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Posted: 12 years ago
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Women are notorious for being emotional outwardly... because of social upbringing, where as men are encourage to repress their emotions. The reason... women are considered emotionally stronger because they have to go through more challenges... and risks in life compared to men... thus the notion that this makes them emotionally stronger.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Women have to deal with far stronger emotional moments than men. Pregnancy,... childbirth... etc. We cope perfectly fine most of the time... and bringing up the kids, most of the chores... working, having a social life, trying to fit all this in and... remembering our darling men folk too..!! We know some men are hardly coping with emotions, that's why we handle most of it ourselves, however sometimes our hormones or pain or tiredness make us angry and emotional!!!
Edited by SEETHA.K - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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so everytime anandi only responsible for trouble in family ?????
Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

so everytime anandi only responsible for trouble in family ?????


People who want to find fault in Anandi will always say that she is responsible for trouble in family, but I do not think she was wrong in this track. Anandi had every right to know the reality of her husband. More than Anandi it was Alok and Meenu who are responsible for hurting family members and unfair to Shiv. Why did they do baby swap 30 years ago is still unclear - Ira losing even her baby even after her third pregnancy cannot be a strong reason - a lot of women suffer this way - getting pregnant multiple times and still losing the babies (Basant's first wife was an example in BV) they do not go on swapping dead baby with someone else's baby.

Even when they kept this baby swap a secret - when they saw Anandi has learnt half-truth through Sarla and Shiv is depressed - what prevented Alok/Meenu to at least tell the truth to Shiv and Anandi? Shiv and Anandi are not like Sanchi that they cannot understand the circumstances and intention of their elders. I think Shiv is more hurt because nobody bothered to tell him the truth and people were actually trying to hide the truth even now compared to the fact that he is not Ira-Alok's son.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashasaina


😆😆😆dat also life long...



Yep 😆 😆 poor Shiv

As someone said somewhere that cvs are the ones who make anandi behave annoying,
It's the same cvs who made Shiv lose himself for anandi and also now behave in such a way that he's worthy enough of boring lectures from anandi.,
It's not Shiv's fault after all., atleast Sid does a great job in whatever he did in this track unlike... 😉 😉
Edited by Sudhaiyer86 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Alok and Meenu were trying to play God when Ira lost her child as if no woman in this world has
Gone thru with this. This happens.yes it is miserable but no body is going to die because of this
Misery. By getting Shiv for Ira, they lost a chance for getting her own baby. She would have put off
Pregnancy for a few years until Shiv grew up. In fact in those days when people had lot of children,they also lost many. Alok and Meenu made a big blunder. Shiv may not feel so bad the
Minute he comes to know that Meenu is his mother and he is not some one who is a
Real poor orphan. But it will affect Ira most.
But a portion of my heart feels Ira deserves this for slapping Jagia in front of every one and humiliated
Ganga and Jagia. Her monstrous arrogance of giving birth to a handsome collector will come
Crumbling down. I am sure this will also affect Sanchi and her pride that she is some one superior.
I want Shiv to ignore her now.

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