Okay I get that she was stalked by baba, for revenge she married him. She kept on hating him and has constantly humiliated him despite his constant efforts without him knowing the real reasons?
As result of the hatred he reacted the way he knows the best (BTW I am not saying it is correct).
He has physically abused and attempted rape.
Now my question is :

WHAT THE HELL IS SHE STILL DOING IN THAT HOUSE? WHAT IS WAITING FOR BEFORE SHE LEAVES THAT MAN?

1) Is she still living there because she continues to seek revenge? Has she not realised that everytimne she shouts and humiliates him he is justs aggrevates him andd the whole abuse process starts again? Well girl wld u be still thinking of seeking reevenge if your life was at stake? For all u know Shaktia and Amma mite be planning that😆
😆
2) Is she staying there because she is scared of the society and is worried that family wld be upset that she has come back to them. Well girl her parents despite the fact they are Sucksenas wld be happy that she safe rather than married

3) Does she believe that she is very strong and brave and wants to prove it everybody? Well bravery and strength will show results in your favour only if used with that grey matter within your skull else it results into a disaster. We have the whole history to prove it.

4) Does she have a very strong drive to do social service and wants to fight for women then the suggestion join a NGO which fight for such causes.

5) Does she love her in laws and wants to win the ideal Bahu award at SPA awards😆😆? Well honey such things have no value in life if you are traumatised and your self respect is wounded?

6) The last one and the least possible one Ican think of is SHE ACTUALLY LOVES APNA BABA AND IS NOT AWARE OF IT😳😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 I will leave it for ppl who think Prats hasn't done anything wrong defend this line😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

WHAT WILL TAKE TO PUT SOME SENSES IN THAT SKULL OF HERS THAT SHE IS NOT SAFE THERE?

IF AN OPPRESSER IS AT FAULT THEN SO IS THE OPPRESSED


wow nice analysis!!!👏👏👏👏👏 some really interesting points there!!
I never really understand why did she get married to Krishna in the first place!!
- was to to put an end of all the problems (humiliation) her family faced because of her??
well then she should have known marriage is a life long commitment, she can't marriage, take revenge and come back to her family. A guy who can take such drastic steps as almost killing a person (nitin)and kidnapping is capable of worse! If she only wanted to seek revenge then y the hell did she keep quite all the while??? Why didn't see do anything, she was busy trying to fit in the takkur family and keeping Krishna at bay! She should have realised at least after marriage that krishna is not as bad as she thinks!
(as how time and again he stood for her infront of his family defending and supporting her)
She has pointed out all the deeds krishna did except the major ones like almost killing Nitin and her kidnapping!
She should realize it was her decision to get married, even when sajjan singh came to her house the second time it was pratigya who ACCEPTED the sagun much to her family's disapproval. Even during the pheres when shyam came to know that takkur kids are illiterate he wanted to call off the wedding immediately but pratigya was the one who stopped her father. (i agree at this point it was better to go ahead with the marriage)
I fail to understand what she really wants to do??? move on with her married life or seek revenge and go back to her family!
Krishna on the other hand is acting very funny ever since the fake pregnancy track started, his actions and words make no sense as to what is going on in his mind!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo



Thank u for pointing out this?
I have been asking the same question since the lie story has begun
Okay I get that she was stalked by baba, for revenge she married him. She kept on hating him and has constantly humiliated him despite his constant efforts without him knowing the real reasons?
As result of the hatred he reacted the way he knows the best (BTW I am not saying it is correct).
He has physically abused and attempted rape.
Now my question is :

WHAT THE HELL IS SHE STILL DOING IN THAT HOUSE? WHAT IS WAITING FOR BEFORE SHE LEAVES THAT MAN?

