Anyone not like Krishna?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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In my opinion, (though many may consider futile) Krishna is aggravating and stubborn. His stalking of Pratigya, breaking her engagement and placing his friends to watch over her household was somewhat exasperating, and showed the desperation of Krishna (not to mention the so called rape *yeah yeah I know it did not 'technically happen.*)
Those traits just seem to highlight to me the mental unstability in Krishna. If he 'loved' her surely he would of got to know her and taken it from there. I can appreciate he is not literate but I do not believe that is a valid reason for his incompetencies in getting to know Pratigya than stalk her.
His cutting of the wrists was over the top and as I stated before desperate and contained elements of insecurity, and not too mention the tattoo. What is worse is when he did get married to Pratigya he actually expected her to love him?! I really do not feel I need to elaborate on this particular point because the reasoning is so apparent it does not need explanation.
I am not denying Krishna has some likeable characteristics such as defending her and willing to fight for her but he does take it far and assumes Pratigya will appreciate it. Assumption carries no weighting in my opinion. If I was in Pratigya's case first of all I would of never married him but if I did then I could never love someone like Krishna for all the reasons stated above. Maybe over time if he really did prove himself but I do not think he has done anything significant to suggest his authencity of love.
And on a final note, I really do think if Krishna was not 'hot' a term many of you forum users use to descibe his physique, you would of not supported him in his actions. Though this varies to individuals.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I almost pressed 'like' but for a few points here and there especially about his authenticity of love...He may not have shown it to Pratigya yet...but if I remember correctly he told off his mom when she encouraged him to go ahead and enjoy the girl if he likes her so much but not say a thing about marrying her...that was a huuuge statement he made about his pure love for Pratigya...

All this loudness and expectations from Pratigya to love him back is all because of his brought up and no its no excuse to all his stupid actions but still it is an undeniable factor in forming his personality....He IS a good human being despite his brought up and with his love for Pratigya he will reform into an amazing man and that is where his real calling for life is, I hope...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree with athena- as kishna is always saving pratz from his own family and is always very suportive .....okay he choose the wrng way to get her but girls and boys get over it ......if he didnt love her then when his sister, dad and mom said hit pratz then he would have but he didnt as he loves her toooo much and he is always saving her from everyone
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: princ355

i agree with athena- as kishna is always saving pratz from his own family and is always very suportive .....okay he choose the wrng way to get her but girls and boys get over it ......if he didnt love her then when his sister, dad and mom said hit pratz then he would have but he didnt as he loves her toooo much and he is always saving her from everyone

So? Should Pratigya be grateful? I certaily would not be! It still seems minor in contrast to what he did before. Though he may 'love her' and as I stated before has some likeable characteristics, he did initially try to get intimate with Pratigya despite her refusal (Yes I do acknowledge it did not fully go ahead but he did attempt it nonetheless.) Thus, the authencity of love remains a controversial matter.
It is easy to say "girls and boys get over it" but practically it is a whole different matter. I can guarantee if that happened to people in reality than just theoretically, then they would not 'get over it' as you put forth (however maybe with time.) Though you may believe my small analysis carries no weighting.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I would say that you do have a valid reason not to "like" Krishna's character,👍🏼 .......but i think that's the whole point. Krishna does not usually follow the "norm" for male protagonists, which makes his character different. He is bitter, yet sweet....illogical, yet logical......misunderstood, yet understanding...etc.......I for one am a HUGE Krishna fan because throughout all of his bad nature, he is still good😃. Growing up in a family like his, it is difficult NOT to get influenced by them. I appreciate all the things Krishna does, not because it is wrong (which it is, and that's my least favorite thing about him) , but because whatever he does, he does it for his love....... if you eliminate all the bad factors contributed to his manner, behavior, etc.......you will find that the end result makes sense...it is just that the way Krishna went with may not be the best :))))))
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: joker101

I would say that you do have a valid reason not to "like" Krishna's character,👍🏼 .......but i think that's the whole point. Krishna does not usually follow the "norm" for male protagonists, which makes his character different. He is bitter, yet sweet....illogical, yet logical......misunderstood, yet understanding...etc.......I for one am a HUGE Krishna fan because throughout all of his bad nature, he is still good😃. Growing up in a family like his, it is difficult NOT to get influenced by them. I appreciate all the things Krishna does, not because it is wrong (which it is, and that's my least favorite thing about him) , but because whatever he does, he does it for his love....... if you eliminate all the bad factors contributed to his manner, behavior, etc.......you will find that the end result makes sense...it is just that the way Krishna went with may not be the best :))))))

