When did Arjun celebrate Purvi's birthday? DT note pg7 - Page 7

Originally posted by: nikki1591

thanks pallavi25. i always love ur post. u give so much thought and effort into ur comments. always look forward to ur posts.😊

Its better not to give .Stress . to our mind thinking about the great cv's illogical tracks...
They are just interested in dragging .storyline by showing illogical tracks... what's new in this... Everyone knows about this...
If I start thinking about logics of PR my head will start spinning in the direction of reflex angle 😆

But still there are possibilities of arjun celebrating purvi's b'days
One b'day might have been celebrated at
The time when arjun purvi fell in love with each other n another b'day may be after their marriage

Oh the antics of Arvi really has me 🤣


How realistic is it that after being married to someone for 2 months, spend 20 years celebrating their birthday and can't be bothered to either fix the issue or move on. And yes Arjun-Puvi could not have developed a tradition of it, so I don't get how CVs can stretch it out to make Arjun look like a doting husband. 🤓 All my statements are based on my analysis on Arvi's situation only. It does not apply to XYZ adopted or not adopted person. There's more considerations to my statements and points. If people clearly have a vendetta against my stance, they will extract whatever they want from it.

And regarding nikki1591, I feel I have to defend myself (not to her) but any person reading this.

"w/e ur post is just an excuse to ignite an anti-purvi rant. we get it. u hate her. 😆" - Nikki's first post on this thread. It is a direct attack and puts me on the defensive- note: this is not even arguing my points but rather trying to ridicule and disrespect me as a person. You do not have any rights to do so. I will admit, I too did get personal, but from an outsider point of view, could it not be deduced that when you start attacking someone for their stance, it puts them on the defensive and it's quite regressive in discussion.


That should have been my cue that no reasonable convo is possible..if you put someone on the defence with attacks, don't expect a progressive discussion. For example if someone was arguing about rights to abortion and told me "omg you're a baby killer, sinner, and encouraging promiscous behaviour" - that would be wrong. Instead, it would be better to argue my points like "I don't think your stance that abortion is necessary because..." not point fingers. I would think an issue such as abortion which deals with life would be a lot more heated than a fictional character so it's a lot easier to resist pointing fingers. Sure it did get personal when from the get-go And to be honest I'm quite disappointed in pallavi for "liking" her posts, as even though we disagree, I thought she'd be against such personal attacks, or at the very least taken a neutral stance seing how I found her to be quite sane in her responses. I don't know, maybe I expected too much.

Okay we get it, I'm a jelous hater who deserve ultimate punishment for going against the amar premis...I'll build a temple in their name to rectify my sins.

@ to everyone else, thank you for respecting my viewpoints, regardless of whether or not you agree with me. I try my best to do the same, although we can all get carried away sometimes. I really thought it was basic etiquette , but certain posters proved that wrong. So I have to acknowledge the good.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Well said, nikki! 👏

Now its like Purvi doesnt even deserve to have her birthday celebrated because she was an orphan and adopted by Archana. And I dont get it why Arjun could not have celebrated her birthday within those 2-3 months that they were together.

Its not that they were shown celebrating birthdays together every year! Just one single birthday!

where does the subject of deserving or not come into it.? Sure my posts might have diverged due to certain members attack, but my post dealt with LIKELIHOOD

2 months married - if the bday fell on those 2 months (less chance)- celebrating only 1 birthday together which would mean it wasn't a tradition. Also, like i've said before, it's LIKELY that it wasn't Purvi's real birthday. That's not to punish or to say that adopted kids should celebrate their bdays 🤪A birthday is just a date, what makes it special is the importance you put into it. Since it wasn't a tradition of Arvi, plus it might not have as much meaning to Purvi-Arjun's time together, the years that have lapsed - all concludes me to laugh at that scene of pathetic Romeo pinning away. Now putting EVERYTHING together, it's really unrealistic to show Arjun (read ARJUN not EVERY single husband on planet Earth) celebrating...if anything their anniversary date, date of Pari's birth would make more sense. Purvi and her family celebrating is another thing- that's much more believable. Sad Arjun pinning away on that date, isn't. I'm not advocating rights be taken away from adopted kids, I'm merely showing the processes and logic that led me to my conclusion (specific for ArVi not XYZ person) Those logics do not merely stand on its own but rather all put together make my case.

