When did Arjun celebrate Purvi's birthday? DT note pg7

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Jazmin

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: nikki1591

im so glad i could clarify ur thoughts for u. plz i noe the diff b/t critique and bashing. u dont critique. u bash. its so obvious. ur right all ur posts have its own point. and that point is purvi sucks. we get it. i mean i dont liek ovi but even but hey if she was adopted even i wouldnt say she had no right to celebrate a birthday. i didnt dumb down anything. u did that urself. and its not pot calling the kettle black bc im not the one thinks that adopted kids should be treated as second class citizens by not allowing them the joy of having a birhday. ur right about one thing though. conversation is over. when u can actually achieve maturity and learn to treat all people equally regardless of adopted versus bio, then we may have a civil conversation. till then have fun wallowing in ur own ignorace. and i could care less if u report this.

You're right, Purvi sucks in simple layman's term - that's my POV and I'm entitled to it. But that's not what this topic is about 😛 If I wanted to bash her, i'd simply make a bash thread just like if someone wants to just appreciate her, there's the appreciation thread. She's a FICTIONAL character, F-I-C-T-I-O-N-A-L, say it with me, fictional. Repeat it as many times as need be. Discussing fictional characters does not equal discusiing members and their opinions. PandorasBox= human (most of the time 😆) , Purvi= fictional character.

I should have ignored your first post itself. Clearly you have no intention of being objective. From your first post itself, it was clear..it was directed at me...an anonymous poster on the internet. Who am I to you? Nobody...just like you're nobody to me. If you have problem with anything I post, report it. No need for your burst of sentiment towards what you feel about me. Talk about any characters on PR or anything else. You give me too much power, just because it's my opinion that it's illogical to show Arjun celebrating Purvi's bday every single year after a 2 month marriage, I am advocating every adopted child not to celebrate their bdays? 😆 Now how did we get from point a to c? I write what I feel, it's not my fault you choose to misinterpret.

There's a huge difference in directing criticism on fictional character and a human being. We shouldn't even be having this conversation. Sigh, i got dragged in hitting myself against a wall. There's really no point even putting my points to explain, as I'm sure you're gonna write another post twisting this and lashing out at me. Clearly the POV that I have has made anything else I write be negative in your mind, not matter how logical it may seem.

So a resolution to this bickering...agree to disagree.

Follow these steps..

1. Read this post thoroughly
2. understand that people's POV may be different even if it's at a fundamental level of your beliefs
3. Think about how you're gonna react - ignore or take action
4. If you choose to post, ask yourself

- does my post diverge from PR or the topic at hand?
- does it exclude mention of members, their habits, their mailing address, their physical appearance?
-does it bash others for bringing up points that are not in line with your POV?
- should PandorasBox be studying for her exam tomorrow?

If you answer YES to any of these, breathe, look away...and RESIST the urge to post a .

Again I've given you a resolution, it's up to you to take it. I won't reply, so I guess that's tempting *evil eyeshift* ...you can have the last word..I'll give you a free pass in the name of generosity (and for some good Karma for my exam 😆)

But yes, this was a pointless convo,..I guess anything to procrastinate from studying 😆 I guess hitting myself against the wall would have been more productive. In the end I couldn't convince you I'm not the devil reincarnated 😭 .

Ciao.🤗

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Ume Salma Kakal

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Posted: 11 years ago

#53

In PR all are fictional characters.

Purvi and Ovi both are fictional characters. Some like Purvi and some Ovi.

So if someone say anything against Ovi, it's their opinion. Likewise with Purvi.

Then neither fan groups should feel bad.

Besides PR is the most idiotic serial and so are the characters. The story does not make sense, then what the characters are doing how will it make sense.

Some like the character because of the actress, even if the character is horrible or mean.

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onirfans

@onirfans

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Posted: 11 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: pallavi25
Everything is not always abt lust and sex! 😆
ArVi demonstrated perfect understanding during those few months, like Arjun understanding Purvi's need to be with her family after Manav got shot, Purvi taking lunch for him at work, little things here and there...

But EK cannot stand her lead couples being happy after marriage, so she had to create misunderstandings, first with the Soham case, then DK-Manav business split and ArVi tug of war...then the final blow, Ovi and her baby!

But that doesnt mean ArVi didnt have their happy moments, not lustful but playful romance. 😉

Purvi did ask Onir if Shalini thing was true...she made him swear on Pari's head, and he lied...the great doctor took jhoothi kasam on Pari's head! 😲 when a smart employ and Archana's sanskari beti purvi can tell all time lie and always choosed a shortcurt path and forced to other to tell lie then why shock for lie of onir...onir lie was only for purvi's happiness...😡 and he was also right at that time and his jhoot never harm others but give benifit ...

