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Our favorite odd couple is moving towards NOT being that odd couple anymore. I decided to give them some advise in this new chapter of their life on behalf of forum girls. If I have missed out something, please add on to the list. They are still at an early stage of relationship, so any advise now will only save them from many disasters in future - Go for it girls!
Advice and Tips for Jalal
- You know about Jodha's temper, stubbornness, outspokenness and many such neat qualities. If you have doubts about Jodha's behavior you know Maansingh or your saalas will be more than willing to help you out. You see they have first hand experience with Jodha's neat qualities and might be able to give you pointers on how to tackle her. For e.g. if she runs away on a horse, an army is not enough to catch her. You should just hop yourself on the horse to find her, just like you did in the past.
- She does NOT like to follow rules and hates it if people confine her in a boundary. Your best bet is to keep throwing the 'Shenshah ka hukum' dialog at her for this one, she will come around. The other thing that might work in your favor is to corner her so that she does not have any choice but to follow your orders. Like the way you made her sleep in your room in Amer
- She loves to boss people, just like Maansingh said 'Dhauns jamati hai' and you readily accepted. So buddy, our advice here is to let her boss you as much as possible when you are alone. That way she can feel in control most of the times and you don't get humiliated in front of others. When she is completely unreasonable use your charm to break her. For e.g. most of the forum wasis have forgotten about all the bad things you did to Jodha because we were completely bewitched by your charm.
- She does NOT get your jokes and hates your witty sarcastic comments. To some extent your cracked her up with your shehzadi story. So keep trying and finding other ways to loosen Jodha as she is way too uptight. You might want to tone down your tanas. I understand right now all she cares about is her family or so she portrays. But, soon she will NOT be able to use family as an excuse to care for you. So, don't lose hope here.
- She is extremely talented and drop dead gorgeous. While you strongly believe you have no heart, you might need two or expand the one you have to hold the growing love and respect for Jodha. Why, even you admitted that everytime you try to humiliate her you come across another quality about her. So buddy, the more you know Jodha the more she is going to drive you crazy. As you have never met anyone like her before.
- She is scared of snakes, bichoos and may be some other animals. You can use this to get her to stay closer to you. She might even give you first hug in fear of an animal. This is a big one in your pocket!
Advice and Tips for Jodha:
- We the women of forum are crazy about Jalal. We are completely smitten and mesmerized by his expressions, looks, body. We are so affected by watching him from far, tumhara kya hoga Jodha?? Why even your little sisters say he is very handsome and your blush at the comment indicates you agree. The 'GHRINA' mantra you are using might work for sometime, but your smart husband will see thru it. Just today, when your sister found out that everything is not normal between you and Jalal, you gave her every reason in the book for this but did not tell her that it was your hatred for him. Our advise is to just let it be and see where your journey with this amazing man takes you
- Jalal loves kids and will spoil them to no ends. You will have to be the one to discipline the kids and be the least favorite parent. Also, you might have to give away your place in the bed with Jalal to your kids. As you saw he can happily fall asleep with quite a few in his bed.
- Don't rely on your family to support you around Jalal. They are completely bowled over by Jalal and are already sharing all your secrets and the pain you caused them with him. In those situations ammijaan might be your best support.
- Today you went next to him for protection, even Jalal was stumped! Then, you wanted him to protect you from the intruder. It looks like you have started to trust him. This is a huge step in the right direction, hope you are aware! If not, just enjoy the changes.
- You also laughed when he made fun of you today. This is the first time Jalal managed to make you laugh. Did you see his face, he was so happy at this accomplishment. He never thought he would see this day. You might have to be careful as this is the charm that can get you quickly falling in love with him
- You also were concerned for him as MA pointed out to you about implications of his temple visit. That's why we feel the 'GHRINA' and 'Bapusa prem' dialogs might not work in long run. You might have to find some other excuse or just let yourself enjoy exploring Jalal the complex character.
- Its a known fact that beauty of a woman enhances when she is angry. That's why Jalal keeps teasing you so that he can watch your enhanced beauty. You might want to be alert about this and tease him back instead of getting angry. This will bother Jalal to no extent.
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