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Originally posted by: sabaSpeaks

😆😆 GM to already bhaad main chala gaya, kuch new sizzling and hawt chahiye to get it activated again.

Sonal I totally agree with you that she is now reached the state called helplessness but this is not the right way.

For starters he doesn't even talk to her normally , he didnt even allow her to pack his bags.The point i am trying to make is first there needs to be a build up of trust, understanding , confidence and friendship for a person to share his very personal thoughts.

Constant reminder of being his wife and my rights is never gonna help her find true Mrityunjay

Originally posted by: ddFan2012

Saba

I do understand the frustration as a viewer, we are compelled to symapathize with MJ since he is going through a lot. But does Tara know any of it?

Lets list it out:

1) Everyone suddenly talks of Radha...Radha Radha..
2) She finds out Radha is the victim
3) She finds Radha's things in MJ rooms
4) She questions him - He blatantly denies knowing her...so what are her things doing in his room?
5) She finds out by herself that Radha's father and he are close. He takes part in a her barsi.
6) He does not turn up when they have to leave
7) they have a phoen fight and he sitll does not say will come back and let you know about it.
8) FInds a petrol slip that tells her he went to Indore
9) She questions - he shouts back

For her the biggest problem is Radha. What Radha meant to him. And why did he go to Indore. Did Radha live there?

Even yesterday he did not say, "Give me sometime..I can't talk about it right now."

The last time he said "You do what you have to do."

When a man hides things it leads to more doubts. He could have lied and said he went to Indore for Baba's work or some stable work. This would have been enough.

And to top it off, he is not giving her even an inch of himself. Never wanting to touch her. When she helped with the papers he showed attitude. he is nice to everyone but her. SO the growing doubt is that did he love or like Radha is right now playing in her head.

Hope this might help you to understand where this behaviour is coming from. 🤗

Originally posted by: ddFan2012

Saba

I do understand the frustration as a viewer, we are compelled to symapathize with MJ since he is going through a lot. But does Tara know any of it?

Lets list it out:

1) Everyone suddenly talks of Radha...Radha Radha..
2) She finds out Radha is the victim
3) She finds Radha's things in MJ rooms
4) She questions him - He blatantly denies knowing her...so what are her things doing in his room?
5) She finds out by herself that Radha's father and he are close. He takes part in a her barsi.
6) He does not turn up when they have to leave
7) they have a phoen fight and he sitll does not say will come back and let you know about it.
8) FInds a petrol slip that tells her he went to Indore
9) She questions - he shouts back

For her the biggest problem is Radha. What Radha meant to him. And why did he go to Indore. Did Radha live there?

I totally agree with every thing with all my heart👍🏼
Even yesterday he did not say, "Give me sometime..I can't talk about it right now."

The last time he said "You do what you have to do."

Correct

When a man hides things it leads to more doubts. He could have lied and said he went to Indore for Baba's work or some stable work. This would have been enough.

I will give that to MJ that he isnt at least leing, there is diffrence between lieing and hiding.

And to top it off, he is not giving her even an inch of himself. Never wanting to touch her. When she helped with the papers he showed attitude. he is nice to everyone but her. SO the growing doubt is that did he love or like Radha is right now playing in her head.

Again I agree sweet heart, I am just annoyed at her ways of getting back at him or trying to literally extract information out of him.Not just once , she was constantly pushing him to give his answers and clarification just on the basis of being his wife, that never works.Instead she could have tried to be his friend or talk him politely instead of the taunts 'tum mujhse jhoot nahi bol sakte ' , 'tumhe mujhe batana hi hoga' , 'main tumhari biwi hoon'.

Couldn't she tried something like ' what happened? you look really tried. Can I help you?

I agree may be this also wouldn't have fetched her answers but at least he wouldn't have stormed out of the room more frustrated than he actually was after the day's ordeal.

As a viewer also, they have not shown that she is genuinely concerned about him, really wants to know why he is like this, the only thing that is being shown is she desperately wants to know the story of his past, its like knowing will satisfy her inquisitiveness about the enigma called Mrityunjay singh shekhawat 😉

Hope this might help you to understand where this behaviour is coming from. 🤗

Thanks D, I am ever so grateful that you genuinely wanted to explain the things but mera screw has always been dheela , itni jaldi baat samajh nahi aati 😆

Always love you 🤗🤗

Originally posted by: sonalp

well, being 1 woman i want to tell u 1 thing ..."every woman.. even the most strong-willed,independent, ambitious one would always seek her loved one's 100% attention...if she doesn't get it, she would try different tactics to know it...by hook or crook... this is women psychology😆

he doesn't talk to her normally, but his eyes lit up in her presence, ... he didn't allow her to pack his bags...but he remembered his commitment...

but yes,it would take a long time for him to make her his confidant, mj being so sensitive and reserved as a person

here to build that level of trust u need togetherness...the foundation (respect) is already laid out...now they have to put layers of understanding,emotions,friendship on top of it , so the most imp thing is time and space. and patience.. so timely reminders about being wife-hubby is really important in their case.

i'm happy that they are in a diff place and would get some privacy, so things might take a diff turn eventually.

PS: wait for 1-2 episodes, sizzling scenes would flow by 😆

Originally posted by: butterfly15..

At first I found her annoying but then she seemed to realise he was disturbed and left him alone so I thought she was ok.

If you think about it from her point of view her actions seem more understandable. She doesn't know her husband is in such a serious situation just that he likes going off somewhere in secret.

But, the taking off the light thing showed her immaturity again. Once she realised that he was really upset she should've given him the time and space he needed, she shouldn't force him to open up to her, but I guess she's just being caring.