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Posted: 12 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: tech-tonic

Hi,Yes we have been coming across few instances where nani showed signs of softening.I liked the scene where Nani goes to Lajjo in order to upset her regarding Nikhil taking Ishana to Ballet & completely ignoring the "Mrs" IN THE invite.Here Lajjo in subtle way masks her hurt,but we can see the expressions of understanding on Nani.I think she consciously knows she is playing with an innocent feelings but its like a passtime for her with company she hangs out with (the mom & daughter duo)..I think she will realise soon.I feel lajjo will win this old lady's heart first.😉

On other hand,I like the way Nikhil is protrayed at the moment.Ishana has been his priority all long ,but now with lajjo in picture I see the equation changing.He has sense of responsibility towards Lajjo ,he might make it look as if its NOT a choice at the moment,but he doesnt shies away from acknowledging Lajjo as his wife.I think its first step he has taken.In matter of few moments that Lajjo has been present in his life she cant completely undo the influence Ishana HAS on nikhil.It will happen gradually.😃

I agree we need a male friend for lajjo, someone to make things GREEN😉But to have him effective in the picture either Ishana should fade out or Nikhil be shown falling for Lajjo..I prefer the latter.😊Also I wish all these people in the house who are conspiring to get Lajjo out of house ,begging forgiveness for the way they have ridiculed her.Lajjo deserves happiness as rightfully given to the daughter in law of the house with all due respect ,even if that means a re-marriage.OFC that can happen only when Nikhil falls in Love ,(head over heels)with Lajjo.

agree with everything you said and i understand where nikhil is coming from but it still frustrating though. im glad that his feelings for ishaana just didn't disappear. i would be more concerned if it did so easily, without much influence. its one of those things that i love about nikhil's character that he loves deeply, completely, and is fully committed to that love. the only thing that concerns me is when ishaana comes in the picture it's a total disregard and almost lack of respect on his part towards laajo. i know he stressed out that there will be no feelings on either end and he doesn't know how laajo feels about him but it would still be upsetting if i have to continuously be thrown the image and the name of a woman that i barely know. a woman that i eventually find out is in love and has been in love with my husband for almost their entire lives. it would be uncomfortable and annoying almost as if somehow ur not measuring and probably wont ever measure up to that woman in question. in this moment, laajo is definitely the 3rd wheel and i got that since they promoted the show but i feel bad for her and i just want her to do something, other than having to face being humiliated by his family.

nani will fall for laajo first, but it will be a long time from now. i think she might fall for laajo charm and innocence and might be interested in knowing more about her when it is conducted in private, but i think when it comes to the family she might maintain that oblivious front. it might take a while before she actually fully supports laajo in front of the entire family is basically what im trying to say.

i now see ur and agree with ur view on rather having the second lead come in as friend for laajo and rather have the "jealousy" on nikhil's part where Ishaana is fading out. however, do you mean out of the picture entirely or out of nikhil's frame of mind and heart?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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awesome idea
agree with you
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't know about new guy but down the line nikhil will compare ishana with Lajo and then he ll know he is more comfortable with Lajo than ishana.also Lajo is not bossy like ishana nikhil will be nikhil with Lajo no changes required for him

But new guy will create fire for sure
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: najialuv88

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agree with everything you said and i understand where nikhil is coming from but it still frustrating though. im glad that his feelings for ishaana just didn't disappear. i would be more concerned if it did so easily, without much influence. its one of those things that i love about nikhil's character that he loves deeply, completely, and is fully committed to that love. the only thing that concerns me is when ishaana comes in the picture it's a total disregard and almost lack of respect on his part towards laajo. i know he stressed out that there will be no feelings on either end and he doesn't know how laajo feels about him but it would still be upsetting if i have to continuously be thrown the image and the name of a woman that i barely know. a woman that i eventually find out is in love and has been in love with my husband for almost their entire lives. it would be uncomfortable and annoying almost as if somehow ur not measuring and probably wont ever measure up to that woman in question. in this moment, laajo is definitely the 3rd wheel and i got that since they promoted the show but i feel bad for her and i just want her to do something, other than having to face being humiliated by his family.

nani will fall for laajo first, but it will be a long time from now. i think she might fall for laajo charm and innocence and might be interested in knowing more about her when it is conducted in private, but i think when it comes to the family she might maintain that oblivious front. it might take a while before she actually fully supports laajo in front of the entire family is basically what im trying to say.

i now see ur and agree with ur view on rather having the second lead come in as friend for laajo and rather have the "jealousy" on nikhil's part where Ishaana is fading out. however, do you mean out of the picture entirely or out of nikhil's frame of mind and heart?


