Have u seen child marriage in real life???

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey guysss...

in a post i came to knw dt more than 90% ppls r frm south india nd i dnt knw d culture of south.

so i wanna knw dt child marriage exist in south or other parts of india????

bcz it still exist in north india 😡 😡...in some area it is. no doubt many ppls r aware now bt there r some ppls who r illitrate nd financially vry poor...so they r ignorant frm d effect of child mrg.

share ur views...

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.Angel thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No I haven't and I hope I never get to see one in real life other than the reel one I see on tv through watching desi soaps because it's a terrible terrible thing that should and must never happen to any child.



Every child deserves to grow as normal as they are suppose to not get forced into a disgusting thing call child marriage which the meaning of it does not even ring a bell until they stared growing.


Nice topic dear.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well if u r question is have u seen child marriages in real life then my answer is yes...I hv seen many minor girls who got married in at the age of 8 ... kehne ka arth ye hua hum vivah par to nahi gayi par balika vadhu vo ko bohoth dekha...unse baat bhi ki.. I am from south india... Andhra Pradesh from rayalaseema.. where they treat females only for kitchen and for pleasure..this was the case 10 yrs back//but now I hv witnessed people changing and making girls to live independently..but I am lucky coz my mom is from tamil nadu... she got married at 17 so always dependent on my dad..so that made my mom and dad realised that I and my sis shld not face the same prob what they faced ..so they had given us gud education and permitted us to do post graduation n job...n my family me n my sis are the only girls who had completed post gradun and doing job..rest all are house wifes...even now in my family first preference is given to males...but now things are changing slowly.. but even today thr are child marriages happening at my place ..maine apne aankon se dekha ki ek na balik ladki gale mangal sutr pehne huye khel te huye jo bina matlab jane us mangalsutr ka mehatv kya hain...even I asked them..they just smiled and said that they got married at the age of 5 and wud go back to in laws place at 15 0r 16...,I really adore and respect Akbar even at 15th century he was so broad minded he tried to eradicate child marriages in his kingdom...a big salute to him...really he is Akbar the great...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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saw girls getting married@ the age of 15, 16 but did't see below that & don't want see
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ye even i know

my mom and dad got married at small age

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Angel

No I haven't and I hope I never get to see one in real life other than the reel one I see on tv through watching desi soaps because it's a terrible terrible thing that should and must never happen to any child.




Every childdeserves to grow as normal as they are suppose to not get forced into a disgusting thing call child marriage which the meaning of it does not even ring a bell until they stared growing.


Nice topic dear.



hmmm u ryt...bt i hv seen.

nd its only bcz of lack of education...u knw i saw a gal who ws only 10-11 year old (i thnk)...nd she ws wearing some accessiories which married gals use to wear...i asked with a shock dt r u married 😲 😲...she said yes bt i vl stay on my parents home...nd vl go at my husband home after some time.

i thnk it ws d same case which we saw in agle janam mohe bitiya hi kijo...

m frm haryana nd ppls r vry prosperious here...many ppls use to come here for earning money...i thnk she ws one of them. bcz she ws begging in train
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gem12

Well if u r question is have u seen child marriages in real life then my answer is yes...I hv seenmany minor girlswho got married in at the age of 8 ... kehne ka arth ye hua hum vivah par to nahi gayi par balika vadhu vo ko bohoth dekha...unse baat bhi ki.. I am from south india... Andhra Pradesh from rayalaseema.. where they treat females only for kitchen and for pleasure..this was the case 10 yrs back//but now I hv witnessed people changing and making girls to live independently..but I am lucky coz my mom is from tamil nadu... she got married at 17 so always dependent on my dad..so that made my mom and dadrealised that I and my sis shld not face the same prob what they faced ..so they had given us gud education and permitted us to do post graduation n job...n my family me n my sis are the only girls who had completed post gradun and doing job..rest all are house wifes...even now in my family first preference is given to males...but now things are changing slowly.. but even today thr are child marriages happening at my place ..maine apne aankon se dekha ki ek na balik ladki gale mangal sutr pehne huye khel te huye jo bina matlab jane us mangalsutr ka mehatv kya hain...even I asked them..they just smiled and saidthattheygot marriedat the age of 5 and wud goback to in laws placeat 15 0r 16...,Ireally adore and respect Akbar evenat 15th century he was so broad minded he tried to eradicate child marriages in his kingdom...a big salute to him...really he is Akbar the great...



same case z with me too...my mom got married in 17...bt my dad z vry supportive nd caring. yes she has regret dt she hv to leave study bt what could she do at dt time...bt my dad z vry loving so she dnt hv any prob now.

bt now things r changing...in my family all gals r educated nd my father said i vl nt force my daughters to get married before 25 at least...nd we wanna do anything after 25 too he vl support us...

nd i nvr attended child mrg bcz it nvr hpnd after my birth bt have seen in outside world..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In my schooling days i had a senior who was married ..i think she was 15 or 16...and my grand maa and grand paa 's marriage was also an child marriage...my grand paa loves and cares for grand maa alot that is an other issue ..my grand paa was 11 and maa grand maa was 8 or 9 at that time... it was common in those so no one stopped it ...but am totally against it ..girl has a right to get educated and become independent ..

BTW nice post dear ..👍🏼

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Posted: 11 years ago
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guys plz share ur views nd make ds post pink...

ppls r saying ds z nice topic bt still no cmnts nd likes. 😭 😭 😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No I didn't watch in real life and don't want to see it never 😵 N my grandma n grandpa's marriage happened in when she was just 16 and their was 10 years age difference them

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