how to overcome a breakup?

*Simran* thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Its very hard to forget a person whom you love alod ? can you guys plz tell me how to overcome breakcome ?

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kal-el thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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smile, thats the only way you have to move on, think of the good things to come in the future and always smile who knows kal ho na ho 😊 come on sim smile
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Posted: 18 years ago
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yea it is very diff to forget....

well talk to ur friends, go out with them and bring some change in ur life, i mean the things which reminds u of tht person, try to avoid it, if nt possible thn make ur self busy and think tht u deserve better and it was good tht u had break up
and think positive and think tht wat all things were u restricted to and the were bonded to wen tht person was in ur life and now u r free

and the best way is to spend some time with ur friends and think the positive side, tht hw some of ur friends r happy being single and tht life can still be lived by being single

and if u r a student thn better if u forget tht person soon,

anyways tht is wat i did to forget a person.... wen i was single....

and now i got a girl friend much better thn the 1 in the past.... and i can jst say tht never regret, there is always something better waitin ahead and everything happens for a reason and for good

jst go on with ur life, its nt the end of the world bt begining of a new and a better day,

life is beautiful, jst for 1 person dnt make it sad and painful for u and for others around u, coz it also affects the ppl around u some how, maybe u wont notice it,

anyways be kool enjoy ur life,

wish u luck
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Well 1st thing u shud do is not try to forget that person!! I know this might sound strange but it works. Because if u try to forget that person, u end up thinking of him/her more. Think of that person. Afterall he was a part of ur life. Think of the gud memories but dunt let the sad ones overcome them. Be happy abt the moments u spent with him and just enjoy life. Indulge in different activities. Keep urself busy. Have fun wid ur frnds. Even bef u had him, u were happy ryt.. Again be happy! 😃
*Simran* thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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thks friends for the advice 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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don't give urself enough time to think about him..get urself busy!!!hang out with ur friends, watch movies or do anything u can to keep ur mind off the breakup!!n u will be fine 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Dont lie to yourself. Dont live a lie. Trust me. If you say"No I dont like him anymore" say it when you mean it..Just dont lie to yourself.

I think to forget about him, erase any old texts, IM's etc. Delete him off of facebook, myspace, friendster etc.

Spend alot of time with your family and friends.

Dont sit there and cry. Go out enjoy life. Go to the mall, movies etc.Avoid him. But dont go out of your way.

If you guys go to the same school,
If you happen to cross the same hallway , DONT go another way! Go the normal way but just dont look at him. Face your head up and walk your way..Cus us ladies are strong😃😳

~Priya
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Posted: 18 years ago
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always believe that whatever god does, does for the best.

dont keep lookin back at him and your time with him...coz u may miss the bright future ahead 😛
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Posted: 18 years ago
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its very hard to get over someone.. and the advice given is awesome.. but dont force it... let your hurt out... and let yourself heal.. keep yourself busy.. hangout with friends and try keeping your mind off of it but dont try to forget because that wont happend overnight.. it took me 1 year to get over a boy i really liked.. it was really hard.. but i ended up realizing i was better person than him anyways ( i know it sounds snobby) i was really hurt. Please talk to your friends about it and let your feelings out.. but dont talk about the person like everyday and think about it.. you deserve someone that will treat you the way you want to be treated you want a nice person that will always be there for and someone you can count on... is he that person? and you will find someone that loves you just as much as you love them...

Suhaani
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Posted: 18 years ago
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^yea she is rite, u deserve better and it takes time to forget, jst dont give up, it took me yrs to forget....

in the end u will be happy, jst dnt give so much importance to tht guy in ur life anymore

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