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Posted: 15 years ago
#61
Thanks for your perspective. Again interesting how the story can be perceived from diff. angles.

Playing devil's advocate here................

With the upcoming "force" episode, Krishna is already being painted in shades of black. How is it different from Pratigya slapping him in public at her engagement to Nitin? Violence is violence no matter which gender initiates it. Does she get a free pass just for being a woman?😲 Pratigya fits in with the Takurs with her thappad marne ki aadath.😲

If the promo is how the story plays out seems the writers are heading in the direction of Pratigya going to need Krishna some da. Then how does she go from not accepting him as her husband vowing to hate him forever to falling in love with him.? Has to be some big transformation on Krishna's part or the ice around her heart has finally thawed but then what will be the reason for it? Could it be that Krishna stays away from the house and Pratigya and spends his time finishing high school and doing something worthwhile with his life.😆




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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: camjs

problem is that krishna thinks that pratigya loves him..but can't express her love for him....both of them r wrong in some ways...like adarsh said why don't u talk to him politely...she was giving advice to her brother but she is not doing this herself....and we know krishna's background and his family...prats should talk to him politely if she tell him that give me sometime than he will definetly understand but she doesn't even talk to him....and keep rejecting him....krishna is trying to make prats happy but doesn't know how to do that as he is illiterate...but prats is not doing anything to make her relationship better....



I agree. Some people go about healing other people's lives bec' they don't want to deal with their own. Pratigya is one such girl. She is deluding herself if she thinks she can live in that Takur household and continue this way forever. Not if SS and Krishna ki amma have anything to say about it.

I think the story arc with Adarsh calling Prats on her behavior with Krishna is the beginning of showing that Pratigya has flaws just like Krishna. They have spent the last four months bringing Krishna's character traits to the forefront. Now as he backs off and keeps his distance Pratigya flaws will be highlighted to level the playing field. Angad's gatiya acts will be exposed that could finally open Pratigya's eyes to some of the misunderstandings between them.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ania_91

I think its quite close to lust....and far away from love.
I've mentioned this before too that the way he said he doesn't like tears/fear on her face and then he was angry when she went to the beauty salon once ...it all shows that hez sorta obsessed with her looks
And all he has to talk about after getting married is SR all the while....Is it really about getting "physical" for him? Seems lust to me ... love is not only about adoring the one you love but also about the compromises you make for them to show you understand them....I see nothing like that with Krish. 😕

Hey Ania!!! I dont think his feelings are nything close to lust!!! Yes, the way he expresses his supposed-to-be love for Pratigya is far from love and comes out more as obsession. And he sure is obsessed/proud of her looks!!!
I actually love it when he says he doesnt like tears/fear on her face and I think thats one of his honest, innocent and unknown-to-him feelings that he can express rightly 😃 BUT I also think its very ironic coz he is the reason behind all her tears/fears 😔...
Yaar!!! I think Krishna can hardly forget his 'such an unforgettable' SR just like Pratigya can hardly forget the kidnapping Ouch...Just bcoz he tries his best to make himself happy by planning the honeymoon trip 😆, doesnt mean that he can completely forget wat he went through during their SR and think of it as unreal/nightmare 😆😆😆...So, I understand why he talks about his SR so much - he got an unpleasant reality check and all his dreams/wishes with Pratigya went under the drains...Just like Pratigya future dreams and hopes went under the drains with her decision to marry him...
I think, 'getting physical' - is more like 'his right as husband' than 'lust' for Krishna...and like his so-brilliant-pitajee SS said, he also thinks its a way to make Pratigya love/respect him back... IF it was really lust, I dont think he would have such control over his temper (yeah, he tried to choke her which expresses his anger not lust) during the SR or n coming up episode...Some thing/kind of feelings deep inside him stops him from stooping so low even after he says its his right and stuff and that I think is his true love for her!!!😉
love is not only about adoring the one you love but also about the compromises you make for them to show you understand them -- Totally agree with u here!!! And I expect Krishna to be such a person whenever Pratigya does fall in love with him!😍
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree with every word Charsimha....gosh i had tears watching pratigya in the the precap....really hope she teaches him a lesson
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: MERARAI

Thanks for your perspective. Again interesting how the story can be perceived from diff. angles.

Playing devil's advocate here................

