What happened to bhaili office ?

What is the point opening a NGO bhaili office ? Anandi is always shown in the house folding clothes, making meals, today she was dusting the things on the center table in the hall of KB. Ganga is atleast shown in the hospital as a nurse. Why did they make anandi jobless like a typical bahu in a joint family 😲 what was the need to show her only doing household chores ? As far as know shiv loved the major quality of anandi trying to change the mindset of people, fight for injustice and be independent. What is she doing now 😲 wasting time with the tray and serving a brat saanchi and her mom.

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

What is the point opening a NGO bhaili office ? Anandi is always shown in the house folding clothes, making meals, today she was dusting the things on the center table in the hall of KB. Ganga is atleast shown in the hospital as a nurse. Why did they make anandi jobless like a typical bahu in a joint family 😲 what was the need to show her only doing household chores ? As far as know shiv loved the major quality of anandi trying to change the mindset of people, fight for injustice and be independent. What is she doing now 😲 wasting time with the tray and serving a brat saanchi and her mom.

Nathu is sacked. Anandi is only servant. She was made working only when she was left by her husband. Otherwise her duty is to stay at home, roam around with trays, listen to gaalis. She doesn't even go out unless in laws ask her to.
Bhaili's a joke. Lip service bas.

I find even Ganga's empowerment fake. CVs have put her out because she's working with her own husband and often they bump into each other and steal romantic moments. Even Ganga would be installed at home only if she were in any other profession.

Educated and working women are detested by CVs. Sanchi's so educated yet she does not want to work or start her own business. She finds it better to gossip at home or eat and drink with friends.

Gauri was educated and working but they made her a vamp. Ashima was wonderful but they made her promiscuous as if working and independent women are weak in character.

Ideal woman only stays at home, or works with husband at his workplace at a lower rank than him, takes all abuses and readily gives up her life to please others.

welfare starts from home...anandi must have taken this phrase seriously so for now she is trying to change mindset of her own MIL and SIL and since it's quiet a difficult project anandi has taken her time off from outside work 😆

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Nathu is sacked. Anandi is only servant. She was made working only when she was left by her husband. Otherwise her duty is to stay at home, roam around with trays, listen to gaalis. She doesn't even go out unless in laws ask her to.
Bhaili's a joke. Lip service bas.

I find even Ganga's empowerment fake. CVs have put her out because she's working with her own husband and often they bump into each other and steal romantic moments. Even Ganga would be installed at home only if she were in any other profession.

Educated and working women are detested by CVs. Sanchi's so educated yet she does not want to work or start her own business. She finds it better to gossip at home or eat and drink with friends.

Gauri was educated and working but they made her a vamp. Ashima was wonderful but they made her promiscuous as if working and independent women are weak in character.

Ideal woman only stays at home, or works with husband at his workplace at a lower rank than him, takes all abuses and readily gives up her life to please others.

Originally posted by: libsrocks

welfare starts from home...anandi must have taken this phrase seriously so for now she is trying to change mindset of her own MIL and SIL and since it's quiet a difficult project anandi has taken her time off from outside work 😆

as for shiv when was he ever much bothered with what anandi is doing and what not till she is serving his family...if anandi is typical housewife shiv is no less than a typical husband

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Nathu is sacked. Anandi is only servant. She was made working only when she was left by her husband. Otherwise her duty is to stay at home, roam around with trays, listen to gaalis. She doesn't even go out unless in laws ask her to.
Bhaili's a joke. Lip service bas.

I find even Ganga's empowerment fake. CVs have put her out because she's working with her own husband and often they bump into each other and steal romantic moments. Even Ganga would be installed at home only if she were in any other profession.

Educated and working women are detested by CVs. Sanchi's so educated yet she does not want to work or start her own business. She finds it better to gossip at home or eat and drink with friends.

Gauri was educated and working but they made her a vamp. Ashima was wonderful but they made her promiscuous as if working and independent women are weak in character.

Ideal woman only stays at home, or works with husband at his workplace at a lower rank than him, takes all abuses and readily gives up her life to please others.

@Shinya

I believe Anandi's so called empowerment was always an eyewash. Earlier she had support of the village's richest and most influential family. Now in city she has support of the collector himself.

Women in BV take their work seriously only if they don't have a beend. The ones who do take work seriously despite having a sasra and beend are vamps. That's what the pattern of this serial has been like. Not just what I am saying.

Originally posted by: Shinya

Bold - that was funny.

you mean to say she will take Bhaili seriously only if her current husband dumps her?

@Libsrocks

Shiv will die but he won't dump Anandi ever. Even if he dumps her, still Anandi can't be independent. She'll return to safety net of those sweet in laws-turned maika in Jetsar. She won't do anything entirely on her own. That streak was only there in childhood. It was killed and cremated with all rites by DS.

The only way for her to do anything is to have her own kids chide her or feel ashamed of her as in English Vinglish and that upcoming serial on Sony - where women first hurt and then decide to make an identity beyond a house help.

Earlier Jagya, Gauri or Sanchi stoking her ego egged her a bit to grow in life. Now none of those forces are in play. She needs something radically different.

Or the serial should openly come out and say it's best to be at home only. Stop pretending that education/social work/job should be there.

Now it's evident that Anandi was made a Sarpanch only to burn JaGa and to find her a new groom in form of a collector. They didn't put her out to work. They put her out for marriage market. (They means CVs here)