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Posted: 11 years ago
#31
I think the most stable character in this show is Kalavati😆

We know what to expect from "it"

Tara's character is nonsense..one minute she is blood thirsty, next she is wiping down her hubby's chest..and the next...

She is the one who might have some mental issues...so bipolar!




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Posted: 11 years ago
#32
Saba
To handle Mjay is a tricky situation...he is not going to open up this soon...
Tara i feel needs to give him a little time but i understand her side she is like totally desperate to know who Radha is what relationship she has with her husband ..at moment she is behaving like typical wife..she want to know everything about him where he is not even telling her a small bit also...
the pain she is seeing inside him she cant c him in that..she only wants his pain gets less when he will pour his heart out...which well is not going to...that will happen when she will constantly going to push him towards the edge where there wont be any choice to open to her...

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Posted: 11 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Dilsha

I think Tara is so confused by whatever is happening so she thought of asking him directly to MJ. Remember when vasu mentioned Radha she went directly and asked who. If it was me I wud hav waited what they said next and gain info. Or ask vasu personally later not infront of dai ja. I think she is desperate to know everything so she is asking people qs directly since her investigation is not getting anywhere. But removing the fuse was childish but it saved MJ and ruined yug's plan.

yes , dilsha , you are right, i am glad some thing good came out of this dumbness.
I agree may be her desperation can some how justify the very very annoying behavior
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Posted: 11 years ago
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saba,
i disagree with you for few things.

i somehow felt Tara is right.
her actions might take a diff route and seem nagging but her intentions are clear, her concern is sincere, her worries are reflected in her eyes.
right now she is oblivious to everything about mj, all the doors that an show her the path to those answers are closed, so she is just desperate.

i know she is asking too many questions, but tell me 1 thing.. will you just sit quietly if your loved one is worried/depressed over something and you get no response from him. and would you be just standing and watching helplessly unable to tackle the situation being clueless to the matter.?
...that time you would be hoping to know those reasons by any means in order to make the person feel better... this is what she is doing, she tried all stupid revenge tactics and saw them no effect on mj, so now she is trying own means to extract something from him.

she is always a force to be reckoned with, a force that is neither timid nor would ever bow down in defeat when it comes to truth and dignity. now since she knows and believes mj as innocent, she wants to be his shadow .a normal wifey behaviour and i would say appropriate too.. every wife has always a greed to know everything about hubby...just a woman instinct😆

i sympathise with mj but here the imp thing is trust...trust that tara has to prove in the eyes of mj that shez ready to be his partner in life ,so it is just a matter of time...

about the fuse thing, well it was not expected from her, yet it came as a boon for him😆


PS: Relax saba, don't get too hyper, else ur GM would come low to earth🤣


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Posted: 11 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

Saba
To handle Mjay is a tricky situation...he is not going to open up this soon...
Tara i feel needs to give him a little time but i understand her side she is like totally desperate to know who Radha is what relationship she has with her husband ..at moment she is behaving like typical wife..she want to know everything about him where he is not even telling her a small bit also...
the pain she is seeing inside him she cant c him in that..she only wants his pain gets less when he will pour his heart out...which well is not going to...that will happen when she will constantly going to push him towards the edge where there wont be any choice to open to her...

Thanks Tanvi.
I agree that she is exhausted and all her attempts at finding his past are bearing no results and she is resorting these means.
My only issue with her is instead of forcing him she could have shown some genuine concern for him and tried to approach him in a little bit understanding manner.
I really believe that pushing to edge will never work, she pushed him to edge with her revenge tactics but she couldnt gain anything out of him , she has to follow a complete different path and first gain his trust and confidence , that is the only way she can get something out of him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonalp

saba,

i disagree with you for few things.

i somehow felt Tara is right.
her actions might take a diff route and seem nagging but her intentions are clear, her concern is sincere, her worries are reflected in her eyes.
right now she is oblivious to everything about mj, all the doors that an show her the path to those answers are closed, so she is just desperate.

i know she is asking too many questions, but tell me 1 thing.. will you just sit quietly if your loved one is worried/depressed over something and you get no response from him. and would you be just standing and watching helplessly unable to tackle the situation being clueless to the matter.?
...that time you would be hoping to know those reasons by any means in order to make the person feel better... this is what she is doing, she tried all stupid revenge tactics and saw them no effect on mj, so now she is trying own means to extract something from him.

she is always a force to be reckoned with, a force that is neither timid nor would ever bow down in defeat when it comes to truth and dignity. now since she knows and believes mj as innocent, she wants to be his shadow .a normal wifey behaviour and i would say appropriate too.. every wife has always a greed to know everything about hubby...just a woman instinct😆

i sympathise with mj but here the imp thing is trust...trust that tara has to prove in the eyes of mj that shez ready to be his partner in life ,so it is just a matter of time...

about the fuse thing, well it was not expected from her, yet it came as a boon for him😆


PS: Relax saba, don't get too hyper, else ur GM would come low to earth🤣


😆😆 GM to already bhaad main chala gaya, kuch new sizzling and hawt chahiye to get it activated again.

Sonal I totally agree with you that she is now reached the state called helplessness but this is not the right way.
For starters he doesn't even talk to her normally , he didnt even allow her to pack his bags.The point i am trying to make is first there needs to be a build up of trust, understanding , confidence and friendship for a person to share his very personal thoughts.
Constant reminder of being his wife and my rights is never gonna help her find true Mrityunjay
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Posted: 11 years ago
#37
Hey saba ..

I m always der...

Superhugs...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: sabaSpeaks

Thanks Tanvi.
I agree that she is exhausted and all her attempts at finding his past are bearing no results and she is resorting these means.
My only issue with her is instead of forcing him she could have shown some genuine concern for him and tried to approach him in a little bit understanding manner.
I really believe that pushing to edge will never work, she pushed him to edge with her revenge tactics but she couldnt gain anything out of him , she has to follow a complete different path and first gain his trust and confidence , that is the only way she can get something out of him.



I understand that forcing it not going to help much i could sumwhere feel too...what 1st time she atleast seen he was so looked depressed...that what making her more sad...there is a reason he is not telling Tara but for Tara unless she wont know how she will heal his pain & take out solution...
but yes what she needs is to take the route of caring...
she only needs to show the care towards him...
he is not going to open up that means she will too be pulled into this which he doesnt want...
we have to wait for her different route..bcoz she is soon going to open up more...
from promo it seem like whatever i wont go here...
well he is not going to open up infront of her...she has to find herself...
This fight is of Tara's alone like to take her husband out of this...bcoz he is not one going to help unless she falls in deep trouble due to all this..
Edited by Badtameez_Dil - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39
Every body should cool down . let's see what happens tomorrow. If needed we all go and hunt up the cvs. Then try to make them see their mistakes.sweet dream all the ebi fans.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#40
At first I found her annoying but then she seemed to realise he was disturbed and left him alone so I thought she was ok.

If you think about it from her point of view her actions seem more understandable. She doesn't know her husband is in such a serious situation just that he likes going off somewhere in secret.

But, the taking off the light thing showed her immaturity again. Once she realised that he was really upset she should've given him the time and space he needed, she shouldn't force him to open up to her, but I guess she's just being caring.


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