If you were Pakhi

If you were Pakhi would you forgive the guy who never looked back in 18 years ?

okay im a boy so cant be pakhi

well as Paakhi said in the past 18 yrs she didn't run behind Anshuman or plead in front of him to take her back in his life as it was her 'Swabhimaan' (self-respect) but when he came to take her she had to come along as he is her husband and there cannot be 'Abhimaan' (pride or better vainglory) between a husband and wife...

i would have given him chance...even in show Anshuman did nothing wrong which can make Paakhi reject this marriage even without trying...but everyone has it's own perosnal choice so if paakhi would have rejected anshuman she won't be so wrong

Originally posted by: XBitch_PleaseX

okay im a boy so cant be pakhi

but i also thought that how can a girl wait for someone whom she never saw never meet just heard she got married...im sure no man can ever wait for a woman so long 😳...and thats a true fact..but is there any girls who r alike pakhi ? i mean waits for someone so long 🤔

I think i would give him a chance but only after hearing his side of the story. I would hear his story if my heart would have told me that yes he is telling the truth, then I would probably give him a chance. Though, I would not have put my trust on him.

if the boy was in coma or lost his memory and so was away, I would forgive him. otherwise, in today's world no one waits like this 🤪

Well, this is not a case where the boy promised the girl he will come back. Theirs was a child marriage, they were kids! Kids of 4/5 don't actually know the seriousness of marriage and what it entails to be husband and wife. The idea's that Pakhi had has been drilled into her by her family.

So, if Pakhi has waited for Anshuman then too it's about the values her family instilled in her.

Now, Anshuman's family and Pakhi's family had a fall out. Instead of reminding Pakhi about the child marriage, if they had raised her as an "unwed" girl, then she wouldn't have waited for Anshuman. This is what I feel.

Now coming to the question, what would I do? If I was in her position at 18, I would be more worried about my 12^th exams and future studies than think of getting married. 18 is too young an age to get married and have the responsibility of children. If I was to get married at that age, then I would ensure that I was able to study further. I would have got that promise out of him. As for trust, well that needs to be earned.