Originally posted by: MERARAI
Why hasn't Pratigya taken her own advice and discussed with Krishna his behavior that has caused her so much pain and anger? Isn't she the educated one in relationship with Krishna? --Why indeed!!! Maybe Pratigya(or moi😉) thinks Krishna doesnt want to listen to nything unpleasant from her and might succeed in strangling her in his next attempt 🤪Here we go again with 'education against Pratigya' theories 😆😆😆
He has tried to approach her on many occasions - Oh! u mean, like approaching her with a beautiful necklace during their wedding night after ruining her self-respect and forcefully making her marry him or may be, in the recent events like asking her to hold his hand and finish the waiting period right after forcing 'I love u' out of her in public which he did right after insulting her in public; unless, u think even that was one of Krishna's many different ways to approach her - actually, that was!!!😆 Well, I see there is a HUGE problem in HIS approaches that makes Pratigya give the - but other than cold stares and walking away from him - and very little/none choice or chance for her to - she hasn't stepped up to open up communication between them.
When has silence and a cold shoulder ever resolved any problems in any relationship esp. a marriage? - ummm... last time I checked, Pratigya DID NOT WANT to resolve NY kind of problem in her so-called forceful-marriage-for-society/family 😕
For an educated person she has misplaced her thinking cap somewhere in Takur Niwas😲. Adarsh was quick to point out to her today about her treatment of Krishna while she was preaching to him. Way to go, Adarsh! - Me dont thinks so!😒...Adarsh can say it very easily to her just to stop her from nagging at him BUT he wasnt kidnapped or scared to death or choked or physically abused or humiliated or - u get the idea - by Komal as much as Pratigya has been by Krishna...She was 'preaching' to her own brother coz like she said, being a woman and being 'educated', she sort of understands Komal, who was wronged and is now stuck and suffering and making her family suffer as well. And just like Adarsh cant exactly understand Pratigya's situation, Pratigya cant understand Adarsh's actions of ignoring his wife as well!! But unlike Pratigya, Adarsh asked for wat he is getting now, so, he should do the tolerating and understanding part as well!!! Not compare his situation with his sister's
She seems more concerned about her brother and sister in law's marriage than her own. Komal blames her for her marriage to Adarsh yet she is readily available to them and everyone else but not Krishna? It takes two to tango. Whatever her problem with Krishna why make a public spectacle of her rejection of him for the world to see with that famous Saxena sourface? He is her husband, she made the choice to marry him even if she sees him as her bitter half. - I guess u forgot the wedding night scene (just like Krishna did and made up his honeymoon plans 😆) since Krishna was badly hurt and it broke his heart!!! So, its quite understandable that u forgot the promo after the marriage where Pratigya says that the marriage is only for society but for her its a challenge... Hellloooo!!! Pratigya does NOT accept Krishna as her husband or believes in this so-called forceful-marriage with him!!! So, even though she was forced into agreeing (is not = choice) to marry him, u think she should still care about Krishna or her marriage with him - just coz he is her husband with whom she has to spend the rest of her life and she happens to be the educated one which makes it very easy on her to forget about everything she went through or is still going through and hope for a bright happily ever after??? Phewww....
She is available to Komal bcoz of her brother and her family and I think she said that its bcoz then Komal will be of less trouble to her family... If Krishna can make a public nuisance out of her with every chance he got, I dont see wats soo wrong with Pratigya unable to tolerate his touch in public..... Sure! Both r in two different levels - him being uneducated and her being educated - still cant stop the way they feel, can they ? It doesnt stop her from hating his touch just like her hating him does not stop him loving her!!! After all the public incidents, I think the public gayi tel lene - just doo watever/however u feel like doing!!!😆😆😆Both Adarsh and Pratigya seem to think they have the answers to their life's problems overriding their parents' advice. Their decisions are not well thought out for the long run either esp. given that they are the educated ones.
- Pratigya wasnt in ny situation to think and decide after the kidnapping incident and therefore, was forced to make the decision she made; plus, she didnt have many options left to decide or choose from...Adarsh, however, made a hasty decision with his feelings to protect his sister only and without thinking of ny other options!!! OR maybe, the CVs couldnt come up with ny other idea than making the two couple get married 😆 I wonder if the CVs ever thought that we would be relating each and every decision made by the Saxena's to education 🤣 Disappointing!
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I've always believed as an educated girl her decision to marry Krishna was impulsive and questionable
-True!!! Pratigya's decision to marry Krishna WAS impulsive and forceful and it has got nothing to do with education 😉.
She tells Adarsh to handle Komal with love and respect to turn things around yet she doesn't see it necessary to give her own husband the time of day? -hmmmm...How to put it simply? Yeah, like this maybe: KOMAL is soooo NOT = KRISHNA. Compared to wat Krishna did to Pratigya before and after marriage (lets just forget abt. the Kidnapping incident and beating-up Nitin and that he could have done worse!), Komal didnt even do half of half of half of half of --- it. Plus, I am sure u just read it a few lines ago - Pratigya DOES NOT consider Krishna as her husband! Why should she even waste her breath on someone who doesnt even want to know that how/why most of his actions only ruins her self-respect!!!
Why not divorce him for her moment of insanity (deciding to marry him) and walk away? - Are u seriously asking that??? Lets see why not - Coz, Krishna WONT ever let her divorce him and lets suppose she somehow manages to - Krishna will definitely not leave her family alone for whom she actually decided to marry him in the first place....I am sure u get the idea by now 😆....
Did she really think that she could coast through life fixing everyone else's problems while watching her own marriage continue to fall apart? - Pratigya does NOT watch over her so-called forceful-marriage when she doesnt even consider it as a respectful/right marriage and lets say, she did watch it, she probably couldnt care less about it falling apart, given how much she 'cares' about Krishna at all!!! Atleast, helping out others would keep her from thinking about her dark and dreadful future!!!
Phewww....Its too long and u still have a lot to say and so do I...I will just continue with dissecting the rest of ur comment later coz right now, me fingers are hurting too much 🤣
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