Why do you treat me like a Baby Mr. Khan?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Pri's post prompted all my pent up emotions, lol. So I thought I will copy paste what I wrote there in a fresh post itself.
Here's the link to her original post for those who missed it. I doubt anyone misses her posts, but well:


And, here's my response.

There is a very thick, not fine, line between being happy go lucky and being immature. I know that the CVs showed that Zoya can have fun even with a bitter past in contrast to Asad who is kind of stuck in his past. But, to show what she did today - just to make him have fun was stupid. And, ofcourse She did not find the earring either!!!

What are we trying to say? Asad should love Zoya as she is? Doesn't he already? He does not want to change her... He just cant be in mess. Didn't he already tell her how he accepts her as she is, after the skirt episode when he gifted her that suit, and also with her burns, not in the privacy of the room only, but also publicly? Didn't he, already show how much he values her *difference* during the mehndi episode? Then, may be being the five year old she is, Zoya has a selective memory?

And, most importantly - when he was drenched in love... and obsessed with the passionate feeling of fulfilling her desire of eating pizza in bed... did he even care about his own OCD? No. All he cared was to make sure he made the pizza for her.

These scenes were cute - in the beginning. But now they are repetitive. Asad has done a lot for Zoya - (in this regard, as in changing for her). I know many would argue about the *trade* but, at this time, I am only speaking about how much they have changed for each other. From accepting her in jeans, to recognizing her strengths, he has done everything he can to show that he values her just as is. He even slept on floor when he saw her sleep on the floor in the Madrasa.

What has Zoya changed for Asad? She is down right insensitive. Even as a guest, in the earlier episodes, to being a rebel on many public occasions where she cared zilch for Khan family's izzat, to now ... what is the one change that Zoya has brought in herself for Asad, the man she claims to love? She did more to respect the wishes and personalities of people in SM, when she was mute, docile and submissive, than for Asad, IMO.

This couple and actors have so much potential. They were brilliant trying to hunt down Dilshaad's shooter. Their different personalities complemented each other. They were brilliant in how they connected to each other's pain during the finding abbu track. Asad was out of this world when he expresses their first meeting to DB. Why can't we take their relationship up a notch. Fine, you want to delay their nikaah? Go for it. You want them to have fun, go for it. But please, do something to to show how really two people with stark differences in their personalities would adjust to each other. Show some real conflict? Dont know why the CVS are hell bent on going downward in this graph... like plummeting as if there's no tomorrow. I am fed up of these juvenile tracks. But who cares? And, who is stupid? Me of course for expecting more from the writers who could think of the cool armour suit for Tanu and chicken blood. Well, may be I should learn my lesson? Because the CVs for sure wont. :)

PS: Long rant. Might as well make a lost out of it.I knew you would share my sentiments. There is a very thick, not fine, line between being happy go lucky and being immature. I know that the CVs showed that Zoya can have fun even with a bitter past in contrast to Asad who is kind of stuck in his past. But, to show what she did today - just to make him have fun was stupid. And, ofcourse She did not find the earring either!!!
What are we trying to say? Asad should love Zoya as she is? Doesn't he already? He does not want to change her... He just cant be in mess. Didn't he already tell her how he accepts her as she is, after the skirt episode when he gifted her that suit, and also with her burns, not in the privacy of the room only, but also publicly? Didn't he, already show how much he values her *difference* during the mehndi episode? Then, may be being the five year old she is, Zoya has a selective memory?

And, most importantly - when he was drenched in love... and obsessed with the passionate feeling of fulfilling her desire of eating pizza in bed... did he even care about his own OCD? No. All he cared was to make sure he made the pizza for her.

These scenes were cute - in the beginning. But now they are repetitive. Asad has done a lot for Zoya - (in this regard, as in changing for her). I know many would argue about the *trade* but, at this time, I am only speaking about how much they have changed for each other. From accepting her in jeans, to recognizing her strengths, he has done everything he can to show that he values her just as is. He even slept on floor when he saw her sleep on the floor in the Madrasa.

What has Zoya changed for Asad? She is down right insensitive. Even as a guest, in the earlier episodes, to being a rebel on many public occasions where she cared zilch for Khan family's izzat, to now ... what is the one change that Zoya has brought in herself for Asad, the man she claims to love? She did more to respect the wishes and personalities of people in SM, when she was mute, docile and submissive, than for Asad, IMO.