You've labelled me an anti-adoption she-devil in your mind so my above arguments must be mute.

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

where does the subject of deserving or not come into it.? Sure my posts might have diverged due to certain members attack, but my post dealt with LIKELIHOOD

2 months married - if the bday fell on those 2 months (less chance)- celebrating only 1 birthday together which would mean it wasn't a tradition. Also, like i've said before, it's LIKELY that it wasn't Purvi's real birthday. That's not to punish or to say that adopted kids should celebrate their bdays 🤪A birthday is just a date, what makes it special is the importance you put into it. Since it wasn't a tradition of Arvi, plus it might not have as much meaning to Purvi-Arjun's time together, the years that have lapsed - all concludes me to laugh at that scene of pathetic Romeo pinning away. Now putting EVERYTHING together, it's really unrealistic to show Arjun (read ARJUN not EVERY single husband on planet Earth) celebrating...if anything their anniversary date, date of Pari's birth would make more sense. Purvi and her family celebrating is another thing- that's much more believable. Sad Arjun pinning away on that date, isn't. I'm not advocating rights be taken away from adopted kids, I'm merely showing the processes and logic that led me to my conclusion (specific for ArVi not XYZ person) Those logics do not merely stand on its own but rather all put together make my case.

You've labelled me an anti-adoption she-devil in your mind so my above arguments must be mute.

Still I not understand what the problem if Arjun celebrate Purvi Birthday. Then what do? Celebration separate anniversary 😡 Talk about making a mountain out of a molehill.

1. The whole point of showing the birthday flashback was to show Purvi remembering Arjun and how he had celebrated her bday while they were together.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

1. The whole point of showing the birthday flashback was to show Purvi remembering Arjun and how he had celebrated her bday while they were together.It wasn't a subtle way to do so IMO, it was very corny, filmy..just like applying hero's blood as sindoor 😆 I think they should have been more sophisticated with that...like Arjun seeing a photograph of Arjun-Purvi-Pari or seing an object that reminded him of her. My parents love each other and been together for years but I know (god forbid) they separate, neither of my parents would celebrate each other's birthday in their absence. The CVS were going for romantic and al I got from that scene was a good laugh. It's like a child wrote that scene. 😆

2. The whole point of showing Arjun cutting a cake and singing bday song for Purvi all by himself was to show how much he misses his wife and daughter! I think it could have been shown in a better way. I don't think it was substancial enough. From the scenes I've seen as a viewer pre-leap, there wasn't importance of Purvi's birthday in Arvi's relationship. It hasn't developed in the short-time they have been together. It doesn't incite any thing to suggest Arjun missing Purvi but rather a shallow take on that.

3. All this points to the major question that what exactly was Arjun's majboori that he pined for his wife and kid but never contacted them in last 20 yrs, never called his wife or daughter to wish them happy bday yet he celebrated them all alone. That's my point - if someone isn't going to even both callingin 20 YEARS- not weeks, months, but YEARS, what's the use of setting up a whole birthday cake and singing 🤔 I don't have any faith in CVs to come up with a good explaination to be honest. Just like Archana's coldness towards Ovi for all those years.

So we have to ask the main question, what the hell was that MAJBOORI?

I think we agree on more points than you think...

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

I think we agree on more points than you think...

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

Still I not understand what the problem if Arjun celebrate Purvi Birthday. Then what do? Celebration separate anniversary 😡 Talk about making a mountain out of a molehill.

Now it's not my problem what you do or not understand. If you have problems with it, you can ignore. Just understand that some people do take enjoyment out of analysing/discussing/doing miscellanious things. There's no need to show anger.

IMO there is a significance in that scene but it just wasn't executed well which made it lack the effect they were going for. You can show 3 hours of random things and 3 minutes of story-significant scenes - those 3 minutes would be analyzed more...it's just about artistic meaning. Like that scene with Ankita-Naren. It was short but forshadowed quite a bit.