With the upcoming "force" episode, Krishna is already being painted in shades of black. How is it different from Pratigya slapping him in public at her engagement to Nitin? Violence is violence no matter which gender initiates it. Does she get a free pass just for being a woman?😲 --- No!!! She gets a free pass bcoz Krishna was asking for it when he was hurting and insulting her in front of her own family and future-family-to-be...and u can go ahead and say Pratigya was asking for Krishna's beatings by continuously refusing him!!! BUT there is a HUGE difference between these two - coz, Krishna loves Pratigya but Pratigya, during the engagement incident, didnt even know who he was other than a stalker!!! Woah!!! U really cant see the obvious difference betweeen Krishna beating up Pratigya bcoz she cant accept someone she cant respect/love and Pratigya slapping Krishna (physical abuse, plz!!!) bcoz he was holding her hand so tightly and wasnt letting go, in front of her whole family and her soon-family-to-be???

Pratigya fits in with the Takurs with her thappad marne ki aadath.😲 - Still cant see how u compare a rightfully-deserved slap (oops! violent physical abuse, I meant 😆) to an unreasonable/cruel beating up of women ShockedShocked

If the promo is how the story plays out seems the writers are heading in the direction of Pratigya going to need Krishna some da. Then how does she go from not accepting him as her husband vowing to hate him forever to falling in love with him.? Has to be some big transformation on Krishna's part or the ice around her heart has finally thawed but then what will be the reason for it? Could it be that Krishna stays away from the house and Pratigya and spends his time finishing high school and doing something worthwhile with his life.😆 - 🤣 Well, I for one, dont expect Pratigya's heart to melt nytime sooner unless there is a big or little or ny kind of +ve transformation in Krishna or the kidnapping incident - actually, Krishna's so-called approaches and expressing his love are making me forget about that incident already, so cant use that one nymore...So, Me hopes Krishna changes his approaches/expressions of his love for Pratigya if he ever wants/expects her to love him back!!! AND it would definitely be interesting to see how the CVs bring this huge transformation in Krishna 😍 - be it making him stay away from the house and spend time sharping up his brains and both gets to stay away from the 'khich-khich' and enjoy some peace or do something worthwhile with their lives 🤣



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: limits

Hey Ania!!! dont think his feelings are nything close to lust!!! Yes, the way he expresses his supposed-to-be love for Pratigya is far from love and comes out more as obsession. And he sure is obsessed/proud of her looks!!!
I actually love it when he says he doesnt like tears/fear on her face and I think thats one of his honest, innocent and unknown-to-him feelings that he can express rightly 😃 BUT I also think its very ironic coz he is the reason behind all her tears/fears 😔...
Yaar!!! I think Krishna can hardly forget his 'such an unforgettable' SR just like Pratigya can hardly forget the kidnapping ...Just bcoz he tries his best to make himself happy by planning the honeymoon trip 😆, doesnt mean that he can completely forget wat he went through during their SR and think of it as unreal/nightmare 😆😆😆...So, I understand why he talks about his SR so much - he got an unpleasant reality check and all his dreams/wishes with Pratigya went under the drains...Just like Pratigya future dreams and hopes went under the drains with her decision to marry him...
I think, 'getting physical' - is more like 'his right as husband' than 'lust' for Krishna...and like his so-brilliant-pitajee SS said, he also thinks its a way to make Pratigya love/respect him back... IF it was really lust, I dont think he would have such control over his temper (yeah, he tried to choke her which expresses his anger not lust) during the SR or n coming up episode...Some thing/kind of feelings deep inside him stops him from stooping so low even after he says its his right and stuff and that I think is his true love for her!!!😉
love is not only about adoring the one you love but also about the compromises you make for them to show you understand them -- Totally agree with u here!!! And I expect Krishna to be such a person whenever Pratigya does fall in love with him!😍