This couple and actors have so much potential. They were brilliant trying to hunt down Dilshaad's shooter. Their different personalities complemented each other. They were brilliant in how they connected to each other's pain during the finding abbu track. Asad was out of this world when he expresses their first meeting to DB. Why can't we take their relationship up a notch. Fine, you want to delay their nikaah? Go for it. You want them to have fun, go for it. But please, do something to to show how really two people with stark differences in their personalities would adjust to each other. Show some real conflict? Dont know why the CVS are hell bent on going downward in this graph... like plummeting as if there's no tomorrow. I am fed up of these juvenile tracks. There' was a subtle message there - Asad did not break toys because he did not have the luxury of many or excess. I wish Zoya took a clue. He does not have a personality problem. There is a reason why he is the way he is, and with time he can loosen up a little, while Zoya begins to tighten up her act too. Why are wonderful tracks like this (or the earring, or Rashid and Asad's birthday gift exchange) treated so immaturely by this PH? But who cares? And, who is stupid? Me of course for expecting more from the writers who could think of the cool armour suit for Tanu and chicken blood. Well, may be I should learn my lesson? Because the CVs for sure wont. :)


And, yes, Zoya, may be you don't but we know why Mr. Khan treats you like a kid.

PS: Karan Singh Grover was bang on with his *disgusted* expressions. If you are OCD, you sure know what I mean :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Till Dinning table it was cute...but bedroom... 🤬
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Posted: 11 years ago
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res..
unres

I have a problem with AsYa at many levels -
I understand being in love, I have been there. I married a guy who is the opposite of me. But I don't understand their kind love. They don't grow in love, they only fall. Downward.

When a couple falls in love, they spend time knowing each other. Which agreed, living under the same roof and going through so many experiences together, they have. But what about the time they were not together. Is Asad never curious about her childhood? Is she not interested in knowing what is the root cause of his OCD?

Why does this couple never talk? So much shit has happened in their lives and no one wants to talk about it. Tanveer trying to kill Zoya? ZoYaan? Razia trying to frame Zoya? Tanveer trying to put Asad behind bars? I am guessing the conversation happen when cameras are not rolling?

Why is this couple stuck at being CUTE? I am starting to hate it. Cute is what kids are. Couples have and can use many more adjectives.

Are they hormonally challenged? Can someone give them some hormone imbalance therapy? Their hormones were fine before the confessions happened. Since then, they are more than happy smiling and hugging. Is there not longing? Needs? I bet if people hug as often as them in real life, they would be doing it on the ground by now.😕 I know I am going to hear about ethics and morals and culture and all, but then please stay away from each other properly and bring in some longing looks.

Why do they contantly have to talk crap? hmm..that's Zoya my bad. Some of the best times of my courtship were the quiet moments, catching a movie, listening to music, long strolls. Why this OTT and forced cheesy cuteness? I think I ODed on cuteness today.

Heck even ZoYaan was better. Which reminds me, AsYa and ZoYaan relationship is on the same level at times. The same stupid jokes and nok jhok.🤢

Did I rant enough?
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Edited by QueenOfMyCastle - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Me I had fun with Asad's expressions !!
I have come across many character as such and the dramatic change is awesome to watch !! Really !! The best is when a baby comes and Mr Prim and Proper is on the opposing team breaking the rules instead 😉 .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I found the episode really cute, really enjoyed it and I can see why they showed it, won't just say it till I see it play out later. BUT I AGREE about one thing here. Asad has had a remarkable change in him for the good, there is definitely need for a track when Zoya moulds herself for Asad.
Edited by Ankita.M - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Edited to add a few more sentences of my rant ! I am on a roll today, lol . I miss Shruthi, lol.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved the last big para, said it all that is needed from the show..
Zoya hasnt grown a bit in their relationship, yes she stood by his side but she still challenges his personality instead of understanding him, makes her very insensitive..
Asad is changing but not just habits but total himself his values and personality, and this is never good thing. One should change himself enough that he can identify old himself into his new one else he will be more lost..
I dont know if they never had any story, guts to tell truthful their story or some other internal issues. I always thought they have one hell of story to begin with and cast to execute it but now my confidence is slipping
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _vineeta_

Loved the last big para, said it all that is needed from the show..

Zoya hasnt grown a bit in their relationship, yes she stood by his side but she still challenges his personality instead of understanding him, makes her very insensitive..
Asad is changing but not just habits but total himself his values and personality, and this is never good thing. One should change himself enough that he can identify old himself into his new one else he will be more lost..
I dont know if they never had any story, guts to tell truthful their story or some other internal issues. I always thought they have one hell of story to begin with and cast to execute it but now my confidence is slipping



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Posted: 11 years ago
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d only thing to watch was asad's expressions ...bang on .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If they want Asad to have fun and loosen up. How about Asad and Zoya spend the day outside together. Do some activity out in the sun. Go sight seeing, Go to the movies, go shopping or whatever other fun things there is to do in Bhopal.

This "mess this up" and "lick this" thing aint friggin working. It makes Zoya look like she could do with a couple classes in etiquette for a grown woman.


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