Sandhya is Lucky Emily is Not.....

Shouting and crying all over the household desperate to get proven right with no one to stand by her except Sandhya?

Right from the day of the revelation of her affair with Mohit, I always felt bad for her and was really appreciative of the fact on how she has been fighting for her rights.

Even in the SBC competition her attempt was only to take a stand for her spineless husband who could hardly utter a word when she was being accused. Being a hindrance for Sandhya was the only thing I had against her then.

Just compare the scenario here

Sandhya is lucky to have Suraj with her while Emily is not so lucky here.

Both did make efforts for their husbands, Sandhya for Suraj's cookery competition and Emily by venturing out to share family and Pari's expenses for Mohit.

But it was only Sandhya who got support from Suraj when circumstances required him to take a stand for her. Emily was left nowhere with Mohit not even trying to utter the least that atleast Bhabo should give her a chance to explain herself.

Even Sandhya was trapped due to Chavi for the exam fiasco but Suraj was always with her which was not the case yesterday with Emily.

I wish that now Emily has the beauty parlour to back her, she takes a stand for her rights herself in the house and also gives an earful to her pati parmeshwar when times demand...

agree

but during their early days suraj was never this bold

he took the decision to stay in SSM only after 2 years of marriage

was it possible earlier

he used to stand dumb whenever sandy was accused

it takes time

may be mohit too will gain courage and support emily in future

Then she took him WTC which gained some confidence for him, so he took a stand for her IPS. But even then he didnt had the courage to go in front of Bhabo and tell he is admitting her to night college. He went chupke chupke. When Bhabo asked him to drown he just drowned without thinking a second about his wife who had only him with her while Bhabo had 2 other sons. Then he allowed her to go through matka challenge combined with countless EAs and ADs.

He asserted himself for the first time after 2nd MP and decided to walk out with Sandhya. But it was not for Sandhya , but for Bhabo to realize they are good son and bahu. If we need to see the real support of Sooraj we need to see how much assertive he will become post Sandhya IPS. Yes he had helped Sandhya. In the four walls of their room he had offered her all support, but it is time he starts standing strongly in front of Bhabo's regressive ways and atleast start questioning some of her ways. Till now he has not done that. He just bypassed it with his own methods allowing Sandhya to suffer and suffer more.

But having said that Emily's condition was pathetic than Sandhya because she didnt even get that covert support from Mohit. She was doing everything on her own that too a woman who became pregnant before marriage. She had undergone EA in the hands of her husband. But what I feel is that if Emily can win over Mohit, transform him ( I hope the CVs show transformation in Mohit. He has actually got a good wife in Emily) , make him confident to stand on his feet by supporting him with her BP believe me Mohit will stand much stronger against Bhabo for Emily. Much more than Sooraj as Mohit does not have any emotional binding to Bhabo. And Emily will also be in a position to question Bhabo's regressive ways.

Also, it was Suraj who was proactive about Sandhya's dream and worked hard for it, be it anyway. Sandhya had almost forgotten about it. The least conviction done to Bhabo, be it the college or the IPS training, was by Suraj and not Sandhya.

Hence she had someone to stand-up for himself.

This post is not to bash Sandhya, I was just trying to bring forth the plight of Emily and her efforts she is making to make a place as the ideal beendni of RM (ideal in all respects) which is as much her dream as that of the IPS post for Sandhya.

I want that to happen, I mean some positive change has to come in RM people. No hope for Vik as Meena is criminal enough. Chavi will continue to be pampered. Bhabo will continue with her taunts and EAs. Only hope is Mohit through Emily.

Mohit has a assertive personality if he decides to speak. Much assertive than Sooraj. A positive change in Mohit will be something that can really change the tide against Bhabo.

But if Mohit gets the courage to support Emily believe me from day one it will be overt. Bringing that courage is the issue 😃

On covert or overt,if he opposes bhabho and family to support sandhya openely,he knows bhabho would create trouble for sandhya.Most of all he was trying protect selfrespect of his wifeaswell as his mother...

Nice Analysis of Suraj

You are correct in telling

It takes a lot of time for sons like Suraj who have mothers like Bhabho to understand the situation which is being faced by their wife.

It takes more time for sons like Suraj to extend support in any way to their wife.

Suraj is dealing the situations in the best possible way. In future Mohit may learn this.