A Past of Shiv; Good for Anandi?

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debbie

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Posted: 12 years ago

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A Past of Shiv; Good for Anandi?

Often Anandi has been criticized by many in BV.

A balika vadhu, and a divorcee got married to the most eligible bachelor of the country.

"How the Singhs could dupe Shiv into this marriage where the bride and groom were of so much dissimilar backgrounds" have been discussed many times.

ChotiMaa, Sanchi, Urmi Devi, Ira everyone accused Anandi one by one and may be in future many others would keep on doing so even if these people cool down.

Now if Shiv has a background; be it his own adoption or his affairs; I think that would equate the relationship.

If a person is a Adarsh Pati/Patni; Adarsh Beta/Bahu; Adarh Bhai/Bhabi what weightegae the past carries?

P.S. I sincerely believe Shiv would have no such background which would project him as a villain in the show. Please note that the writer is Shri Purnendu Shekhar and he himself once said that Shiv is the ideal man of the show.

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I remember Vasant's first wife died during child birth and she delivered a baby boy who was declared as dead. (Do I recall this correctly 😕)

I still remember in initial days Gehna said that the child should be similar age as her if alive.

Is that Shiv?

Or else why they showed the Singhs getting stunned as well?

Would that make Shiv and Jagdish 2nd cousins!!?? 😕😕

Please note that Gehna is Vasant's 2nd wife.

He had a wife much before her who had died during child birth. When he married Gehna; she threw tantrums at him saying that

"HAD YOUR SON ALIVE, HE WOULD HAVE BEEN OLDER THAN ME!! HOW COULD YOU MARRY SOMEONE AS YOUNG AS YOUR DAUGHTER?"

I think Shiv is his son.

Well it might not happen in real life. However in order to raise TRP the CV may do anything

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Sunna_Deewani

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Posted: 12 years ago

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1st of all why the need to equate the relationship? Is anandi lesser than shiv because she was divorced? If anyone thinks like that its their mentality that needs to changed not shiv should changed for that.

And Past me jo bhi tha kya fark padtha hai. They will cry for sometime and later everything will be fine. If he is adopted hows that a benefit or hindrance to anandi😕? It may affect only shiv for sometime. But this track also was covered in basant's track where he turned out to be mahavir singh's son😕.

if its a past forgotten affair, i can't believe a person like shiv would hide it. For stupid drama, even if they show like that, Its only in his past why anandi should be affected unless there is kid from the past affair? Maybe the kid anandi is going to adopt turns out to be shivs😕. I can't believe this at all😆.

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Whatever past Shiv is a past and one thing is for sure...nothing can lessen AnSh's relation's depthness except lack of love or trust...AnSh were never bothered about each other's past or background...it was an issue between their relatives...i don't think Shiv's past can affect AnSh's relation unless it causes some real problems like misunderstanding in present

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IT depends upon the past...

1stly if shiv have a past ... i dont find ny reason of him hiding it from anandi... wen anandi can be clear abt her past y cant shiv... he is man of princiapls he will definitly nt hide it... n if had affair sumwer else y would he marry anandi den... If I rem Shekhar's had no problem wid shiv being in relationship dey just wanted him to get settled...

yes if he was in party wer he got drunked n den got into physical relationship n he completly forgot abt it... den it can only be termed as mistake coz he had nvr luved the gurl... n beside the story is very filmy...

2ndly if he adopted be it meenu's son or just a adopted son were dis have been hidden (though meenu's son story would be a repetative of basant stry so chances r less) den to dere is nt much to thnk abt... yes it would be difficult for Shiv himself take in abt his identity but den dis is nuthng to do wid ansh relationship...

Infct I believe dere relationship will get stronger to support ur spouse n to encourrage him n bring him out of some mess is gonna strongen the bond btw dem...

in 2nd senerio its mre a problem n emotional trauma for family n shiv den Ansh... but need to see how anandi n shiv deals it...

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debbie

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Dear People,

Please note that anywhere in the world a divorcee/widowed is not equated in status with a never-married, unmarried person. The degree of acceptance differs from place to place but the segregation still remains be it in human being's mind or in terms of law.

Even in many western countries a divorcee (man or woman) can not marry second time in a church/cathedral as it's unlawful in the eyes of the god.

It's unfortunate but true. Even if someone suffers in a bad marriage and separates lawfully; but it's difficult to prove things that happen behind the close walls to all people in the society.

I was about to write another article on this with references.

Of course Shiv's past matters; especially if he has a child or something. However I don't think that's gonna happen considering Shiv's watchful nature. I agree with all of you that he would have definitely discussed that kind of thing with Anandi if true.

