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Vashti

@VashH

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

The forum is on fire right now and every post boils down to the table manners. . Negative .. Positive .. Love it !!
Rest period over !! Love it ..

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priya713

@priya713

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

omg, did Mona Darling dare say the T word 😲 ...lol totally kidding 😆...but u know the trade was something Zoya did FOR Asad...even if we argue that she got herself in that situation etc...I still think in Asad's eyes (not our eyes), her other faults should be compensated for the biggest sacrifice she made for him and maybe thats why he doesn't try to change her even moreso now because deep down he will never forget what she did for him. But in terms of us, the viewers/outsiders, she is completely in the wrong here. You can't make someone be messy. Thats just downright stupid. Moreso, you can't CHANGE someone or expect someone to change for you, esp someone you love. Plus, if it was the other way around and Asad made her change some habit of hers, we'd be going crazy with how controlling and chauvinistic Asad is being. It did seem like there was a time that Zoya was slowly being cautious of making sure things were in their place because she knew Asad didnt like that (i.e. when she was serving at the Mangalpur wedding and kept his plate and things tidy for him like he liked) but its like now they're going backwards again. These CV's seem to have a really bad memory sometimes on where they go in their own tracks right? lol

Anyways, I honestly think this track was just added to fill in the "AsYa love tank" we constantly need "filling" while waiting the 3 months for an AsYa marriage. Plus it provides for some nice AsYa convos, more AsYa screen space and for lighthearted AsYa humor that is needed from time to time. i love any scene that has KaBhi in the same frame so I have no complaints if this is what it takes to get that. 😉

Great post as always. Love your "novels" Mona!!!

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...MonaCo...

@...MonaCo...

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: _vineeta_
Loved the last big para, said it all that is needed from the show..

Zoya hasnt grown a bit in their relationship, yes she stood by his side but she still challenges his personality instead of understanding him, makes her very insensitive..

Asad is changing but not just habits but total himself his values and personality, and this is never good thing. One should change himself enough that he can identify old himself into his new one else he will be more lost..

I dont know if they never had any story, guts to tell truthful their story or some other internal issues. I always thought they have one hell of story to begin with and cast to execute it but now my confidence is slipping

Such a subtle issue - helping Asad get a closure and such a stupid way to portray it, if at all. She is not even sensitive to the fact that he has issues. I am watching Jee Le Zara (Yes I just quoted another show, please don't bash me for comparisons) and I love how they are handing the same issue - helping a stuck up partner get out of the clutches of their past and get a closure. Beautiful.

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...MonaCo...

@...MonaCo...

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Priya,

Which is why I said lets keep the trade out of the discussion. It is something Zoya did for Asad, but here I wanted to just discuss how much they have grown in each other's love.

At the same level Asad has also sacrificed his principles for her - when he stepped inside SM just for her. I know he is guilty for putting her through what he did, and that justifies his need to overcompensate, but isn't that blackmailing. I said yesterday - you can't do something for someone and then just give up, that this is it. Now you pay the price for this all your life. That is not love.

Also, no matter what, the biggest question remains - what if Zoya did not immaturely leave her nikaah - but rather looped Asad in the discussion. Wouldn't he have trusted her. If you want to show chemistry - dont you think you want to show Asad trusting her, that time, and their relationship going up a level instead of this comic track?

You know, Vineeta said it - you change in love but not so much that you are not the person you were before. In the movie, Taal, there is a saying that you should never fall in love, but rise in love. Or wait, was it Yaadein... I forget... But yes, thats the idea. Two partners need to beautifully bring out each other's best. That would make for such a lovely track. Less is more and I have no appetite for OTT stuff. :).

Thanks for always reading my novels. I am never confident that they are valued by anyone, :)

Originally posted by: priya713
omg, did Mona Darling dare say the T word 😲 ...lol totally kidding 😆...but u know the trade was something Zoya did FOR Asad...even if we argue that she got herself in that situation etc...I still think in Asad's eyes (not our eyes), her other faults should be compensated for the biggest sacrifice she made for him and maybe thats why he doesn't try to change her even moreso now because deep down he will never forget what she did for him. But in terms of us, the viewers/outsiders, she is completely in the wrong here. You can't make someone be messy. Thats just downright stupid. Moreso, you can't CHANGE someone or expect someone to change for you, esp someone you love. Plus, if it was the other way around and Asad made her change some habit of hers, we'd be going crazy with how controlling and chauvinistic Asad is being. It did seem like there was a time that Zoya was slowly being cautious of making sure things were in their place because she knew Asad didnt like that (i.e. when she was serving at the Mangalpur wedding and kept his plate and things tidy for him like he liked) but its like now they're going backwards again. These CV's seem to have a really bad memory sometimes on where they go in their own tracks right? lol
Anyways, I honestly think this track was just added to fill in the "AsYa love tank" we constantly need "filling" while waiting the 3 months for an AsYa marriage. Plus it provides for some nice AsYa convos, more AsYa screen space and for lighthearted AsYa humor that is needed from time to time. i love any scene that has KaBhi in the same frame so I have no complaints if this is what it takes to get that. 😉

Great post as always. Love your "novels" Mona!!!

