I side with Swayam- Sharon has to 'Change'

Okay this forum has repeatedly been complaining about how they hate that Swayam wants a "change" in Sharon. I wanna ask you so what? What's wrong in it? Relationship means adapting and changing oneself - it's called CHARACTER GROWTH!! For example - An angry young man changing himself to a sober, calm one in a relationship, isn't it needed? Similarly, if Sharon has changed from a self-centered B to a helpful girl, kya problem hai bhai??

Well I agree to a few things.. l


ike Sharon.. for heaven sake needs a change.. she needs to change...

she needs to value her relationship... she cannot keep her reputation and ego.. as her atmost priority..

she needs to get over it.. accept him.. not just personally.. but publicly as well..

and about the screen space.. though I understand why.. but still... I guess during the Secret admirer track it was KriYansh who all the time said.. Sharon,, Swayam.. SwaRon...

so if this time Sharon is concerned for Kria.. then whats the problem.. she is doing it for Swayam.. she is trying to get a change.. Maybe this can help to get SwaRon back..

Thats my opinion.. and I am sure people would be against it..

Sharon is trying to prove herself.. that she is trying to keep her ego aside and change.. and that is most importantly because she wants to prove this to Swayam..


She thinks maybe this change can make him realise she is making an attempt to change.. for him..


And KriSha.. everyone has known how GOOD their bond was.. initially.. as enemies..


undoubtedly.. Swayam wants an acceptance.. publicly.. wherein she is sure about her feeling and wont treat it the way she did... But as of now he himself is shattered to such an extent that he will not be able to accept anything so easily..

Firstly let me make it clear on behalf every single swaron fan here. By lover boy back DOES IT MEAN SWAYAM BEGGING FOR LOVE and Sharon throwing attitude??? i do not understand this perception of some fans. Where did u see such thing coming as a request from any swaron fan where we asked swayam will have to go back of Sharon and Sharon be in a attitude mode. Swayam has been always expressive of his love for sharon. Post break up we cannot expect the expressive Swayam be there but By lover boy we simply mean Swayam's love be existent still whether sharon behaves nicely to others or not. No matter he gives a chance to Sharon or not.


Surely a lot things must change. Swayam need to change his misconceptions abt Sharon that she does not loves him, which must be out of Sharon's efforts for HIM not for others. Sharon need to realise that she cannot always let go of swayam . Swayam's fear that Sharon wud leave him need to change. Sharon's intensity and realisations need to get better for swayam. THESE ARE THE CHANGES THAT GO IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE SWARON BREAK UP.


But what are we shown???? Swayam decides to give second chance to Sharon coz Sharon is nice to someone else???? This is not the change we have expected out of Swayam. Does it tell Swayam's decision any bit sensible??? It was Swayam's denial mode. And the denial mode changed because Sharon is nice to others??? It makes me feel insulting to see Swayam giving a chance to his and Sharon's relationship not because he thinks that she also loves him, which was why they broke up remember.


How does making special efforts for someone else would elaborate Sharon's intensity has changed to better for Swayam???? How does it make a point that Sharon believes in longevity of a relationship??


This change angle was needed for better reasons. Not for showing an altogether change in basic characterisation of swayam and sharon.

His love for her.. is not to be questioned.. because he still loves her.. but facing all of it that he has gone through.. I dont think he is ready.. no one would be.. it takes time to overcome such sitautions..

and for giving a second chance.. he would give it not for some goody good behavior with some third party's but when he is satisfied.. when he feels strong enough to face it.. assured enough..

And Sharon was initially friends with Kria for Swayam.. but now she isn't.. not for Swayam.. as per my information..

Originally posted by: muskurana

Just one question: Swayam broke up with Sharon and post break up in many occasions his problem was that he didn't think Sharon loves him enough and is just a passing phase. So how exactly is Sharon-Kria equation even remotely related to that?? How does Sharon-Kria good bond prove Sharon's love for Swayam?

I agree dragging Kria into SwaRon scenes,, every time is unjust..

But there is a better side to this.. which is KriSha bond.. their friendship..

we have always rejoiced the ReYam buddies.. so hope for that positive bond here as well..

Swayam saying Sharon is changing by looking at the way she is behaving with Kria is not acceptable. Why can't he see she really loves him a lot and doesn't hesitate to accept him in front of everyone?