Issue escalates dramatically, Adham gets publicly exposed! - Page 13

Originally posted by: Lizzy2012

I think I haven't been clear in communicating my stance..it is not about percentages,it is about

evolution..until you are alone or surrounded by your family that is your blood,your thought process is a one way street ..when your spouse comes into your life,you start evolving..you get a new viewpoint about lot of issues..you may agree with some,disagree with the others,incorporate some with your ideas to make your functioning and relationship even more smoother..in the longer run, this amalgam of ideas becomes the basis of life..this is how marriage works,according to me..absorption of new ideas,flexibility in your stance,adjustments to different thought process makes a marriage work..the incorporation and adjustments don't mean you have lost individuality,in fact you have gained something -beautiful,unique experience in life..this is what is happening to jalal -jodha relationship,when he is in a turmoil,she comes with the idea which he weighs and considers feasible for implementation..this is in no way reflection of his capabilities.it is matter of partnership..when she is in trouble,he finds the way out of the maze..now she is doing the replica of what he did..jalal is evolving everyday and you can't expect him to have answers to every issue at this stage..one can't expect him to be akbar overnight..he is going through the rigours of trial and error.if his life partner is trying to find a solution for him then it no way demeans him..it is this capability of his that will make him a leader(listening hard).he is not a dolt who is soft on everybody,we have seen him decisive in the earlier tracks..if one should blame something about this track,then it should the execution of the track rather than the idea ..

Marriage is not mathematics or a barter system..you put your hands up when your partner needs you..earlier it was jalal who did that for jodha,now it is jodha who is doing it for jalal.if this is going to turn them in to better individuals and better rulers then nothing like this partnership..

Originally posted by: ginco

Oh !! accha you call this gaalis , really ??


Word of caution darling for i love you a lot :- never come to punjab , or your definition of gaali would be solely misunderstood and what a shock would that be for the people there n u too...😉