1st FLIRTY,2nd BLIND,3rd HERO!!?? - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well I agree with all of you that Anandi should not remarry and ANSH should keep on rocking as a couple.

However I was wondering as the similarities between the 2 stories are quite notable.

Both Jyoti and Anandi are from lower middle class families of Rajasthan. Both are exceptionally good students, determined, hardworking and compassionate. Both are dancers.

In both cases the first lover is fair and handsome. Second one is dark and handsome.

In both cases protagonists face marital problems due to sisters. In Jyoti it's due to Jyoti's sister and in BV it's Shiv's sister.

In both cases the protagonist takes decision of marriage when not sound mental condition. Please note Jyoti married after an attempt of suicide when she came to know of her lover is cheating her and also knowing that her mother is actually is the step mother. In BV Anandi's mother died asking her in fact pressurzing her to marry Shiv.

In both cases the second man enters the protagonist's life as a HERO. The initiation of love is from the man's side only. However gradually the world turning upside down.


Usually most of the writers write with a particular pattern. So is this a possible pattern for Mr P. Sekhar?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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This serial will shut down if Anandi's marriage breaks again.😆

Shiv still acknowledges her feelings. He has not bashed her totally YET.

Anyway, even if we consider their break up as worst case scenario still Anandi is not the kind of person to remarry again. Third time, she will not remarry even if she is forced. She will prefer to be single and will never be able to connect with men or idea of marriage again.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@libsrocks: totally unrelated to BV, just wanted to tell you that Rupert's name is spelled wrong on your signature. Being a Potterhead, I couldn't ignore it, sorry!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What if she is divorced and she goes to Kazaan. Builds up her life and Carreer. By then she
Matures more and she herself wants a life partner as opposed to Ds and Bhago wanting her to marry.
She meets the right person and falls in love. Why cant she do that? Why is it a no no?.
I am also against the stigma against a person for marrying more than once. In J 's case it was not his
Fault. He was forced to marry when he was a child. Second time he was unfortunate and the marriage did not work. Hope Jagia Ganga marriage works despite all the opposition to it.
But with some people they are never lucky with marriage. Either spouse dies or divorce happens.
In India also in future marriages are not going to be as they are now. It is more likely to become
Like the west. We have to accept it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jan50

What if she is divorced and she goes to Kazaan. Builds up her life and Carreer. By then she

Matures more and she herself wants a life partner as opposed to Ds and Bhago wanting her to marry.
She meets the right person and falls in love. Why cant she do that? Why is it a no no?.
I am also against the stigma against a person for marrying more than once. In J 's case it was not his
Fault. He was forced to marry when he was a child. Second time he was unfortunate and the marriage did not work. Hope Jagia Ganga marriage works despite all the opposition to it.
But with some people they are never lucky with marriage. Either spouse dies or divorce happens.
In India also in future marriages are not going to be as they are now. It is more likely to become
Like the west. We have to accept it.


Exactly. In my views a human beings life is worth much more than an unsuccessful marriage.

The name Jagdish or Shiv does not matter to me unless the person can not give happiness to the protagonist against all her love and care.

It's too early to say, but if Shiv is really blind in his sister's love and ill-treats her then Anandi should not give up hope.

The only downside of ANSH relationship is Anandi did not marry Shiv out of her own desire. It's the family that pushed her. How I wished she should have got a break after her divorce and mother's death. She should have found an emptiness in life and desired the presence of a life partner. Then ANSH romance should have initiated. But Alas, that did not happen

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