Very Annoyed With Ram, And Everyone Else!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am highly angry because of today's episode. It is so disturbing to see Priya stand in a corner pretend to look happy but she feels terrible deep down inside! What is this?

I always love Priya-Neha and also Sakshi-Tarana's beautiful bond. I was waiting for the time when they meet each other. I really loved that part, it is a treat to watch. It looked realistically played!

Juhi, now she has to understand that Priya is back to take care of Ram. She has to control herself, she cannot continue all this. If you ask me, she doesn't really care about Priya. I am sure she is a mature adult and she better stop this soon.

Ram, why is he supporting Juhi? Anyone will say that Juhi has no right to barge in when it is between mother-daughter. Me, being a daughter, no-one even speaks while my mother talks to me regarding things like this. He should've probably told Juhi to kindly leave the room and let Priya handle it her way. And he wouldn't do that because he loves Priya, but because it is clearly the most sensible thing to do! The first thing I said after watching the precap was ewww this is gross. I don't care what relationship he has with Juhi but whatever it is, there is a limit to everything. I know he loves Priya, that he won't stop but that doesn't mean he can ignore her and forget that she's there. I was so angry with Ram today, disgusting!

No comments over Peehu, Sammy and Suhaani. Definitely not interested!

I feel so terrible for Priya, I mean really. I know she is loud sometimes but I feel terrible for her. No-one can understand or try to understand what she's going through.

All my hopes are gone, I don't know where positivity can be started and trusted again.

Sanjana

Note: I still am a high full on RK fan, crazy die hard RaYa fan. I still really am in love with Ram and RaYa fan. I have this big crush on him, but I am just super angry with the episode.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanjanaS.

I am highly angry because of today's episode. It is so disturbing to see Priya stand in a corner pretend to look happy but she feels terrible deep down inside! What is this?

I always love Priya-Neha and also Sakshi-Tarana's beautiful bond. I was waiting for the time when they meet each other. I really loved that part, it is a treat to watch. It looked realistically played!

Juhi, now she has to understand that Priya is back to take care of Ram. She has to control herself, she cannot continue all this. If you ask me, she doesn't really care about Priya. I am sure she is a mature adult and she better stop this soon.

Ram, why is he supporting Juhi? Anyone will say that Juhi has no right to barge in when it is between mother-daughter. Me, being a daughter, no-one even speaks while my mother talks to me regarding things like this. He should've probably told Juhi to kindly leave the room and let Priya handle it her way. And he wouldn't do that because he loves Priya, but because it is clearly the most sensible thing to do! The first thing I said after watching the precap was ewww this is gross. I don't care what relationship he has with Juhi but whatever it is, there is a limit to everything. I know he loves Priya, that he won't stop but that doesn't mean he can ignore her and forget that she's there. I was so angry with Ram today, disgusting!

No comments over Peehu, Sammy and Suhaani. Definitely not interested!

I feel so terrible for Priya, I mean really. I know she is loud sometimes but I feel terrible for her. No-one can understand or try to understand what she's going through.

All my hopes are gone, I don't know where positivity can be started and trusted again.

Sanjana

Note: I still am a high full on RK fan, crazy die hard RaYa fan. I still really am in love with Ram and RaYa fan. I have this big crush on him, but I am just super angry with the episode.


Sanajana

Is this really you or your account is hacked?😊😊😊

Okay on a serious note...I was really sad to see priya alone today...and what u have written is exactly right..!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: paaji54



Sanajana

Is this really you or your account is hacked?😊😊😊

Okay on a serious note...I was really sad to see priya alone today...and what u have written is exactly right..!

It's me, believe it or not. I have never felt like this before. In the Rajat track also I wasn't like this. This I can't handle. No way. Terrible this is!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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,so

Originally posted by: SanjanaS.

I am highly angry because of today's episode. It is so disturbing to see Priya stand in a corner pretend to look happy but she feels terrible deep down inside! What is this?

I always love Priya-Neha and also Sakshi-Tarana's beautiful bond. I was waiting for the time when they meet each other. I really loved that part, it is a treat to watch. It looked realistically played!

Juhi, now she has to understand that Priya is back to take care of Ram. She has to control herself, she cannot continue all this. If you ask me, she doesn't really care about Priya. I am sure she is a mature adult and she better stop this soon.

Ram, why is he supporting Juhi? Anyone will say that Juhi has no right to barge in when it is between mother-daughter. Me, being a daughter, no-one even speaks while my mother talks to me regarding things like this. He should've probably told Juhi to kindly leave the room and let Priya handle it her way. And he wouldn't do that because he loves Priya, but because it is clearly the most sensible thing to do! The first thing I said after watching the precap was ewww this is gross. I don't care what relationship he has with Juhi but whatever it is, there is a limit to everything. I know he loves Priya, that he won't stop but that doesn't mean he can ignore her and forget that she's there. I was so angry with Ram today, disgusting!

