Originally posted by: Sandhya.A
wow..so her husband before the entire harem tells that he thought his wife had an affair since he had doubt that in one night any woman can conceive..and jodha was not suppose to react or flinch ???
Of course she could react and tear the place down when faced with such accusation, but Ruqaiya was also not wrong when she screamed yesterday. Just because she is not the heroine, her reactions cant be labelled excessive.
you want to elevate ruqaiyya;s plight ,do it ..she was wronged but not on the basis of putting down jodha when she was wronged and the only person in the entire Agra who supported her was hamida banu...
the humiliation and disgrace she has gone through...it cannot be compared ...accused of murder,accused of an affair ,any woman in her place would have killed herself long back
I'm not putting Jodha down. I'm only drawing comparisons. Jodha was fully justified in her reaction in the earlier episodes as Ruqaiya is now.
there is no need to like her character ,(I loved her character in the first 75- 80 episodes or so, detested it totally in the next 35-40 episodes and am somewhere in between now) am super happy she is arrogant haughty and rude or else these two best friends would have trampled her to a corner of the Harem which was the agenda for marrying her
if today Jalal respects her ,falls for her then SHE HAS EARNED IT ...if she was rude and ignored HB then she would never have been respected or loved by her...so she earned that as well
His ek hi kashthi mein sawaar' speaks more of his insight into other people than Jodha having earned it by her goodness. As for HB, she is no yardstick for measure as she started rooting for Jodha even before she met her.
whatever is happening between ruqaiiya and Jallal would have happened any ways...if not jodha some other woman would have come in between coz in their relationship lies a gap so wide that an army can camp
Then it is surprising that Jalal (not Jodha) who is sweating out to bridge the gap between himself and Jodha failed to do that with Ruqaiya. May be he took it for granted that she and her loyalties will be with him forever.
if my husband after 11 years of companionship tells anyone who cares to listen how lonely he is in life with no one inspite of all relationships then there is seriously something wrong in that relationship...and ruqaiya's insecurity was seeded the moment Jalla brought the first woman after her and slept with her...and as the number of women increased so did the fear and insecurity...her lack of faith in Jalal right now is justifiable coz years of fear is what is spilling now that she senses jodha is more than another beghum to him...her sole possession of his person is under threat hence her outburst too is justifiable
the problem is they are no longer children ,they have grown up but their friendship remains that of childhood ..and ruqaiyya has to help herself to overcome this insecurity ...only she can and only then will she be at peace about herself and Jalal ...and for that she has to make her mistakes and learn...Jalal was ,is and will always be there for her ...she only has to believe in her heart which she will in time...
and i very much empathise with ruqaiyya and her stand ,and for that Jalal support for Adham due to MA is to be blamed not jodha...coz if it was not Adham ,halal would have beheaded anyone who questioned his marriage...so Jalal's lack of a stand for Adham is what led to whatever happened and his helplessness as an Emperor not his feeling for Jodha...let us be fair to Jalal and not insult him by even assuming he will overthrow his old relationships for new ones ..
Of course Jalal will not. He is much above these petty attitudes. He has already become half-Akbar. And this time Jodha is not responsible for the chaos nor was she responsible for Jalal's restraint in court. .