Why do we forget that they are people too?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hmm so I read the thread by Vampire-Queen on Behzaad Khan and Siddharth Sen leaving Arjun. And so I obviously also read the reaction of members of AF. And when I posted an article of Ketan Karande getting the MAIN VILLAIN role people didn't like that either.



We love the artists in Arjun, but we also don't really care about them as human beings. I mean if we hear a nice song we demand that the person behind it does it forever and always. We don't care if he or she has any personal problem, after all why should we? (Sarcasm, in case you didn;t get it)

It's not as if I didn't do this, I've e-mailed 4lions and SP just because I was so angry on my favourite actor leaving the show. I've also blamed Gorky, BK, SS and everyone involved for ruining my favourite show, I'm sure they all regret their decision now, after all they were born to please me na... (Sarcasm again)

The best thing about my stupidness? It doesn't make sense, change is inevitable, it's bound to happen. I wanted the same thing again, again and again. They'd given me something I had wanted, and when they failed to give it to me forever and always I got mad. After all they owe me this, don't they?



But more seriously, who am I to get mad? This show is for them like my job is for me, if I can get something better, I will. So what is wrong if KK is doing the MAIN VILLAIN role in a Prabhu Deva movie? Why can't everyone for once be happy? In Arjun he didn't have much to do, and here he as an artist is getting the chance to improve, prove himself and I'm sure also a much larger paycheck.

My colleague left work a few months ago, because she found a better, more paying job. Does this mean I shouldn't be happy for her? After all she ditched me na? No, if I get the opportunity I'd do the same thing. We forget that for them this is their job! They're not obliged to forever entertain us through Arjun.


Anyway, I have to go to work, so I'm off.
I won't say that I'm not saddened, I am. But it is their life, their decision, please let us respect it.

Also please keep in mind that people who leave the show can;t do it in a sec, they have got to serve notice period. Which means that both PH and the actor know of it in advance. Where I live the notice period is 4 weeks, ample time to give everyone a worthy exit. I don't know what it is in India. Nor do I know why they didn't do that. I am no one to judge. That is between the PH and the actor.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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haye-2 chal ki riha yaar... saare jaane chhadi ja rahe ne show nu... ki hunda c show te ki ho giya isda haal...😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree with u..
its their job..
i don't know why people make it a big thing...
some may miss them..
but many people start criticizing their decision..
then there are a no. of rumours n all..
y don't people think that d actors r just portraying a character..apart from it, they have their personal life too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nope...i do remember those are humans...but it felt bad when ur favorite & loved humans failed ur expectations...& you do posses the write to scold & criticize your favorite ones...😳

Edited by Ketakee - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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We are angry at only those who we love so much😳

We are humans too😆

But happy for Ketan since that's a really big break👏
Edited by -Carrie- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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totally agree with you we sometimes get so carried away with the happenings on the show that we forget they have a personal life and new opportunities in life and make a choice they feel the best.
but feel sad nevertheless because we are not given enough notice only hear about it from other sources 😲
The PH should share this at least just before their role finishes so we get time nd accept the changes instead of keeping us hanging in air more so when they have a forum to do so 👎🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ok came here since morning and this is the 1st thread I opened and am reading this now
I do understand that it's difficult to accept when our fav actors are leavibg from the show we have come to love, the same happened when Sana left, the same happened when Behzaad left , when Sid left , becoz these people become an important part of our lives that sometimes we forget the difference btwn Real and Reel

My first question is : Is it already confirmed that Ketan is leaving the show ????? Is there a post about if ????
Yes we have read it here, but we still don't know for sure
All these actors are human just like us and acting is solely their job...their way of providing for themselves and their families...their work !!!!
So I feel we should accept when someone wants to move on and look for better options...everyone wants to progress in life so why not them ????

The problem though is that we don't hear things straight from the PH, but from other sources and that is very frustrating. I mean why don't they come clean about what is actually happening. We as viewers have the right to know what is going on, coz we are the ones who are watching these shows. The PH doesn't make shows for themselves to watch in their homes...and that seems something they don't understand 😡 😡
Edited by eshasrk - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sakshi ur rite we are happy if they get better chance and frow as actor.bht yes when they started a show ans essayed a role we all as audience lived and accepted them.this is what angers us .we feel we are being ditched inbetween.afteralk shiw is ending im a month i guess.without bk and ss the story looks sooo weak.now whom do we have to blame cv's for not giving enough scope for them or they not able to take that for sake of thier loving fans.

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