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livelytanu

@livelytanu

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#15

Loved your post! 👏 I have stopped expecting from the CVs, they cant show a mature relationship! They wont even try to show it! They have no intention to move the story nor they have intention to show Asya properly! And I am still watching the show. But even without expecting something I found the episode utter nonsense! What kind of dialogue was that? Zoya saying that Asad has a problem with this personality since childhood? is this a joke? 🤢

One of the worst episodes of Q.H. 🤢

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priya713

@priya713

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: monaco
Priya,
Which is why I said lets keep the trade out of the discussion. It is something Zoya did for Asad, but here I wanted to just discuss how much they have grown in each other's love.

At the same level Asad has also sacrificed his principles for her - when he stepped inside SM just for her. I know he is guilty for putting her through what he did, and that justifies his need to overcompensate, but isn't that blackmailing. I said yesterday - you can't do something for someone and then just give up, that this is it. Now you pay the price for this all your life. That is not love.

Also, no matter what, the biggest question remains - what if Zoya did not immaturely leave her nikaah - but rather looped Asad in the discussion. Wouldn't he have trusted her. If you want to show chemistry - dont you think you want to show Asad trusting her, that time, and their relationship going up a level instead of this comic track?

You know, Vineeta said it - you change in love but not so much that you are not the person you were before. In the movie, Taal, there is a saying that you should never fall in love, but rise in love. Or wait, was it Yaadein... I forget... But yes, thats the idea. Two partners need to beautifully bring out each other's best. That would make for such a lovely track. Less is more and I have no appetite for OTT stuff. :).

Thanks for always reading my novels. I am never confident that they are valued by anyone, :)

Thats why I said "in Asad's eyes" because I think the subconscious guilt he feels for her sacrificing her principles on marriage and the fact that she will forever be titled a divorcee, will compensate for the things she does wrong (in HIS eyes) so thats why he never brings that up...but I don't, in any way, think personally (or rationally) that because of her 'sacrifice', that she should be given a free pass. Im just saying I think Asad lets it go because of that. Having said that...her qualms on him being too much of a neat freak and wanting him to change i think is more playful than actually sincerely hating that he's a neat freak. I love Ankie's take though that she's doing this to help him reverse his OCD lol.

And how is it blackmailing? Its not like Zoya is throwing it in his face. I married Ayaan for you so now you have to reciprocate.

Wow, Mona...how mature are we?! We're like best friends here (u know trusting each other with those deep dark secrets on a measure of 10 and all 😉) but actually debating on something. lol

❤️ You!!

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Amandeep

@aman1605

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Cmon guyz it was a cute episode😳

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...MonaCo...

@...MonaCo...

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: priya713

Thats why I said "in Asad's eyes" because I think the subconscious guilt he feels for her sacrificing her principles on marriage and the fact that she will forever be titled a divorcee, will compensate for the things she does wrong (in HIS eyes) so thats why he never brings that up...but I don't, in any way, think personally (or rationally) that because of her 'sacrifice', that she should be given a free pass. Im just saying I think Asad lets it go because of that. Having said that...her qualms on him being too much of a neat freak and wanting him to change i think is more playful than actually sincerely hating that he's a neat freak. I love Ankie's take though that she's doing this to help him reverse his OCD lol.

And how is it blackmailing? Its not like Zoya is throwing it in his face. I married Ayaan for you so now you have to reciprocate.

Wow, Mona...how mature are we?! We're like best friends here (u know trusting each other with those deep dark secrets on a measure of 10 and all 😉) but actually debating on something. lol

❤️ You!!

I love you too!

And, I read Ankita's post. It did make me think differently. And, yes, its true Zoya is doing to reverse his OCD and I think I can forgive the PH for always being very childish in their treatment of many important tracks.

You are right on everything you say - everything. :). Zoya didn't blame Asad and Asad could be thinking like that - but I really feel sorry for him. He has endured so much (and this is my statement, not a reaction to this track or today's episode) that I wish they show some sensitivity with how he gets rid of his past. He has never got a closure - and I think this was the beauty of AsYa in my eyes - they both have fears, past etc to deal with - and they do it in stark contrast of each other. I loved how Asad had acknowledged this and this is what made him fall in love with her. She grew on him as a person. I wish she showed some sensitivity in helping him out (I think this would make a great treat for AsYa fans too!!!) because she has shown she is capable of this in the past. :)

And are we debating? I dont think so :)

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