1) Is she still living there because she continues to seek revenge? Has she not realised that everytimne she shouts and humiliates him he is justs aggrevates him andd the whole abuse process starts again? Well girl wld u be still thinking of seeking reevenge if your life was at stake? For all u know Shaktia and Amma mite be planning that😆
😆
2) Is she staying there because she is scared of the society and is worried that family wld be upset that she has come back to them. Well girl her parents despite the fact they are Sucksenas wld be happy that she safe rather than married

3) Does she believe that she is very strong and brave and wants to prove it everybody? Well bravery and strength will show results in your favour only if used with that grey matter within your skull else it results into a disaster. We have the whole history to prove it.

4) Does she have a very strong drive to do social service and wants to fight for women then the suggestion join a NGO which fight for such causes.

5) Does she love her in laws and wants to win the ideal Bahu award at SPA awards😆😆? Well honey such things have no value in life if you are traumatised and your self respect is wounded?

6) The last one and the least possible one Ican think of is SHE ACTUALLY LOVES APNA BABA AND IS NOT AWARE OF IT😆 I will leave it for ppl who think Prats hasn't done anything wrong defend this line😆

WHAT WILL TAKE TO PUT SOME SENSES IN THAT SKULL OF HERS THAT SHE IS NOT SAFE THERE?

IF AN OPPRESSER IS AT FAULT THEN SO IS THE OPPRESSED




Even though the creators promoted Pratigya as the woman who stood up for her rights and maybe of women in general, it hasn't panned out that way in the story telling so far. Komal seems to be the stronger of the two. She doesn't take put downs, indifference, insults or rejection quietly. I was surprised how far she went in literarily dragging Rolli out of the house. Seemed like a repeat of some of Krishna's behavior at the engagement and hollimoon. She shows more back bone and fights for her marriage even when she had no say in the matter.

Pratigya on the other hand has rarely stood up on her own at her sasural. Krishna has stepped in to defend and fprotect her from his family every time. Even when she helped Kesar she couldn't accomplish the task of saving her without Krishna distracting Sakthi. She takes all that saasuma's antagonistic outbursts and cries all the time. Tt's a hard pill ot swallow and believe that she is a strong woman at this point in the story. Maybe it's all yet to come.😕 Let's hope so. After all Krishna thought he was sure he was marrying a sherni and not a gaai. Only he has seen the sherni randomly in private.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo



Thank u for pointing out this?
I have been asking the same question since the lie story has begun
Okay I get that she was stalked by baba, for revenge she married him. She kept on hating him and has constantly humiliated him despite his constant efforts without him knowing the real reasons?
As result of the hatred he reacted the way he knows the best (BTW I am not saying it is correct).
He has physically abused and attempted rape.
Now my question is :

WHAT THE HELL IS SHE STILL DOING IN THAT HOUSE? WHAT IS WAITING FOR BEFORE SHE LEAVES THAT MAN?

1) Is she still living there because she continues to seek revenge? Has she not realised that everytimne she shouts and humiliates him she justs aggrevates him and the whole abuse process starts again? Well girl wld u be still thinking of seeking revenge if your life was at stake? For all u know Shaktia and Amma mite be planning that😆😆

2) Is she staying there because she is scared of the society (not so strong then) and is worried that family wld be upset that she has come back to them. Well girl her parents despite the fact they are Sucksenas wld be happy that she safe rather than married.

3) Does she believe that she is very strong and brave and wants to prove it everybody? Well bravery and strength will show results in your favour only if used with that grey matter within your skull else it results into a disaster. We have the whole history to prove it.

4) Does she have a very strong drive to do social service and wants to fight for women then the suggestion join a NGO which fight for such causes.

5) Does she love her in laws and wants to win the ideal Bahu award at SPA awards😆😆? Well honey such things have no value in life if you are traumatised and your self respect is wounded?

6) The last one and the least possible one Ican think of is SHE ACTUALLY LOVES APNA BABA AND IS NOT AWARE OF IT😆.I will leave it for ppl who think Prats hasn't done anything wrong defend this line😆


WHAT WILL TAKE TO PUT SOME SENSES IN THAT SKULL OF HERS THAT SHE IS NOT SAFE THERE?


