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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am controlling myself really badly because I know I am going to swear like I've never done before! 😭
Panchi.. FYI you have a very good boyfriend and who is your best friend too... just get together before RV finds another new gal in town because boys don't like to be kept hanging..

Kiya... KD's right .. you want to go to USA to prove to your mum and BF and not as a pursuit of your dreams.. Who do you think you are fooling..???? I hope yourself!!

Regards
Aishwarya

P.S The high point of TBP is over guys.. Back to normal 🥱🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What's wrong with them? Just because they don't want their lives to revolve around their respective boys doesn't make them wrong 😳

Panchi has had more than just fair share of insecurities when it comes to RV. She has fallen for him, been rejected more than just once. All of a sudden he has these deep proclamations of love for her, the kind which he has said to many girls before and she has witnessed it. She isn't mentally ready to be one of those girls specially when her friendship is at stake, the friendship she values the most. If she is asking for some time to sort through her feelings, give herself confidence enough ke this relationship won't end like hers with Avi and she won't be treated like one of those numerous girls at his hands. Somewhere she is a little wrong but her asking for time and wanting to take things slow is nothing gasp worthy. It's pretty normal.

Kiya always thought with her heart than mind. Opportunities fell to her feet, mostly cuz of KD but she never herself took those opportunities to do something concrete with her life and career. It was mostly the moment for her, future ka she never thought. Agreed, she applied only to prove to KD and her family that she ain't worthless but did ya see KD's behavior. When she did nothing, he taunted. When she did something, he begged her to change her mind. Arey! It's as if she doesn't have feelings of her own and has to follow KD every time. Any girl would be frustrated. Granted, Kiya maybe is taking it a little too far but seeing KD's track record...I don't blame her.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I kinda agree with Mais here. Dating your best friend is VERY risky; cause if things don't work out well, you don't just lose your boy friend. You lose a very, very close friend as well; and believe me when I say this. Losing a BF doesn't hurt, losing a friend hurts way more than that.

RV and Panchi have been together since forever, it would hurt Panchi way too much if anything went wrong between the two of them. Add to that Panchi's insecurities about herself, her past failed relationship with Avi and the fact that RV and her happened so suddenly, I think it is fair that she asks for some time. I mean, its just basic protocol that one doesn't get into a new relationship the moment you've broken up.
Also, I completely get Kiya's PoV. Sure, KD has a valid reason to make her stay back right now; but what about that gig he landed her, or that plea that she should study in India? And to make her see his point regarding the fraudulent school; he mass mails her from fake accounts. Like really now? He could have arranged for Kiya to have met that supposed alumnus who trashed the school, and it would have been more credible and there would have been a higher chance of Kiya believing in KD and his claims.

IDK, but I am kinda siding with the girls. RV needs to understand Panchi, while KD needs to learn to present his views in a manner that doesn't appear as if he's forcing his views down Kiya's throat.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know people.. dating your best friend is risky.. but there is a way of saying things without actually hurting the other...
Why is Panchi at the edge of everything.. ?why can't she just put a smile around her face and explain it to him.?.Not that she hasn't done this before but ...guys can't you see that RV's eyes are really unfocused..he's madly in love with his true love ... as if she doesn't know what RV is !... he is like that since the beginning..

Someone has to understand this... Panchi should be a little more gentler when it comes to RV because she then really disturbs both her friendship and love...😕

Regards
Aishwarya
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well all I'd like to say is I understand Panchi's reasons and RV is behaving like he is on an adrenaline rush all the time and it can be very irritating for the other person. But today I felt really sad for him especially when he came through Panchi's window. Poor guy doesn't understand the impact of his words or actions. May be Panchi could have sat him down and explained the dos and don'ts to him and the reasons- but I guess it's easier said than done. Even I didn't do those with my boyfriend, I just yelled.
About KiSha, KD should just let Kiya be for a while. Even though he wants to help Kiya, it's true that he is a controlling boyfriend. But going by the precap, looks like too much of damage has been done, and shit has truly hit the fan. They should part ways for a while and sort out their individual issues.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Panchi.. FYI you have a very good boyfriend and who is your best friend too... just get together before RV finds another new gal in town because boys don't like to be kept hanging..
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Why should Panchi get together cuz of the fear that he will get another girl soon? If RV can't respect her feelings of wanting space and time then his love is only words and no substance. In any relationship unless there isn't mutual trust and respect, it won't work out. I can get RV's feelings as well as Panchi's. But this argument was really the wrong kind to be used. Rather than Panchi repeatedly saying she wants space, if she makes him sit and they talk through stuff then obviously he'd understand. He is a duffer at the end of the day anyway 😆

