IS Tanisha really doormat?

My observation is NO.. she is not

The reason is by definition, doormat is something which everyone uses for wiping their dirt. But in Tanisha case, its not. She gives back to anyone who is against her.

Whoever calls her doormat, tell me one situation when she is being used by doormat by Gauhar Khan or Sangy, Andy or anyone else for that matter.

She is like that only when its a case of Armaan.. so yes, for Armaan she is in blind love with him and she stands like that which could be because of her care towards him and she knows very well that if she reacts, it will be damaging to her relation which she does not want (and thats what blind love is)

The only lady which portrayed herself as doormat is "Sherlyn Chopra" from BB4, wherein everyone used to get their work done through her but NOT Tanisha

Just to give one example, if a mother is very caring and listen to all abuses from his son... does not make a mother doormat.. its her blond love towards son which makes her doing so. By saying so, I am not saying that Tanisha is acting like a mother of Armaan but I am just giving an example in this situation.

She is Armaans doormat! So yes she is a doormat

A mother taking insults from a son is even more ridiculous and I don't think mother's do dat only when they r completely helpless and totally dependant on their sons they do dat and dat is a very pitiful situation. ...so yes tanisha is being a doormat

Originally posted by: Breather

She is Armaans doormat! So yes she is a doormat

The problem is "doormat" word can not be used for one specific scenario. She acts very soft like a weak lady in front of Armaan but that does not make her doormat.

She stands tough against all other person... so this word is not right against her

Originally posted by: drafsul

A mother taking insults from a son is even more ridiculous and I don't think mother's do dat only when they r completely helpless and totally dependant on their sons they do dat and dat is a very pitiful situation. ...so yes tanisha is being a doormat

Even I do not support the way she acts in front of Armaan but the word "doormat" is not justifiable. Its blind care from Tanisha for Armman.. that's it

Actually u are right, apart from Arman no one got guts to troll tani. I would rather call her a lovefool.

Originally posted by: monu_tan

Actually u are right, apart from Arman no one got guts to troll tani. I would rather call her a lovefool.

Exactly... she is a lovefool.. No doubt. And she will realize it later or sooner but she is not a doormat

Originally posted by: Amfunda

Even I do not support the way she acts in front of Armaan but the word "doormat" is not justifiable. Its blind care from Tanisha for Armman.. that's it

I respect ur POV but being a doormat is when u let someone trod upon u and she is allowing armaan to do exactly dat he mistreats her like hell how can u justify someone keeping quiet when someone pulls their chair from below them she was not da least bit angry at him for doing dat...is she not being a doormat when she is taking armaans "tu jana .." , " aap insecure ho ..." in front of 84 cameras ...in love u cannot be so blind that u loose ur self respect. ...even if dats da case with a single person its still called as being a doormat 😊

Originally posted by: Amfunda

My observation is NO.. she is not

The reason is by definition, doormat is something which everyone uses for wiping their dirt. But in Tanisha case, its not. She gives back to anyone who is against her.

Whoever calls her doormat, tell me one situation when she is being used by doormat by Gauhar Khan or Sangy, Andy or anyone else for that matter.

She is like that only when its a case of Armaan.. so yes, for Armaan she is in blind love with him and she stands like that which could be because of her care towards him and she knows very well that if she reacts, it will be damaging to her relation which she does not want (and thats what blind love is)

The only lady which portrayed herself as doormat is "Sherlyn Chopra" from BB4, wherein everyone used to get their work done through her but NOT Tanisha

Just to give one example, if a mother is very caring and listen to all abuses from his son... does not make a mother doormat.. its her blond love towards son which makes her doing so. By saying so, I am not saying that Tanisha is acting like a mother of Armaan but I am just giving an example in this situation.

I disagree with u completely..

when this term "doormat" is used- it's usually done to describe a relationship between 2 people ONLY! Rajat Sharma or the forum members who've labelled Tanisha as DOORMAT before, have not done it to describe Tani's relationship with Gauhar/ Andy/ Ajaz... Tani is ONLY & ONLY Armaan's DOORMAT.. Heck, he'll be MAD if someone else try to use his favorite doormat..


And blind love and caring for the guy in a relationship- yeah that maybe acceptable BUT letting him walk ALL OVER u- that's the sign of a TRUE doormat- which Tanisha is- and will always remain one..
👍🏼 It's tough for such people to gauge their own self destructive behavior! They don't see anything wrong in how they are being treated until it's REALLY late!

Last paragraph.. Mother with her abusive son- I couldn't disagree with u more.. U urself wrote it's an abusive relationship BUT mom shud stay coz she's caring??! It's ur opinion- I respect it but I would have to disagree again!!

If anyone treats their mother like this- then they are just taking her for granted, using her and it just depicts an unhealthy bond! The mother is being insulted and abused, so she should either walk out OR tell the son to stop treating her like a DOORMAT! Staying and caring would not CHANGE anything!!

Obviously, she is. No doubt about that.

-Riddhi-