Kushal-Tanisha alike, Gau-Armaan alike - Page 2

Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy

game to calculative hi hota hai dil waala concept samajh nahi aaya mujhe..

she calculates all her move...beginning with friendship, she has the knowledge of what expressions to give..what will suit camera..and i applaud that...

I find them the same...both have done their research as to what BB is about, what audience likes..and they behave accordingly..extremely focussed..

When I say dat Gauhar has played a game I mean she has made herself the focus in playing games and her relationships with ppl in the house r based on how she really feels for dem. Her dressing herself so well and making herself presentable, her being so competitive in tasks, her grabbing all opportunities coming her way, her showing her dancing skills r all part of her game, but her friendships with ppl r not part of her game. She made frnds and for her dey r for keeps. She tends to focus on the positives of the frndship she has shared with dem and hence still has a soft spot for Andy or does not begrudge Kamya when she switches side, coz Kamya once stood for her and has been her frnd. That's strictly my POV.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

When I say dat Gauhar has played a game I mean she has made herself the focus in playing games and her relationships with ppl in the house r based on how she really feels for dem. Her dressing herself so well and making herself presentable, her being so competitive in tasks, her grabbing all opportunities coming her way, her showing her dancing skills r all part of her game, but her friendships with ppl r not part of her game. She made frnds and for her dey r for keeps. She tends to focus on the positives of the frndship she has shared with dem and hence still has a soft spot for Andy or does not begrudge Kamya when she switches side, coz Kamya once stood for her and has been her frnd. That's strictly my POV.

I don't agree Gauhar and armaan are similar ! Gauhar doesn't disrespect or abuse her partner whereas armaan does

Good analysis Zephy! 👏

Never thought like that but now I can see similarities between Tani-Kush and Gau-Armaan! 😆

Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy

I see what you mean..

If i have to put it as per my understanding, i would say she is more polished in her dealing with people...

but then she never shows how she really feels..unless she wants you to see what she wants you to think she is feeling.

Armaan uses cheap tactics in that sense.

@ Bold - funny u shoud say day, coz many a times I have said this dat I do find Gauhar a bit aloof and it seems contradictory considering how overtly expressive she can be. But yes she doesn't reveal her feelings much, and again it might sound contradictory but she doesn't keep saying how so-and-so means this much to her and all, but when the time comes she stands by dem.

Armaan's method is to intimidate a person into silence, den apologize, become frnds or rather Big Brother with dem and if dey dare stand up against him den it's back to point one and the cycle continues.😆

Also I have seen Armaan having his big brotherly talks with all the housemates, irrespective of how much he has fought with dem, but the exception is Gauhar. I would love to see a one-to-one Armaan Gauhar convo.😆

Completely agree with this post..i always felt the same👏

I agree with many of your points ...I said somewhat on similar lines in another thread ...it happens when one invests more in a friendship or relationship than the other ...when one gives more importance to the other than what they get in return . Aggressor vs submissive . Both Armaan and Gauhar have narcissist personalities and could care less if this relationship ends .Only difference is Armaan has more male ego and gets physical . They never budge in a argument and never agree their fault . They have their own point of view and never will see others . They instead blame the other even if they are wrong . They are more powerful because they know how much the other has emotionally attached and they know how to control it according to their own gain .They use this loyalty and never can be loyal to them but them self . Most often people side with power and nasty behavior than submissive people . People have very little respect for submissive people who only termed as doormat and puppet . In reality you cannot live with Armaan and Gauhar as they will always make you feel less than what you are . I can side with Tanisha and have a conversation and a friendship who I know will be loyal friend than to be with a person like Armaan or Gauhar and feel suffocated in their own narcissist arrogance .

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

@ Bold - funny u shoud say day, coz many a times I have said this dat I do find Gauhar a bit aloof and it seems contradictory considering how overtly expressive she can be. But yes she doesn't reveal her feelings much, and again it might sound contradictory but she doesn't keep saying how so-and-so means this much to her and all, but when the time comes she stands by dem.

Armaan's method is to intimidate a person into silence, den apologize, become frnds or rather Big Brother with dem and if dey dare stand up against him den it's back to point one and the cycle continues.😆

Also I have seen Armaan having his big brotherly talks with all the housemates, irrespective of how much he has fought with dem, but the exception is Gauhar. I would love to see a one-to-one Armaan Gauhar convo.😆

Originally posted by: zxion

I agree with many of your points ...I said somewhat on similar lines in another thread ...it happens when one invests more in a friendship or relationship than the other ...when one gives more importance to the other than what they get in return . Aggressor vs submissive . Both Armaan and Gauhar have narcissist personalities and could care less if this relationship ends .Only difference is Armaan has more male ego and gets physical . They never budge in a argument and never agree their fault . They have their own point of view and never will see others . They instead blame the other even if they are wrong . They are more powerful because they know how much the other has emotionally attached and they know how to control it according to their own gain .They use this loyalty and never can be loyal to them but them self . Most often people side with power and nasty behavior than submissive people . People have very little respect for submissive people who only termed as doormat and puppet . In reality you cannot live with Armaan and Gauhar as they will always make you feel less than what you are . I can side with Tanisha and have a conversation and a friendship who I know will be loyal friend than to be with a person like Armaan or Gauhar and feel suffocated in their own narcissist arrogance .