My issue with Panchi is that I don't understand WHAT she wants him to do? He already said he can't see her as a friend anymore and even after that if he is doing small gestures like dropping her home, she is being all suspicious about it. She doesn't want him to change but it's natural for him to be a little different. He can't help his feelings for her and she should know as his best friend that when it comes to the matter of heart, RV is beyond pagal! He can't help doing fluffy things for her, wanting to be close to her. She needs to tone down the strictness with him and spell out to him (and to me) what is that she really wants him to behave like.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anyways.. we can't be the fighting lot...
Okay
Tell me ask this.. whose statement is right.. I could make a poll for it..

Panch says , "Mujhe is relationship ko leke rush nahi karna hai!"

RV says, " Mujhe lagta hai ki hamne saath aane mein bohot der kar di"

I'd go with RV's statement !

Regards
Aishwarya


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I dont think there is anything wrong with the girls.
I mean Panchi is right in her fears & insecurities regarding her relationship with RV.
She cant rush with this especially when her as well as RV's breakup with their respective EXs is still fresh.
Had RV been any normal guy...jyada problem nahi hoti.
But he's her best childhood buddy as well.
God forbid if things doesnt workout well between them in future & they end breaking up with each other...she wont only loose her BF but also her Best Friend which would be obviously more hurting.
So she's right in her fears.
Moreover RV is actually behaving like a maniac.
He is completely heads over heels in love with Panchi & just cant stay away from her even for a moment.
I know after the realisation of his love its very difficult for him to behave just like a "friend" with Panchi.
But what he's doing is seriously irritating.
Atleast I find it that way.
Like wiping pastry cream off her face infront of the buddies.
PDA is really irritating.
No wonder she's getting irritated with his behaviour.
So RV needs to calm down a bit. He's a complete duffer. So he needs to relax & think about Panchi's insecurities as well & try n give her some time.
Most importantly he needs to behave normally.
But then its easier said than done. I cant understand his situation maybe coz I've never been in a relationship or fallen in love with anyone. *sigh*

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Okay I'll be frank. I was giggling throughout the episode when RV was acting all loverboy in front of her. Cause I'll be frank, I loved it. I thought it was beyond adorable.

Being in the same situation as Panchi a few years back, I know where she's coming from. But then again, RV has established the fact that he's clearly slow. Panchi wants him to go slow; but if he's not ready to understand it, maybe the two need to sit down and have a chat about their priorities regarding the rel? I said this earlier; RV is beyond ecstatic that he's finally found his true love -and she reciprocates his love-, but there are Panchi's inner demons that she needs to get rid of.

Like yes, RaHi have been BFFs since childhood and there's that certain level of understanding between em both, but at this point; instead of RV following Panchi around like a lost puppy and Panchi just getting mad for every tiny bit of affection he shows her, they should sit down and just talk things out. Communication is the key to a great relationship, and if they can't establish this fact from the very beginning..then well, IDK how will their boat sail.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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aishwarya u spoke my heart out..srsly whats wrong with these ppl?as am RaHi fan,i'm concerned abt Panchi..🥱

srsly jitna i'm lovin evry bit of this majnu mode of RV utna hi i'm equally feelin sad for him..!!

i just hope bcoz of constant "stay away stay away" rant he dnt take ny wrong decision...

i hv better option RV-KD shud go away for a while..time to turn plates u c..😆😆..let gals hv max time,space n wht nt..😆😆

either that or make JJ comeback as only he can make the lost 4 buddies come back to track for each other and WITH each other...😊😊
Edited by Nikki_Titli - 11 years ago

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