No comments over Peehu, Sammy and Suhaani. Definitely not interested!

I feel so terrible for Priya, I mean really. I know she is loud sometimes but I feel terrible for her. No-one can understand or try to understand what she's going through.

All my hopes are gone, I don't know where positivity can be started and trusted again.

Sanjana

Note: I still am a high full on RK fan, crazy die hard RaYa fan. I still really am in love with Ram and RaYa fan. I have this big crush on him, but I am just super angry with the episode.

Sanjana cheer up dear.If u r the same Sanjana frm RKR days, u really must b feeling terrible,I too feeling vry sad but then it's only then v'll get our raya back in full form. RK& ST needs 2 shoot 2gether too.😉 So cheer up.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I really don't think that things are that bad. If the CVs just keep on showing only RaYa moments, they might as well shut the show. They need to have a story or track for the drama.

Priya has woken up from a 7 year coma. Of course, she will have adjustment issues. Priya cannot expect or be expected to glide back into her old life because life as she knew it has changed. In fact, she has to change a little and change the others a little too. It would be very unrealistic to show Priya adjusting very well to things around her.
Ram loves Priya, no doubt about it. I don't see him giving any preferential treatment to Juhi. He treats her as a friend and respects her for the help she has given to the family in the 7 years. Like Priya is lost after 7 years, Ram is just living his life the way he has lived these 7 years. How unrealistic would it be to expect him to change overnight too. I don't think he realises that things will change now and unconsciously is also facing adjustment issues.
Yesterday, when the friends were together, Priya was standing away. Yes, Ram could have called her to sit with them or Priya could have rightfully gone to sit with her husband. One of the reasons that did not happen is I think because Sakshi was shooting that scene separately, with only Sid.
Juhi till now has not been shown negative. Yesterday, at the dining table, she told Ram not to eat the fatty food and then told Priya to tell Ram not to eat that food. I don't think Juhi is doing it consciously. She too has to adjust and this adjustment will not happen overnight. How unrealistic would it be to show a woman who has taken care of a family for 7 years to automatically step back and not interfere. Unconsciously, she will and it will take time for her to stop. Unless the CVs have plans to show her as negative.
As for the precap, I would wait to see the whole thing. If you look at it from one point of view, it was rude to talk that way to Juhi who all said and done, is an outsider. So Ram asked Priya, why was she talking that way to Juhi...I would not take that as Juhi being supported or Priya being side-lined. Unless it's fine to be rude. Juhi was trying to tell Priya something, perhaps Priya could have heard it out and then firmly told Juhi that she would handle it??? I would like to see the whole scene.
It's a show and they need a story. If Priya came back from a coma and found everything fine, where's the drama? If everything was fine and only Pihu was spoilt...then the script would have concentrated on Pihu and we would have grumbled. Here, we get to see RaYa moments, RaYa having issues and along with that, the children too. I think I would wait to see what happens.
As I said before, just RaYa moments will not make a serial. It needs a story, a story that brings RaYa into the centre, make RaYa stronger as a couple because when they work through issues, problems and emotions, they may emerge stronger...hopefully this track might just do that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PKBAAA

,so

Sanjana cheer up dear.If u r the same Sanjana frm RKR days, u really must b feeling terrible,I too feeling vry sad but then it's only then v'll get our raya back in full form. RK& ST needs 2 shoot 2gether too.😉So cheer up.

Thanks for the support... Yeah I'm the same Sanjana from RKR. Well now I am feeling better but that precap scene is stuck into my head. Thank you :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SuganthiS

I really don't think that things are that bad. If the CVs just keep on showing only RaYa moments, they might as well shut the show. They need to have a story or trackfor the drama.




Priya has woken up from a 7 year coma. Of course, she will have adjustment issues.Priya cannot expect or be expected to glide back into her old life because life as she knew it has changed. In fact, she has to change a little and change the others a little too. It would be very unrealistic to show Priya adjusting very well to things around her.




Ram loves Priya, no doubt about it.I don't see him giving any preferential treatment to Juhi. He treats her as a friend and respects her for the help she has given to the family in the 7 years. Like Priya is lost after 7 years, Ram is just living his life theway he haslived these 7 years.How unrealistic would it be to expect him to change overnight too. I don't think he realises thatthings will change nowand unconsciously is also facing adjustment issues.





Yesterday, when the friends were together, Priya was standing away. Yes, Ram could have called her to sit with them or Priya could have rightfully gone to sit with her husband. One of the reasons that did not happen is I think because Sakshi was shooting that scene separately, with only Sid.




Juhi till now has not been shown negative. Yesterday, at the dining table, she told Ram not to eat the fatty food and then told Priya to tell Ram not to eat that food. I don't think Juhi is doing it consciously. She too has to adjust and this adjustment will not happen overnight. How unrealistic would it be to show a woman who has taken care of a family for 7 years to automatically step back and not interfere. Unconsciously, she will and it will take time for her to stop. Unless the CVs have plans to show her as negative.




