Girls:How will you respond to quiet guys? - Page 2

Originally posted by: TroubleShooter

you are describing dating_mystery .. he is quiet, and processes information logically and speaks intellectually, he is always quoting studies published.. and he listens and understands very well.. He also has a good sense of humour.. and might I add? He has a good body ( so say the girls) and he comes with advanced peripheral vision!

Originally posted by: dating_mystery

She's basically preferring a masculine brain.

Originally posted by: d3vilkid33wani

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don't be jelly, you have collected your share of dating mystery ki d33wani's at the gym too from the looks of it.[/quote]

😆 If that were true...

[quote]If she is a good conversationalist, that situation would not arise at all. If the girl likes you, she'll be trying her best to keep the ball rolling and contributing her bit to the conversation as well. You have to talk a bit initially at least to get stuff out of her at first if not to impress her if you're the one pursuing her while she's playing hard to get.[/quote]

She IS a good conversationalist, I tell you. I've seen her talking for HOURS to her girlfriend and she responds pretty well to other people except me.

[quote]But if she is interested too, she can still be a little reserved because she doesn't wanna come off as ... too excited to see you and to be talking to you. In that case, you can prepare a list of questions to ask her.. at home and then try to pull it off at the gym and see how it works out? [/quote]

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I talked enough to her, I gave her enough chance. Now SHE should respond and start a conversation. If she's not, I take it she's just playing and not really interested. She doesn't even talk to me like she talks to strangers. She's a VERY friendly girl I tell you.

[quote]It can get pretty tiresome after a bit if she still plays hard to get, that's when you should say oh well and move on. Guy's gotta keep some of his ego intact too. If she is usually peppy n chatty but just throws scraps here and there while you are jumping up and down over it, chances are she is not interested and you should catch the next bus. And that's only a few out of many situations. which one is it? Unless the girl is quiet too, then rab ne bana di jodi.

Originally posted by: dating_mystery

Looks like someone likes you! 😉

Originally posted by: d3vilkid33wani

let me guess why. for bewildering the users with millions of dating mysteries, questions and queries.

Originally posted by: dating_mystery

Looks like someone likes you! 😉

I was no one before.

I was searching for a India oriented forum where I can ask questions like these; none were active except this one.

You got a better place? I got banned from Yahoo answers long ago in case you were wondering.

Originally posted by: d3vilkid33wani

dating mystery...I'm having a tough time to follow and i have a very short attentions span as it is. talking to you about this girl feels like getting into a maze that I'm not being able to get out, while i wish you all the best in your endeavor, your case sounds like that of benjamin button to me.. color me curious and mysterious just like your name. is the gym your favorite pickup spot... ?

let's talk about how and why you got banned from yahoo instead!! is this your first time joining this site? what other sites have you been active in the past? do you have an e-history that might interest us? do indulge us as we are all bored?

Originally posted by: TroubleShooter

thats quite an achievement being banned from yahoo answers.. I would be proud of that. I have only been banned from this place.. but even now I am hard pressed to find anyone who wants to bother about banning me. They turned my ID into a cuss word so I can't use it .. try it Dr 3 viL .. try it as one word and it appears like this Dr3v*L ... with a * .. lolol I dont know why? I am a nice fella don't you think? I wish I could look from the outside and see what they see in me that upsets them so much.

Originally posted by: d3vilkid33wani

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I don't get uncomfortable reading stories be it yours or someone else'.. they're always welcome in this place. I was saying that you're in a sticky situation mostly because I think that you overanalyze girls and their behavior and it leads to what we call analysis paralysis. *.* Just go with your gut.. if you connect with someone, you don't have to watch each and every move of yours or even think twice, really. Don't do things JUST to evoke a certain reaction from the girl. Do things the way you think will make you feel the best--that will exude confidence and nothing is a bigger people puller than self confidence that radiates from within.

Thanks for spilling your entire history of online action here too ... I got more than I bargained for. You;re right, physics and computer science are not my cup of tea. Most of the people, including guys, have a hard time with that whole ballgame.