Hey Limits! (sry, I'm not too sure what to call you by 😳)
Well.....you know for me, Krish is such a complicated character. Sometimes, the things he does and says makes him look like hez madly in love but then the way he lets his anger get the best of him which lands up abusing the one he claims to love, makes me change my view about him. I adore his innocence, naiive-ness, and honesty ....thats what made me like his character. But, then he always spoils it for me ....and this precap just sorta is getting to the limit. His views on woman have not changed at all as he still repeated in this SBB thiing that woman's place is at a man's feet or sumiing (couldn't understand....) I guess the phase hasn't come when he would change for the better, for his love for Pratigya......I'm not even sure if its love yet. Most of what it seems is attraction and some lust maybe....He is so delusional, so ignorant, that he can't see anything beyond his wife's pretty face...only sees what he wants to see... this also makes me think if its really love....or just obsession? Cuz he wants Pratigya to look the way HE wants...to look happy or whatever .... doesn't that happen in obsession?
I know that he was pretty shattered on the SR night....you're right about that whole thing that to compensate for whatever didn't happen then, he began with the honeymoon planning....
Okay, I guess it is his "right" for the physical thing being her hubby and all but if he really loved her then wouldn't he try to give her space or talk about all of this with her first to sort out what her problem is and why she isn't ready for any of "that"? I guess he doesn't fit in the way I view love 😕
Krish has a looooong way to go ....both in his mannerisms, behaviour etc and to discover the real meaning of love and that it just cant be always done by force!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Cant help but agree with u!!! BUT, I think u misunderstood me about the 'physical thing' being his 'right' as husband - I said that to make it clear that its 'NOT LUST' for him; not that its his 'Love' for her...

Of course, he doesnt give her ny space to talk or nything when he should if it was true love - but isnt that where he actually goes wrong with his expressions??? Wat I want to say is - just like Anchal said, what Krishna thinks of 'love' (from wat he saw in third-class films 😆)is not nything close to wat 'love' actually is BUT verrry deeeeeeeep inside his heart, his feelings for Pratigya are true, innocent and v. honest and Krishna is still unaware of that real/true kind of love which makes him hurt to see her cry/afraid besides looking ugly😆😆😆...
U r soooo right!!!! This guy is just tooo complicated to explain ny of his actions/behaviors 😳
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Originally posted by: limits

Cant help but agree with u!!! BUT, I think u misunderstood me about the 'physical thing' being his 'right' as husband - I said that to make it clear that its 'NOT LUST' for him; not that its his 'Love' for her...

Of course, he doesnt give her ny space to talk or nything when he should if it was true love - but isnt that where he actually goes wrong with his expressions??? Wat I want to say is - just like Anchal said, what Krishna thinks of 'love' (from wat he saw in third-class films 😆)🤣🤣🤣🤣 @ third class movies 🤣🤣🤣 Yup, thats why all his predicaments and claims of love are so over the top...first of all, we should provide him some good cenima...like good classic movies and not just those cheap ones..🤣 but again for a third class movie watcher, he still manages not to look cheap (atleast before when he got married....I love the scene how he gets to know her name...wahh! what a trick...no! I'm not praising the violence of it here by any means 😆) is not nything close to wat 'love' actually is BUT verrry deeeeeeeep inside his heart, his feelings for Pratigya are true, innocent and v. honest and Krishna is still unaware of that real/true kind of love which makes him hurt to see her cry/afraid besides looking ugly😆😆😆... haha...tht makes her look ugly....LOL! Exactly he is unaware....its mostly the outer beauty that he has fallen for as of now....when he falls for her inner beauty for who she really is and appreciates that....then it can be true love....I don't even know if he'll like her inner self?!?! lol....
U r soooo right!!!! This guy is just tooo complicated to explain ny of his actions/behaviors 😳

limits, nah, I didn't misunderstood the physical thing being his 'right'....maybe I'm going overboard claiming his 'want for love' as lust but then his behaviour leaves the audience no choice right? I mean if we can't see what he is doing as love then what else is it....what else can we call it ...(I guess I'm confused too).
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Me is confused as well Ania!!!😆 Its just that - My belief of Krishna's unaware-feelings for Pratigya as true love is the only thing that gives me some/ny hope of his improvement as a human being and So, I would like to call his expressions as nything like obsession, illusion, possessiveness, jealousy, uncivilized etc. BUT LUST 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Coz, if its really lust I wouldnt want Pratigya to ever fall in love with someone like him!!!

And about the inner beauty stuff - well, he calls her a sherni not just coz of her fair color, does he? He knows that she is a brave one and about her slapping Angad and also himself - being the one who experienced her slap first-hand... Plus, I think, when he fell for at first sight, he also fell for the girl who was soo kind to a stray dog as well - remember he was watching the dog as well when he followed wat she was looking at and the scene after she left!!! So, maybe he doesnt see her inner-beauty completely, but watever he saw and knows of her is enough for him to go bonkers 🤣
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