I agree with many of your points ...I said somewhat on similar lines in another thread ...it happens when one invests more in a friendship or relationship than the other ...when one gives more importance to the other than what they get in return . Aggressor vs submissive . Both Armaan and Gauhar have narcissist personalities and could care less if this relationship ends .Only difference is Armaan has more male ego and gets physical . They never budge in a argument and never agree their fault . They have their own point of view and never will see others . They instead blame the other even if they are wrong . They are more powerful because they know how much the other has emotionally attached and they know how to control it according to their own gain .They use this loyalty and never can be loyal to them but them self . Most often people side with power and nasty behavior than submissive people . People have very little respect for submissive people who only termed as doormat and puppet . In reality you cannot live with Armaan and Gauhar as they will always make you feel less than what you are . I can side with Tanisha and have a conversation and a friendship who I know will be loyal friend than to be with a person like Armaan or Gauhar and feel suffocated in their own narcissist arrogance .