It is unfair for Shiv

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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is unfair for Shiv more than others. Suddenly he has to please Ira more so that she wont be offended. And even after knowing meenu is his mother, he will not be able to express real affection for fear of offending Ira. Now Shiv has to be extra nice to Sanchi for the same reason.

Wont his career suffer if he is under this constant strain at the homefront?

Is not anandi, meenu and alok are responsible for shiv's dilemma?

anandi kept on and on.

meenu was under pressure and less to blame.

alok has to take full responsibility for making meenu and Shiv go through all this because of his selfishness. If meenu did not give birth, what alok would have done?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. You're left so alone that you can't explain. Damn, there's nothing like that, is there?

Unfortunately, some family members are so psychotic that no matter how hard Shiv try to forge a healthy relationship, nothing will help. Now that he is an adult, take refuge in the fact that some things are beyond his control.

Probably there is nothing in human nature more resonant with charges than the flow of energy between two biologically alike bodies, one of which has laboured to give birth to the other. The materials are here for the deepest mutuality and the most painful estrangement!!

Just i wanted to ask the BV CVs, why they are all, all of a sudden...became strangers who shared the same last name ??!

The intricate tangle of love and duty...resentment that tied them together ...the complicated balance of love they shared over the decades...and perhaps that was the key to re-establish their newly found relationship in this changed scenario !

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anandi is in very debatable postion...had she kept quiet about everything even after hearing Sarla's talk she would have been bashed by some one or the other for hiding such big thing from Shiv and not caring for Shiv enought to know the matter like she does with Singhs and if she would have spoken to Shiv like she did now she still would have been bashed for not able to see how much truth can shake up evryone
I am in two minds and i feel CVs should have choosen someone else instead of Anandi to find out the truth...then it would ahve looked more sensible...like maybe Ira was not able to get Sarla's words out of her mind or Shiv...choosing Anandi to be the first one to know the truth was wrong of CVs (and very repetitive)...why should Anandi listen to everyhting and get worried about it?...why all Shekhars just brush off others' words?
Now that it all has happen i would say:-
For now i can blame only Anandi for all the situation...Shiv is now in toughest situation and that's becoz Anandi couldn't control her feelings in front of him...at first i thought it rather difficult to hide such matters and Anandi did good by trying to find out the truth but now since Shiv's is Chorima's son i feel Anandi should have rather forgotten it like everyone else becoz if Chotima can keep such big secret even after being Shiv's mother why not Anandi...had Anandi not tried to poke her nose Shiv would have been in better position...if she knew that no matter what it is it will create problems in family and disturb Shiv the most since she doesn't have the ability to keep things hidden from Shiv she should have kept quiet
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes it would have been better if A dint dug up old pasts which had nuin to do . CM kept it a secret for 30 years so A shud also have not let anyone know about all that .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes. Instead of anandi, why cant some other person find out the truth?

They always want to make anandi meddling everywhere.

Now anandi will start mediating.

Shiv would have been more happy without anandi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The recent one ??!! Now a days she is a deprived writer's--[because of replacement] confused character !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why dont they finish off the most irritating character in BV(worse than even sanchi) once and for all in an accident just like they did with Sarla.They can hang her garlanded photo and scare others.😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SEETHA.K

The recent one ??!! Now a days she is a deprived writer's--[because of replacement] confused character !



Though I supported anandi due to avika's playing that role once, I started disliking when Pratyusha stepped in and now Toral.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I feel really sorry for Shiv. He had such a good life and now anandi has destroyed everything.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I feel really sorry for Shiv. He had such a good life and now anandi has destroyed everything.

Anyway Sarla's death statement will definitely create a storm in Shiv's life !Anandi meddling with the hospital register is not the main cause for this catastrophe !!

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