Purvi accosted Onir again in the market one day and asked him why he had deceived her? He ignored her question and made his escape.

I guess one shd watch the episodes carefully before accusing the same person everytime!

ya this episode also clear how onir loves purvi unconditionally ...but purvi did not deserve this ...its her bad luck she lost her first peacefull marriage and going to a messy life...

Edited by onirfans - 11 years ago

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

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Posted: 11 years ago

#55

Pallavi 👏 for a good top of the line discussion. I enjoyed reading all of them. There are many things in PR that does not make sense to me but I am watching and waiting to see if episodes further down the line would bring clarity.

I do believe that purvi and arjun could have celebrated one of purvi's birthday during the time that they were married as her birthday could have fallen during that time. However what I dont understand is why couldn't he pick up the phone and call her for her birthday and during all these years could not work out their misunderstanding. Twenty years is quite a long time to be away from you spouse, continue loving her and not trying to make amends with the relationship.

On the other hand, I also cannot figure out how pari has so much hatred for her father? From how it look, it does not seem as though purvi told her anything bad about him. She was too young to know what really transpired. I would expect an elder child to behave in such a way as that child would have experienced the heart ache and understood how it happened.

Ovi's baby is still a mystery for me. I really cannot see how she mothered a child and was shown all the time in the serial without a baby bump. It beats me!

I can go on and on with more mysteries-soham etc but ...

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

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Posted: 11 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: onirfans

ya this episode also clear how onir loves purvi unconditionally ...but purvi did not deserve this ...its her bad luck she lost her first peacefull marriage and going to a messy life...

I guess everyone has their own destiny.

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

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Posted: 11 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: onirfans

when purvi was introduced she was 21 year bcz manav told this to a shop keeper and always archana told purvi is elder sister of teju ...so according this before leap she was 23 or 24...

affair with arjun near one year then pari born and pari becomes one year so almost three year ...so after leap purvi should 44...but strange cv shows armana 40th marriage anniversy and then purvi working from 25 years with manav...

lagata cv math mei kamojoor hei...

Ummm...archu found purvi as an infant in the accident, not even 10 months old looking. the twins were 1-1.5 when they left for Canada. The cvs will have to try harder for me to believe that teju and ovi were suppose to be younger than purvi. also if it was manav archu's 40th anniversary, how can purvi, ovi and teju ever be anything more than 37?!? manav and archana had soham, ovi and teju after their marriage. so at least 3 years of their marriage had to pass before purvi was born? and if manav and archana's marriage is 40 years, then ovi and teju must be 37-38? then ovi had pia at 17? so she was married to arjun at 15-16? thats not even legal.

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xxxnm

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Posted: 11 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

You're right, Purvi sucks in simple layman's term - that's my POV and I'm entitled to it. But that's not what this topic is about 😛 If I wanted to bash her, i'd simply make a bash thread just like if someone wants to just appreciate her, there's the appreciation thread. She's a FICTIONAL character, F-I-C-T-I-O-N-A-L, say it with me, fictional. Repeat it as many times as need be. Discussing fictional characters does not equal discusiing members and their opinions. PandorasBox= human (most of the time 😆) , Purvi= fictional character.

I should have ignored your first post itself. Clearly you have no intention of being objective. From your first post itself, it was clear..it was directed at me...an anonymous poster on the internet. Who am I to you? Nobody...just like you're nobody to me. If you have problem with anything I post, report it. No need for your burst of sentiment towards what you feel about me. Talk about any characters on PR or anything else. You give me too much power, just because it's my opinion that it's illogical to show Arjun celebrating Purvi's bday every single year after a 2 month marriage, I am advocating every adopted child not to celebrate their bdays? 😆 Now how did we get from point a to c? I write what I feel, it's not my fault you choose to misinterpret.

There's a huge difference in directing criticism on fictional character and a human being. We shouldn't even be having this conversation. Sigh, i got dragged in hitting myself against a wall. There's really no point even putting my points to explain, as I'm sure you're gonna write another post twisting this and lashing out at me. Clearly the POV that I have has made anything else I write be negative in your mind, not matter how logical it may seem.

So a resolution to this bickering...agree to disagree.

Follow these steps..

1. Read this post thoroughly
2. understand that people's POV may be different even if it's at a fundamental level of your beliefs
3. Think about how you're gonna react - ignore or take action
4. If you choose to post, ask yourself

- does my post diverge from PR or the topic at hand?
- does it exclude mention of members, their habits, their mailing address, their physical appearance?
-does it bash others for bringing up points that are not in line with your POV?
- should PandorasBox be studying for her exam tomorrow?

