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Originally posted by: skar1984
I think they're completely different.
In Saath Nibhana Saathiya Ahem wasn't really chauvinistic and he didn't want his wife to just be a housewife. In fact it was the complete opposite, he hated that Gopi was illiterate and that was one of the main barriers in their relationship. I think he's expectation's were reasonable, as he just wanted a wife that was slighlty similar to him, as in she should know how to read/write, be slightly modern but with traditional values, just someone compatible, but Gopi was the complete opposite. Gopi was very timid, and didn't have many thoughts of her own, and just followed her mother-in-law, and often didn't seem much like a wife. She didn't come across as romantic or anything.In this story the lead is chauvinistic and unlike Ahem, he simply wants a housewife, he can't stand the thought that a woman has a mind of her own.Urmi is also completely different to Gopi. Urmi is more intelligent, she has traditional values but she also has her own thoughts and beliefs. She has a very idealistic and romantic idea of love.Here the lead is very egotistical, but he doesn't even want someone compatible to him, he wants someone who will obey him.Not disagreeing with you - the points you make are totally valid but it's outside the context of this thread - the whole idea here is to say that both shows started from the newly wed bride's point of view where every bride comes to her husband's home with hopes and desires - that is the only point of comparison here. Everything else stated and the points I made above explain how the treatment of these shows are clearly different. :)