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Posted: 15 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: atomic kitty

thank u guyss...I LUBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU GUYS TOOOOO. :). But shruti he is not over his first girlfriend ...so wat oder option i have oder than to get over him... he was my first love and dis is wat i get...i am so depressed ...i think i am going to cry...:(:(

Ummm.......pls don't cry.Since he isn't over his frist gf,it's precisely why u shuld give him some time to get over her.Till then enjoy ur frndship with him and go with the flow and as of now don't tell him abt ur feelings coz I am sure as a frnd he needs u to be there for him.
At the end all I can say is tht don't make any decision in haste.😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey i dont knw u but am in colege aswel nd its my first year...
wen u love sum1 the world seems different...
i jus wana say that if he loves u 2 den he wil say it...
but wen ur together plz dnt fall in love to deeply because it hurts wen u find out his goin far away...
which has jus hapend 2 me de guy i lyked for atleast a year now and his goin 2 die in 3 months maybe and its hurting me alot nd i cnt concentrate on anythin ryt nw...
but jus sayin...sorry if u dnt lyk wat ever i sed...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't know your exact age.But I can say...take your time,may be it's a mere crush.First you be sure about yourself,and when you be sure,tell him .Just say it.Don't be so emotional in front of him.Say it as a matter of fact.If he wants some time,give him.If you declines you..just accept it as a truth.It happens..it's not a matter to impose.If he accepts..then party..but if he declines..don't try to be a tragic heroine..it's really not going to work.

I am emphasizing to express your feelings about him..because there are so many relations can't become reality just for not expressing.If you are really sure about your feelings then just say it in a normal way..don't be over emotional..and of course maintain your dignity and self respect.I wish you all the luck.



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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey sunni L armaan (sorry don't know ur name) i'm sorry ... i can't even imagine wat u must be going through... but i hope god gives u da courage to cope wid it...i noe it must be a crush but i don't think a crush can get serious rite like me not bein able to do anything properly... and being miserable...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yeah i think you are in love like others said but who knows if he loves you or not but i hope he does.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey hun

The symptoms you mentioned could relate to love but then again it could also relate to infatuation. Both feelings are strong and hence people tend to confuse the two emotions into actually being true love.

i'm not questioning your feelings or anything but i assure you, a lot of people i know had thought they were in love when at the end it only ended up as mere infatuation.

The advice i could give you, is to give some time to actually try to understand your feelings. But then also try to see what his feelings are for you. If according to your friend, his still not over his ex then that is an issue. If your friends with him then try to talk to him a bit about his feelings for her so you can get an insight of what his true feelings are. It is not necessary for you to confess right now because looking upon your post, you seem a bit confused about your own emotions.

So don't take rash decisions because decisions made in haste tend to be wrong ones. Take your time, understand both feelings, and we cant say whether your in love or not. You will know yourself, when you really are

Cheers
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Posted: 15 years ago
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ohh..awww..well if hes not over his gf..then i dont know what to say..time when will come when sparks will be felt by both sides..n yea minimize ur time w/ him if u feel like it hurts u..im a college goin grl too..n am doin engineerin..so theres lots of guys..n i like to play around..so me n my frnd do the same thing..we hit each other n play around..but recently hes acting soo weried..just keeps smilling at me when i laugh at his jokes..soo weired..i dont think anything like tht...maybe ur feeling the same thing hes feeling?!?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Have you ever had a fight, disagreement, challenging situation that the two of you had to work through? Often times the happier, funny, good times are easy to get by. It's the little fights, arguments, challenging situations and how you deal with it together that can make or break a couple. Give yourself some time. True love stands the test of time.

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