If you answer YES to any of these, breathe, look away...and RESIST the urge to post a .

Again I've given you a resolution, it's up to you to take it. I won't reply, so I guess that's tempting *evil eyeshift* ...you can have the last word..I'll give you a free pass in the name of generosity (and for some good Karma for my exam 😆)

But yes, this was a pointless convo,..I guess anything to procrastinate from studying 😆 I guess hitting myself against the wall would have been more productive. In the end I couldn't convince you I'm not the devil reincarnated 😭 .

Ciao.🤗

"It's one thing for Purvi and family to celebrate since it brings them hapiness, but Arjun? He is literally celebrating a random date to remember Purvi by"

"Orphans do celebrate birthdays. Often times, parents die but there's a record (birth certificate) for children who aren't old enough to know when they were born. But in Purvi's case, there is no such record. There wasn't even a formal adoption. Archana found Purvi at an accident site and just brought her home..

You know...adoption date and birthdates aren't the same thing. It defeats the purpose. "

" As you grow older, you'll realize that birthdays are overhyped beyond measure. It really isn't the end of the world if you do not know your exact date of birth.

My grandparents never knew their date of birth, and I don't see them upset.."

theres no need for me to say anything. ur quotes speak for themselves. just bc u dont believe b-day arent important, doesnt mean that everybody else doesnt. u belive that just bc purvi doesn't know the exact date of her b-day, it means that there is no need to celebrate and they cant choose her adoption date as her b-day bc hey she's an orphan since she doesnt have an adoption date, lets just forget her birthday. u fail to understand the simple joy of having a birthday in this day and age for an orphan. it gives them the sense that they are an equal to the other bio kids as opposed to inferior. and if i have a problem w/ something u wrote I dont feel the need to constantly run to mods to silence ur opinion. bc i believe in free speech no matter how iignorant that opinion may be. and talk about twisting words. i could care less if u talk about the illogicalness of celebrating arjun b-day. i took offense at the fact that bc a person didnt know their b-day due to being an orphan, they should be deprived of a joy that every human being who wishes to celebrate does.

also since when is hate restricted to ony real things. last time i looked up the word hate it meant intense or passionate dislike. i can hate pavitra rishta but that doesnt mean im using the word hate wrongly. in discussing a fictional character though u can reveal ur true beliefs and thoughts pertaining to a situation and not just a particular character. just like u did when u stated You know...adoption date and birthdates aren't the same thing. It defeats the purpose. also when did i state that u are not entitled to an opinion. bc guess what u are entitled any opinion u want but that does not exempt u from critique of that opinion by others. and oh plz. dont try to act so high and mighty by acting like u r giving me the last word. and stop trying to tell people what to do. but since u love giving advice so much, heres some for u. next time u post think

1) am i being a hypocrite by asking people to not do what I myself do

2) am i giving the same tolerance that I ask for

3) am I offending people by making really innapropriate comments such as a husband should not celebrate a wife birthday simply bc it is not her real b-day and rather a chosen b-day due to the fact that she became an orpahn

4) and lastly, is this post really necessary since its obviously a blooper on part of the creative and I just happen to be nitpicking since its a character that I (and yes hate) hate?

if so. breathe, think, and don't post. happy day

Edited by nikki1591 - 11 years ago

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 11 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: nikki1591

theres no need for me to say anything. ur quotes speak for themselves. just bc u dont believe b-day arent important, doesnt mean that everybody else doesnt. u belive that just bc purvi doesn't know the exact date of her b-day, it means that there is no need to celebrate and they cant choose her adoption date as her b-day bc hey she's an orphan since she doesnt have an adoption date, lets just forget her birthday. u fail to understand the simple joy of having a birthday in this day and age for an orphan. it gives them the sense that they are an equal to the other bio kids as opposed to inferior

Well said, nikki! 👏

Now its like Purvi doesnt even deserve to have her birthday celebrated because she was an orphan and adopted by Archana. And I dont get it why Arjun could not have celebrated her birthday within those 2-3 months that they were together.

Its not that they were shown celebrating birthdays together every year! Just one single birthday!

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xxxnm

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Posted: 11 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Well said, nikki! 👏
Now its like Purvi doesnt even deserve to have her birthday celebrated because she was an orphan and adopted by Archana. And I dont get it why Arjun could not have celebrated her birthday within those 2-3 months that they were together.
Its not that they were shown celebrating birthdays together every year! Just one single birthday!

thanks pallavi25. i always love ur post. u give so much thought and effort into ur comments. always look forward to ur posts.😊