Ishaan is guilty as well. Samrat is an Ass Part 3

Originally posted by: likarsh

I've been meaning to mention this point ever since I caught up with the show last weekend. It's about Ishaan's belief that Samrat will change, or Urmi will Change Samrat.

He is actively making Samrat look better to Urmi and her family, he hides certain things, covers for Samrat, makes excuses, and makes Urmi believe something else about Samrat. He doesn't do any of this with an ulterior motive, and he does it from an innocent, good place. But the very idea he keeps spouting is very, very problematic.

In his talk with Trisha, he talks about how Samrat will change, he's sure. And Trisha asks what if Samrat doesn't change. Ishaan has no real answer, just his faith and belief that Sarmat will change. None of this would be a problem if he didn't cover up for Samrat many times, and he himself could confidently say Urmi knows what she's getting into; but he does, and he can't.

This is exactly the mentality with which people get their jackass, asshole sons married to some naive, innocent girl--just hoping oh he will change (though I would say Urmi isn't completely naive). As I said, Ishaan isn't doing it to that extent and it comes from an good place, but the idea that he keeps perpetuating is not ideal and is very problematic.

Of course the show will validate Ishaan's statement that "Samrat will change, Urmi will change him." So in the end, this problematic idea and Ishaan's wrong actions will be validated.

And will Samrat's mother, Rashmi, Urmi's family, will they all come to know that Trisha was indeed absolutely in the right, and Samrat was in the wrong? Considering how these shows go, even if Urmi does find out, the family will be in the dark. How is that justice or vindication to Trisha?

Actually, even if that family finds out, half of them will still blame Trisha for confronting Samrat in the first place; and the other half of them will blame Trisha for confronting Samrat but still be glad he's married Urmi due to it and the wedding has gone through.

I wonder if Urmi will be angry at her family about not letting her know about Samrat's refusal, for hiding such an important matter regarding her LIFE.

Originally posted by: Parm.

Loved and agreed with your whole post but what's in blue was exactly what I was thinking after watching yesterday's epi. Poor Trisha will never get any vindication, sure Urmi's gonna find out, and I'm sure sooner rather than later what an a**hole her hubby is but only she will ever find out. The way she's brought up she'll never share it with her family...Even if she eventually tells Trisha about it and apologizes it won't be the same unless the whole family knows why Trisha behaved the way she did.

As for Urmi asking Trisha not to come to the wedding? That's something else she can't say in front of the family as that will paint Samrat in a bad light and she can't have that now can she? So once again Trisha will be blamed about being a moody spoiled brat who doesn't want to participate in her own cousin's wedding.😭

Originally posted by: Dia_F

True, if Samrat can change, then why didn't Ishaan change him until now? No, let the innocent wife do that. The shock Urmi will have when she will realize that Samrat is not the romantic hero than Ishaan made her believe he is!

Originally posted by: Dolly-heart

Liks your point is right on.

Ishaan constantly making excuses for Samrat has actually given Samrat permission to behave boorishly and he knows Ishaan is there to smooth the waters.

Samrat's father or mother have not been able to bring about any positive change in him till now and here again in a typical Indian Serial comes a sweet naive girl with stars in her eyes that will have the task to make an ASS into a thoroughbred !!

Liks I think the family sort of suspects something is amiss but in their need to get their daughter married they all are being blind and deaf to their niggling doubts.

And Ishaan is not helping by constantly covering for him.

The whole family will regret not listening to Trishna but by that time it may be too late.