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Originally posted by: libsrocks
Whatever past Shiv is a past and one thing is for sure...nothing can lessen AnSh's relation's depthness except lack of love or trust...AnSh were never bothered about each other's past or background...it was an issue between their relatives...i don't think Shiv's past can affect AnSh's relation unless it causes some real problems like misunderstanding in present

very well said libsrocks , i completely agree with u 😊

whatever story is unfolded regarding shiv's past , it's sure

its gonna rather strengthen AnSh bond n their relationship 👍🏼❤️🤗

anandi is sure to support n stand by her husband for that matters

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Another Angle

I remember Vasant's first wife died during child birth and she delivered a baby boy who was declared as dead. (Do I recall this correctly 😕)

I still remember in initial days Gehna said that the child should be similar age as her if alive.

Is that Shiv?

Or else why they showed the Singhs getting stunned as well?

Would that make Shiv and Jagdish 2nd cousins!!?? 😕😕

Please note that Gehna is Vasant's 2nd wife.

He had a wife much before her who had died during child birth. When he married Gehna; she threw tantrums at him saying that

"HAD YOUR SON ALIVE, HE WOULD HAVE BEEN OLDER THAN ME!! HOW COULD YOU MARRY SOMEONE AS YOUNG AS YOUR DAUGHTER?"

I think Shiv is his son.

Well it might not happen in real life. However in order to raise TRP the CV may do anything

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Sunna_Deewani

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Debbiee
Another Angle
I remember Vasant's first wife died during child birth and she delivered a baby boy who was declared as dead. (Do I recall this correctly 😕)

I still remember in initial days Gehna said that the child should be similar age as her if alive.

Is that Shiv?

Or else why they showed the Singhs getting stunned as well?

Would that make Shiv and Jagdish 2nd cousins!!?? 😕😕

Please note that Gehna is Vasant's 2nd wife.

He had a wife much before her who had died during child birth. When he married Gehna; she threw tantrums at him saying that
"HAD YOUR SON ALIVE, HE WOULD HAVE BEEN OLDER THAN ME!! HOW COULD YOU MARRY SOMEONE AS YOUNG AS YOUR DAUGHTER?"

I think Shiv is his son.

Well it might not happen in real life. However in order to raise TRP the CV may do anything

oh! Tab toh Anandi phirse BH ki beendni banjaayegi😆. But really i don't see much of a issue here also. Shiv will be with shekhars only as Basant is with DS even though he is Mahavir singh's son.

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I think you are looking at Shiv's past(if there any) from society's perspective. For some people, Shiv's past may suggest a level playing field between the couple. But for Anandi, it is not good. Because, anything affecting Shiv's feelings will definitely affect Anandi. If Shiv' gets worried, Anandi too will get affected since she would be viewing the whole thing through Shiv's eyes.

In purely arranged marriages, I can understand people's longing for equality in status. You don't know that person, you only look at the credentials on the paper. But in a love marriage, what difference it makes? Shiv fell for Anandi. Her past was not a problem for him, since he knew her in person. If Shiv didn't know Anandi, and if he was looking at a marriage bio-data, not sure what he would have decided. Similarly, a UK educated urban male in a piece of paper would not have looked as an ideal groom from Singh's perspective. Singhs would have preferred a rural education officer or an agriculture specialist.

Shyam-Sugna happened despite Sugna's past. Sanchi fell for Jagya fully knowing his past. Gehna accepted Besanth putting behind his bitter past. Before marriage, people weigh the pros and cons. But after marriage, if somebody finds fault with a person's past, the problem is not with the past, but with the person who raises questions.

Btw, I don't see any inequality in ANSH. You have to measure a person's progress from where they started. It is like the 400 meter running race. On the beginning of the race, it looks like some people are ahead, but actually they start from the front. So only after a while we will know who is actually leading. Shiv was born in an educated family, he got the best opportunities. He studied in the best colleges. He has role models in his family. Anandi was born in a family who stopped her from going to school. They forcibly got her married at age 8. She did not have any role models in her family. Her husband left her. Against all these odds, she became a woman sarpanch in a backward place. She developed the place very well that it became a district. She won award from the Chief Minister. So who is lagging behind whom???? There are many MBA holders, there are many eligible bachelors and many collectors in India. But how many Anandis are there in India???? Anandi is more unique than Shiv. I think, it is a matter of pride for Shiv to marry Anandi.

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Posted: 12 years ago

that would make shiv older the ghena. gehna was 18 when she married Basant. and anandi 12, so that would be 6 years difference between anandi and Gehna,

Aandi was sent back to her mothers house when she was 14 or 15 right and she returned back when she was 18, i don't know how many years have passed since then till her divorce and marriage to shiv.

if what your saying is true then probability is that Gehna and shiv are of the same age. i pegged Anandi to be about 26years old. and shiv about 28, but he coud be more???

well i hope that past is not that shiv did something wrong. or really bad. but it is some past that even shiv does not know about.

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