IF AN OPPRESSER IS AT FAULT THEN SO IS THE OPPRESSED


Chalbo Muahhhhhhhh ek dam khus kardiya 🤗
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Edited by dunia - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: MERARAI



Even though the creators promoted Pratigya as the woman who stood up for her rights and maybe of women in general, it hasn't panned out that way in the story telling so far. Komal seems to be the stronger of the two. She doesn't take put downs, indifference, insults or rejection quietly. I was surprised how far she went in literarily dragging Rolli out of the house. Seemed like a repeat of some of Krishna's behavior at the engagement and hollimoon. She shows more back bone and fights for her marriage even when she had no say in the matter.

Pratigya on the other hand has rarely stood up on her own at her sasural. Krishna has stepped in to defend and fprotect her from his family every time. Even when she helped Kesar she couldn't accomplish the task of saving her without Krishna distracting Sakthi. She takes all that saasuma's antagonistic outbursts and cries all the time. Tt's a hard pill ot swallow and believe that she is a strong woman at this point in the story. Maybe it's all yet to come.😕 Let's hope so. After all Krishna thought he was sure he was marrying a sherni and not a gaai. Only he has seen the sherni randomly in private.


Well u said it correct

The creative presented a strong woman in the promos and all we have got is completly confused character. She acts without thinking and then seems completely lost when she comes across the first hurdle. even the 5th Fail cld see that no wonder he said that:

Ghayal Saapan Ko Marham Lagane Jaogi Toh Saapan Toh Katega Hi. Yahi To Farak Hai Saapan Aur Gaay Main Ya To Sapan Key Katen Ka Manatr Jano Ya Bill Main Haath Na Dhalo. Kuch To Karo. Par Tum Toh Baas...

She decided to marry him without thinking abt what the next months hold for her allow her whole life. As a result Komla landed in Sucksenas house and now they have an atom bomb ready to blast and none of them and reiterate none of them can detenate it

Now she has married such a short tempered man and she hasn't learnt to tackle him. (BTW I AM NOT SAYING SHE DESERVES TO BE ABUSED OR SHE SHLD LOVE HIM).

HE ABUSES HER AND SHE CONTINUES TO LIVE THERE. WHY WHY WHY WHY?
JUST MAKES U WONDER DOES SHE ENJOY THE ABUSE

Doesn't that make her a masochist or someone constantly seeking pity😕

If 5 th fail Baba is at fault than so is the degree pass pratigya.

Edited by krishna_chalbo - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo


Well u said it correct

The creative presented a strong woman in the promos and all we have got is completly confused character. She acts without thinking and then seems completely lost when she comes across the first hurdle. even the 5th Fail cld see that no wonder he said that:

Ghayal Saapan Ko Marham Lagane Jaogi Toh Saapan Toh Katega Hi. Yahi To Farak Hai Saapan Aur Gaay Main Ya To Sapan Key Katen Ka Manatr Jano Ya Bill Main Haath Na Dhalo. Kuch To Karo. Par Tum Toh Baas...

She decided to marry him without thinking abt what the next months hold for her allow her whole life. As a result the Komla landed in Sucksenas house and now they have an atom bomb ready to blast and none of them and reiterate none of them can detenate it

Now she has married such a short tempered man and she hasn't learnt to tackle him. (BTW I AM NOT SAYING SHE DESERVES TO BE ABUSED OR SHE SHLD LOVE HIM).

HE ABUSES HER AND SHE CONTINUES TO LIVE THERE. WHY WHY WHY WHY?
JUST MAKES U WONDER DOES SHE ENJOY THE ABUSE

Doesn't that make her a masochist or someone constantly seeking pity😕

If 5 th fail Baba is at fault than so is the degree pass pratigya.



And your point is???



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