Originally posted by: Henna 786
wow u have views! 😆 love them!
i think Bani and Jai are both justified in there own way..
Bani is a 'mother' to Pia and has knwn her for 20 odd years.. so they are closly attached..
Jai knws the pain he went thru.. but Bani cant just leave pia..
do u knw wat i mean or shud i rephrase.. 😆 i knw im comfusin nowadays 😆
Henz!
Henz,
You'd be surprised at how opinionated I really am. I was quiet until SARS hit Canada in 2003 and since I work in healthcare had to become very vocal 😡 (that's me during SARS) to protect my staff.
Truly I understand what you are saying. I have a brother who is a bit of a player - moving from girl to girl. He was very sick when he was 4 years old and was paralyzed from the waist down - thank god he walked again. So we babied him for years, overlooking all of his faults and letting him basically do whatever he wanted. Now - it is difficult to get him to understand when he makes mistakes. He will actually argue with us saying that it's his life. He has forgotten all the sacrifices that we have made for him. My family and I take partial blame - but now he is an adult and we realize that we may have contributed to his behaviour but now he needs to take responsibility.
We haven't abandoned him and yes he still lives at home so I understand Bani's sense of responsibility. But what good is she doing by absolving Pia of all her wrongdoings. Pia needs to be told in no uncertain terms that her behaviour is disgusting and unbelievably evil and selfish.
Bani doesn't have to leave Pia - but she shouldn't have in in Walia mental mansion that just adds to psychoticness in the mansion 😆.
I just hate that poor JW has to suffer again because of Pia. When will this madness end 😕.