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before you read further i am not a pr of tanisha , i m someone who watched this show from start with no fav in particular, but of late tanisha for me has come out as winner and the reasons i feel so are as follows:
1. first week when kushal was creating chaos and planning on walk out for gym, gauhar instigated him to take stand , it was tanisha who diffused the situation by telling him not to be silly and this show can do wonders for his career . he saw sense and stopped his drama - LEADERSHIP QUALiTY
2. in money minting task shilpa, kamya refused arman's breakfast which was made before the task began which was inhuman for anyone since the guy was without food for 24 hrs in a cage, kamya pratyusha claimed to be his so called friends but they didn't think even once abt the chap, would shilpa have done same if it had been apurva instead of arman . tanisha was the only one to fight for him at that time there was no romance in the air anywhere - HUMAN QUALITY, SENSITIVE TO OTHER PEOPLE
3. in box task, she was harassed like anything by kushal gauhar , gauhar though kept saying nai kushal nai but didn't take any strong step to stop it totally. what all they did we all saw. after she came out kushal went on abusing her calling her fat face and wat not finally she pushed him and sent a strong msg don't mess with me to which gauhar started screaming foul and what not abhi gauhar madam ke muh mein awaaz aa gayi suddenly she could create scenes and raise voice for bb to intervene all the while not once did tansiha play damsel in distress and cry and scream or create drama like gauhar did time and again in the show - SHOWS TANISHA IS NOT A DOORMAT, CAN STAND FOR HERSELF, AND IS NOT A DRAMA QUEEN (GAUHAR)
4. when whole house ganged up against her she didn't sit alone and cry or sulk she maintained her cool and tried to resolve the differences wherever she could - WILLPOWER, STRONG HEART
5. when arman shouts at her and she gives it back to him in her own way infact whenever she has fight with anyone she gives it back to them but then later doesn't hold in it her heart long or become vindictive and gives a fair chance to other other person to mend things like in case of kamya , kushal ,ajaz & andy and then based on their behaviour decides - shows she is not vengeful / vindictive and doesn't hold -ve things in heart for long.
6. when gauhar was alone , she was the one telling andy ajaz to speak to her and mend things inspite of gauhar's rude ways with her. SHOWS SHE'S CARING AND NOT SELFISH.
7. arman screaming and shouting at her she sees no point in screaming back as ask any psychiatrist thats not the way to deal such people. in fact they would suggest u keep quiet when the other person is screaming and then they would calm down else things would get ugly , however if the person attacks physically then to take neccessary action and thats what she is doing ...SHOWS SHE HAS BRAINS TO HANDLE PEOPLE IN ANY SITUATION AND IS NOT A DOORMAT BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T SCREAM HER LUNGS OUT.
8. in she tried time and again tried to mend the relations between the people around her be it andy- arman, kamya-andy,kamya-ajaz,sangram-andy and succeeded. in fact she even tried to counsel ajaz and andy to sort things with gauhar inspite of all that gauhar did against her. - SHOWS SHE TRIES TO CREATE A HEALTHY ENVIRONMENT AROUND HER
9. unlike others she hasn't lied about anything so far in the house be it her age,family, career or fights or situations and voice her opinions about correctly - HONEST AND STRAIGHTFORWARD
infact if screaming wailing and creating a drama is what its all about being today's modern woman then i m sad to say ppl need a reality check and get their priorities right because modern woman is being caring,loyal, sensible, calm ,collected, brave, can handle any situation thrown at her without creating a big drama, tries to sort the issues peacefully, resolves misunderstanding between people, does thing to ensure peace is maintained and calls spade a spade.
AND i think tanisha fits the bill perfectly.
if one has a friend like tanisha what else would one need.
as for her nightvideo she's an adult what she does is really not anyone's concern ppl talking about circulating videos demeaning her , talking of bringing shame to her plz think what a lowlife mentality u are... on one side we say we are 21st generation broad minded, then again say we should have right to decide what we want and do as a woman... here u leave no stone unturned to ridicule and bring shame to another woman for what... for her choice. not like she made out on live tv for that matter even if she did its her life. grow up and get a life! and stop having dual faces
Udne Ki Aasha