As for the precap, I would wait to see the whole thing. If you look at it from one point of view, it was rude to talk that way to Juhi who all said and done, is an outsider. So Ram asked Priya, why was she talking that way to Juhi...I would not take that as Juhi being supported or Priya being side-lined. Unless it's fine to be rude. Juhi was trying to tell Priya something, perhaps Priya could have heard it out and then firmly told Juhi that she would handle it??? I would like to see the whole scene.




It's a show and they need a story. If Priya came back from a coma and found everything fine, where's the drama? If everything was fine and only Pihu was spoilt...then the script would have concentrated on Pihu and we would have grumbled. Here, we get to see RaYa moments, RaYa having issues and along with that, the children too. I think I would wait to see what happens.




As I said before, just RaYa moments will not make a serial. It needs a story, a story that brings RaYa into the centre, make RaYa stronger as a couple because when they work through issues, problems and emotions, they may emerge stronger...hopefully this track might just do that.

I don't know how you are able to tolerate this Suganthi, I mean it is totally amazing! I have never lost this much of control over anything, but today I couldn't bear it.

Now on your points:

Juhi likes Ram, it is so clear. The KC scene where she cries and had fasted for him, all that was obvious. But, how can they ignore Priya like that? I am sure they can include Priya in that stuff. Yeah she could've gone herself, but did anyone invite her other than Sid? Did they ask about her? It's almost like Juhi has taken Priya's place.

Secondly, it is a matter between mother and daughter. It is better for nobody to interfere. Juhi could've talked to Priya alone after Priya was done with Peehu, just to give her suggestion or advice but interfering right away wasn't right. And if Juhi was alone with Priya and tried to give her a suggestion in a non-interfering manner, then I would have a problem with Priya yelling at Juhi.

Yes we need a script, we need drama, we need all that. But for that are the CVs ready to show such scenes that the some of the audience doesn't tolerate? The drama may be liked by some viewers, some probably don't like it, but in this case, I am sure everyone hated this episode. The drama has to be something where the viewers are interested in it. It can't just be any drama for the show to simply keep going. If it's a show, the CVs have to listen to the audience's opinion.

And you are right, Priya is resuming her life after a pause of 7 long years. It will be hard, it will difficult. For that she needs support, and I'm not saying no-one is supporting her, everyone is! Everybody is supporting Priya for this, but a lot of times she is seen to be disturbed and sad. That is when she needs a lot of support. For example, I loved how we were shown the divorce matter spilled out. Ram handled it perfectly. That way, things like this should be handled too.

Sanjana
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ram ka behavior thik nahi laga.priya ko neglect hi kar diya..thik hai juhi ne uske bacche ka khayal rakha..muje lagta hai ki juhi jaan bujkar ram ke liya concern dikha rahi hai aur sab jagah apni taang maar rahi hai...ek tarf ram ko ye dikha rahi hai ki tum aab priya ka khayal rakho..aur ram ki acchi list mai rahe aur priya hoti hai tab ram ke liya jyada concern dikha rahi hai taaki priya disturb rahe..kuch na kuch gadbad hai..juhi ki beti pecap mai kuch doondte hai hue dekha...apni beti kya kar rahi usey pata nahi priya ke bacche sambhalne nikli.muje lagta hai Ram ..priya ko deserve nahi karta.rajat ki entry honi chahiye..tab ram ki band bajegi.juhi ki engagement hiyi hai sid se aur concern dikha rahi hai ram ki..koi bhi ullu bhi samaj jayega ki kuch gadbad hai...priya apne aap ko bahot hi lonely feel kar rahi hai.i m really feel sorry for priya..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jmehta1957

Ram ka behavior thik nahi laga.priya ko neglect hi kar diya..thik hai juhi ne uske bacche ka khayal rakha..muje lagta hai ki juhi jaan bujkar ram ke liya concern dikha rahi hai aur sab jagah apni taang maar rahi hai...ek tarf ram ko ye dikha rahi hai ki tum aab priya ka khayal rakho..aur ram ki acchi list mai rahe aur priya hoti hai tab ram ke liya jyada concern dikha rahi hai taaki priya disturb rahe..kuch na kuch gadbad hai..juhi ki beti pecap mai kuch doondte hai hue dekha...apni beti kya kar rahi usey pata nahi priya ke bacche sambhalne nikli.muje lagta hai Ram ..priya ko deserve nahi karta.rajat ki entry honi chahiye..tab ram ki band bajegi.juhi ki engagement hiyi hai sid se aur concern dikha rahi hai ram ki..koi bhi ullu bhi samaj jayega ki kuch gadbad hai...priya apne aap ko bahot hi lonely feel kar rahi hai.i m really feel sorry for priya..

ab jo ho gaya so ho gaya. Waise bhi humare haathon mein kuch baccha hi nahi hai... Aage jaate dekhte hain kya hota hai..

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