But he has been influenced by them. Every word and action that took place on the last night of the honeymoon(if you can call it that) was influenced by his dear father.......😡
He even said that his father was right...and proceeded to rant and rave about a women's place.......... "pathi parmeshvar hota hai"....what a load of crap. He was and is an abusive man, who is in many way like his family.....like his father and brother. Sure he's got some redeeming qualities at times...but for right now he's black listed in my books.......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: joker101

I would say that you do have a valid reason not to "like" Krishna's character,👍🏼 .......but i think that's the whole point. Krishna does not usually follow the "norm" for male protagonists, which makes his character different. He is bitter, yet sweet....illogical, yet logical......misunderstood, yet understanding...etc.......I for one am a HUGE Krishna fan because throughout all of his bad nature, he is still good😃. Growing up in a family like his, it is difficult NOT to get influenced by them. I appreciate all the things Krishna does, not because it is wrong (which it is, and that's my least favorite thing about him) , but because whatever he does, he does it for his love....... if you eliminate all the bad factors contributed to his manner, behavior, etc.......you will find that the end result makes sense...it is just that the way Krishna went with may not be the best :))))))

Likewise, and I love the oxymorons 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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after seeing shakti , i can say krishna is like an angel(though i don't condone his behavior and actions)... its coz of his upbringing....


but yeah i have seen ppl slitting their wrist...in-fact doing much more than that for their so called love(i cant fathom why so)...its more like an obsession in my opinon




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Posted: 15 years ago
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Whilst it is true Krishna's primary socialization must of had a impact on him as a person and his development, along with becoming desensitized but his behaviour cannot be excused. He must of had some outdoor influences along with other varying factors. He also now is a adult (I am guessing mid-late twenties) so he must at times think rationally such as the part (as someone said) about not hitting his wife. His father and brother beat their wife up and he refused to hit Pratigya so surely he must have some rationale, thus the impact of his socialization cannot be exaggerated.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: c111

So? Should Pratigya be grateful? I certaily would not be! It still seems minor in contrast to what he did before. Though he may 'love her' and as I stated before has some likeable characteristics, he did initially try to get intimate with Pratigya despite her refusal (Yes I do acknowledge it did not fully go ahead but he did attempt it nonetheless.) Thus, the authencity of love remains a controversial matter.
@Athena: Yaar! I was about to do the same thing (LIKE) and the same thought (KRISHNA's TRUE LOVE) stopped me!!! WOW!!!😆
Yes, I do think Krishna's feelings for Pratigya are NOT lust BUT honest and true love!!! This is the only trust of mine in Krishna that he has kept so far!!!😃 And, Krishna himself probably doesnt know that his feelings are true love coz, we all know how much BABA lubs to quote films and his two-only, dear buddies - Tunna and Chandu are always there to misguide him, of course!!!
And yes, I also think that Krishna is faaarrrr away from deserving Pratigya's gratefulness yet!
About Krishna getting intimate with Pratigya - u have to remember the prev.scene where he MADE Pratigya say 'Krishna, I love u'; SO, Krishna was just being BABA and getting back to his happy-denial-mood!!! And Pratigya did the RIGHT thing in cracking up his unreasonable hopes which got on this hot-tempered BABA's nerves and so the attempt/abuse which I think was bcoz he was being refused his right on her as her hubby parmeshwar NOT bcoz he was lusting to touch her!!!Moreover, I think it was his true love (Indirectly! The direct reason being 'u dont deserve my love' 😆)for her which stopped him from carrying on with his lowly attempt!!! No matter wat the reason, that was very wrong of him and when I was thinking that Krishna cant disappoint me more than he already did after the hotel-lobby mess, he thoughtlessly disappointed me and hurt my feelings!!!
It is easy to say "girls and boys get over it" but practically it is a whole different matter. I can guarantee if that happened to people in reality than just theoretically, then they would not 'get over it' as you put forth (however maybe with time.) Though you may believe my small analysis carries no weighting.
Totally AGREE with u here!!! It doesnt get over so soon in real life and even if we forget about comparing it to real life, esp. in case of Pratigya, it applies even more - She cant possibly forget about the sufferings she and her family went through when she has to be with and face the criminal/reason himself, each and every day and night!!! How can she possibly get over it when Krishna only reminds her of her sufferings!!! Just thinking about it makes one nervous and scared and angry!!!

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