Hi ,Sorry for the late reply
@BOLD: Ditto! Right now Nikhil's thinking is clouded by Ishana's influence on him.She cant be out of picture so soon,we need her ,its important to have her ,otherwise how can Nikhil get his priorities right.The day HE goes after Lajjo completely...NO choice but pura dil se he feels for Lajjo...that time we dont need her[ishana]😉
If we have early exit of Ishana Nikhil will yearn for her,and always reflect his life without her,an d Lajjo will be sidelined.If she be's in the frame now more then ever,he will see both sides the reasonable,and unreasonable.With Ishana he be's like a puppet,always bending to her preferences,its always him who tries to make her understand...just knowing fav color,fav brand wouldnt make them thru life as partners ,there is very little or no understanding betn. them.Their relationship is forged more out of their status,upbringing,and closeness as "friends"...its this which will make him realise his folly.The camaraderie he is sharing at the moment with Lajjo is painting many things in RED😛Enjoy !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tech-tonic


Hi ,Sorry for the late reply
@BOLD: Ditto! Right now Nikhil's thinking is clouded by Ishana's influence on him.She cant be out of picture so soon,we need her ,its important to have her ,otherwise how can Nikhil get his priorities right.The day HE goes after Lajjo completely...NO choice but pura dil se he feels for Lajjo...that time we dont need her[ishana]😉
If we have early exit of Ishana Nikhil will yearn for her,and always reflect his life without her,an d Lajjo will be sidelined.If she be's in the frame now more then ever,he will see both sides the reasonable,and unreasonable.With Ishana he be's like a puppet,always bending to her preferences,its always him who tries to make her understand...just knowing fav color,fav brand wouldnt make them thru life as partners ,there is very little or no understanding betn. them.Their relationship is forged more out of their status,upbringing,and closeness as "friends"...its this which will make him realise his folly.The camaraderie he is sharing at the moment with Lajjo is painting many things in RED😛Enjoy !

@ bold : exactly that's why i also want ishana don't leave or move on. because i think nikhil loves laajo for he don't want to believe that so to realize the truth ishana is now very much important in nikhil's life
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tech-tonic


Hi ,Sorry for the late reply
@BOLD: Ditto! Right now Nikhil's thinking is clouded by Ishana's influence on him.She cant be out of picture so soon,we need her ,its important to have her ,otherwise how can Nikhil get his priorities right.The day HE goes after Lajjo completely...NO choice but pura dil se he feels for Lajjo...that time we dont need her[ishana]😉
If we have early exit of Ishana Nikhil will yearn for her,and always reflect his life without her,an d Lajjo will be sidelined.If she be's in the frame now more then ever,he will see both sides the reasonable,and unreasonable.With Ishana he be's like a puppet,always bending to her preferences,its always him who tries to make her understand...just knowing fav color,fav brand wouldnt make them thru life as partners ,there is very little or no understanding betn. them.Their relationship is forged more out of their status,upbringing,and closeness as "friends"...its this which will make him realise his folly.The camaraderie he is sharing at the moment with Lajjo is painting many things in RED😛Enjoy !


no problem😛😊!!!

that's what i was thinking after laajo joined the picture there was no way nikhil was going to fall for her, ishaana is on his mind 24/7. i just wanted them to eventually send her away to study, where he is slowly easing out of fire from ishaana (seeing her actual nature) and is starting to see laajo as a true friend. i wanted that period of time to reveal to him his feelings.

however, the route the took with this show is just as effective and couldn't even say more likely in happening. like u said, now in the story, ishana is crucial. before all we seen was poor ishana and nikhil, childhood friends then gf/bf who were meant to be. however, after laajo came in the picture there seems to be a break down of her character, revealing her actual attributes/characteristics. i would group her in with the rest of the gang, they are not necessarily evil, but are definitely not good in any means. a person that has to continuously call a guy over and over and get pissed and then visits his house and then gets mad because he's not there for her beck and call. this is only the beginning and im actually going to enjoy as the CV's unravel more of her spoiled and bratty character and slowly nikhil's interactions with laajo will slowly reveal to him something that is "off" with ishana's character.

there is more to a relationship than remembering dates, interests, and hobbies. i wouldn't care if my partner barely remember dates if he showed the type of love and adoration that nikhil has for ishana. she is mad and just really spoiled but what really is going to put ishana at a lost is her mother's disappointment( i feel for her mother and cannot see on how the personality got lost) for her continual lies.

also, like u said, their relationship is one formed out of status and upbringing, but i would probably even say loneliness. the way barkha is, i bet nikhil had it hard without his mother's love and his friends and ishana esp. showered him with love that was able to suffice the loneliness that he is feeling.
@ bold, yes it is pointing things in the red zone...but we need situations like what happened yesterday (because i know ishana is going to go over the edge once nikhil come back and he didn't tell her that he left without HER knowing😡). these type of situations need to build for nikhil to actually really become released from the cloud of love that is blinding him
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Posted: 12 years ago
#27
I desperately want to see a new guy who will fall in love with Laajo 😊
and Nikhil's reaction on this, ofc 😛

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