Girls:How will you respond to quiet guys?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Suppose a guy has approached you by asking you 2 or 3 questions, and then he runs out of questions and keeps quiet.

What do you think this guy is doing? I mean are you aware that he's willing to date you or do you think he's just trying to be friends?

Now suppose -- you like the guy. What will do you after he runs out of questions; will you ask about him? Or tell him more about yourself or extend the discussions so he can ask more questions?

By quiet I don't mean he doesn't talk at all, I mean if the girl is not responding in detail, i.e. not giving him enough surface to grip on and ask questions about her then he'll be able to concoct only 2 or 3 questions.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Some guys are just quiet in general and that can get difficult as you can fill the gap but will chatter. They prefer that you talk over them doing the talking. As long as you can pass that stage then it can work.
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Originally posted by: -Pj-

Some guys are just quiet in general and that can get difficult as you can fill the gap but will chatter. They prefer that you talk over them doing the talking. As long as you can pass that stage then it can work.



So basically this quiet guy has very less chances of succeeding as compared to a chatterbox with like... 10 15 questions.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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"d3vilkid33wani"

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Originally posted by: d3vilkid33wani

If the girl likes the guy, she'll keep on asking questions so that he answers and she'll supply more to the conversation so that he feels less burdened to say things. and laugh if he says things out of turn although she'll find it cute.. at times. But she'll appreciate that you at least said something. If you're that quiet, maybe you should spend more time hanging out with people or even practicing conversations at home .. or have some things up your sleeve to fill the awkward silences. Good luck.



And suppose she didn't like um? She wont give him any chance to make new questions?

By quiet I dont mean he doesn't talk at all! I mean if the girl is not responding in detail, i.e. not giving him enough surface to grip on and ask questions about her then he'll be able to concoct only 2 or 3 questions.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dating_mystery

"d3vilkid33wani"

😆 <-- why you laugh for dating_mystery? 😡 who are you dating? no one I know ! 😆 but who were you before ???



And suppose she didn't like um? She wont give him any chance to make new questions?

By quiet I dont mean he doesn't talk at all! I mean if the girl is not responding in detail, i.e. not giving him enough surface to grip on and ask questions about her then he'll be able to concoct only 2 or 3 questions.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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would prefer a quiet guy... who speaks but logical and intellectual...😊 i think chatterbox ka theka ladkiyon ne lekar rakha hai...😆. it would be gud if he's an excellent listener... bas sense of humor accha hona chahiye...
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Originally posted by: janhavi1916

would prefer a quiet guy... who speaks but logical and intellectual...😊 i think chatterbox ka theka ladkiyon ne lekar rakha hai...😆. it would be gud if he's an excellent listener... bas sense of humor accha hona chahiye...


you are describing dating_mystery .. he is quiet, and processes information logically and speaks intellectually, he is always quoting studies published.. and he listens and understands very well.. He also has a good sense of humour.. and might I add? He has a good body ( so say the girls) and he comes with advanced peripheral vision!
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you are describing dating_mystery .. he is quiet, and processes information logically and speaks intellectually, he is always quoting studies published.. and he listens and understands very well.. He also has a good sense of humour.. and might I add? He has a good body ( so say the girls) and he comes with advanced peripheral vision!

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Originally posted by: TroubleShooter



😆 <-- why you laugh for dating_mystery? 😡 who are you dating? no one I know ! 😆 but who were you before ???



Looks like someone likes you! 😉

I was no one before.

I was searching for a India oriented forum where I can ask questions like these; none were active except this one.

You got a better place? I got banned from Yahoo answers long ago in case you were wondering.
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Originally posted by: janhavi1916

would prefer a quiet guy... who speaks but logical and intellectual...😊 i think chatterbox ka theka ladkiyon ne lekar rakha hai...😆. it would be gud if he's an excellent listener... bas sense of humor accha hona chahiye...



Girls become mum in front of me, so I'm not sure if they chatter. Although my guy friends say they do.

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