Why Do We Treat Men and Wmen Victim Diff? - Page 4

Originally posted by: majumdar

Meena,

(Oh well, Bani never felt guilty for what happened to Jai when Pia DIXIT ran away for the mandap.)

Her guilt of course never prevented her from marrying Pia Dixit in his own house and also getting him to bless the couple. And if she did not do that, JW would have destroyed PP which later he might have regret doing, don't you think so? After he cooling down and realising that Pia was just a crash, would be able to face himself for destroying PP in anger? That marriage was done to prevent JW from making any disastrous decision in anger.

And of course never felt any guilt for what ND/KD did to him. I repeat once again, any scenes pertaining to what she things of ND/KD's deeds towards JW was not shown, hence we cannot assume that Bani never felt guilty for those things.

(Well, JW could believe that Bani might still have feeling towards pushkar)

Whatever be his feelings about B-P angle, he accepted her back on KC-nite no questions asked. And Bani accepted him despite being hurt for his POST-ONS actions, didn't she? Again the drug thing was more for Jai to forgive himself. Bani would have forgiven Jai anyway but yes would have taken some time to come out of the shock.

(Bani cannot suspect Jai when all the clues lay around her…)

Of course, she can and she should. But why make a song and dance about trust. Why go into a coma when she found out JW's kartoot?For one, JW is different from Bani. Not everyone will react the same to a shock as if they are clones😆😆 Then why have Bani and Jai, can have two Jai's?!?!😆 After all JW never went into a coma when he was made to believe that Bani was in luv with Pooch and had aborted his baby. Well, Bani did not go to pushkar screaming "I luv u" just like JW emotionally screamed "Mera Bachcha".🤢 Probably JW would have gone into coma if he found Bani emotionally screaming and kissing Pushakr "I luv u"😆😆

(She trusted him but just felt he would not be able to handle the hurt.)

Why would JW feel hurt if he finds out that his nephew has been murdered. Why would JW who has made it a habit of thrashing J-R be hurt by their treachery? I think Bani is putting JW in her position. Like Bani would get hurt with her sisters betray her. I guess that's why. Skunk manipulated her by bringing Jai's name in it. Just like JW gets manipulated when Bani's is brought in. I dont support her hidding things. I also want her to tell Jai. But I am just trying to bring out Bani's thoughts.😕

Rgds,

Pri