1st FLIRTY,2nd BLIND,3rd HERO!!??

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debbie

@Debbiee

Voyager

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Posted: 12 years ago

First One Flirty,Second BLIND, 3rd Real HERO!!??

Dear Readers,

If we compare the two very successful stories of Shri Purnendu Sekhar they seem to have some common features. In both stories the in-laws are rich and there is existence of a Choti Maa and a cousin brother. The nature of the protagonists are comparable too. Even both Jyoti and Anandi are good at dancing. Many things if you observe minutely are common.

Let's compare the love interests of the protagonist

1. First lover/husband Flirty: In Jyoti it was her lover. In BV it's the child bridegroom who after being grownup finds another love interest and cheats the protagonist.

2. Second Man/Husband: In Jyoti it was her first husband and in BV it's her 2nd husband; but in both case it's the second man in protagonist's life. In Jyoti he was blind naturally and suspected Jyoti. But in BV Shiv is blind by the love of his sister and may ultimately start suspecting Anandi.

3. Third time Lucky!!?? - In Jyoti she marries again with pregnancy from first marriage. So is Anandi too going to be 3rd time lucky?

Your thoughts.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nice post.

But I am not expecting a third man in Anandi's life.

Because this particular story doesn't warrant a third man in her life.

Balika vadhu concept is very different.They showed one marriage failing because it is abal vivah and another one failing because the partners were not right for each other.

They have shown Jagya being third time lucky and I don't think they will show that with Anandi.

Jagya - Anandi marriage failed because it happened at an age when it shouldn't happen.Both sufferen in this marriage but Anandi payed a bigger price than Jagya.

Jagya thought he met his soulmate in Gauri but he was wrong in his assessment and when the struggles of daily life started their marriage faltered and their love could not hold the marriage together because they were wrong for each other and also they did not have the maturity to deal with their partner's inadequacies.

Jaga - Ganga - hopefully third time lucky.

Coming to Anandi and Shiv marriage - They took their time to build their relationship.It was based on mutual respect understanding trust and friendship and love follwed these things.So their marriage is strong.Right now it is going through crisis but in all this crisis they still understand each other well.He knows his wife will always stand up for what she thinks is right.Both have accepted that they look at this particular incident in a different way.But they do not brush their differences under the carpet like Jagya Gauri did.

Both Anandi and Shiv expected support from each other but it did not come their way.

They are disappointed with their partner at the moment but they are not blaming each other.

A marriage whether it is strong or not will only be known after it has been tested.

Right now it is facing pressures from bothe outside in the form of family pressures and ties and from within their expectations from their spouses have not been met and they stand alone.

But how they will cope with this situation will tell how strong their marriage is.

I think it is too early to write off Anandi Shiv marriage.Marriage is all about coping with the unpleasant side of the partner along with the pleasant side.

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Sunna_Deewani

@Sunna_Deewani

Stunner

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Posted: 12 years ago

I have been hearing that BV will turn out like jyothi from many months ago also. I checked the story from wikipedia. It was too confusing how it will apply to BV. From ur post now i understand how that story apply to BV.

That means one more hero(the last one) for Anandi. Then they should not have shown shiv like a perfect guy. Instead they could have shown that anandi got into a arranged marriage on singh's insistence. Shiv could have been shown normal. But now if they suddenly change Shiv so much, that will look unnatural and out of character😕.

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Sweta

@BeyondTheSky

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

debbie, i don't know about jyothi's story...but anandi is definitely second time itself lucky 😉.

and shiv- anandi marriage is facing a rough weather now but their feelings towards each other are intact ...there might be a temporary separation...the moment shiv realizes his mistake...he will not wait a second to patch up with anandi...is my guess !

both have done mistakes but with honest intentions...this is no reason for the marriage to fail !
they might also introduce anandi preggy track to re-unite them if at all anandi moves out of KB now.

even if they don't reunite (which i would hate ), anandi after meeting a person like shiv will never fall for another man or feel the need for a third marriage...she has achieved marital fulfillment n happiness with shiv which she missed in her first marriage with jagya!

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HemaG

@HemaG

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Posted: 12 years ago

no...it cannot happen...

it need not...😭

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anshurg5

@anshurg5

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Posted: 12 years ago

TM,

I do not think that there will be a third hero in Anandi's life.

Writer of both the serials may be same, but Anandi and Jyoti's characters may not be the same.

Anandi is not a person who can fall in and out of love easily.After her Bal vivah with Jagya she was deprived of other friends of her age, Jagya was her sole companian and they became friends . With time and continuous conditioning by elders that he is her beend, that friendship turned into love. She loved him from the core of her heart.He became her God . But he cheated on her and broken his statue in her heart himself. Still it was not easy for her to stop loving him. Very slowly she came out of that phase.

Then Shiv entered in her life. Though he knocked at the door of her heart but she was reluctant to open that door for him and was guarding her heart vigourously with all her strength. She was so scared of her first experience, of giving power on herself to someone else that she flatly refused to give even an ounce of her heart to another this time.

It was only under immense pressure of family and to fulfill dying wish of her mother that she agreed to marry Shiv. Even after marriage she was not able to open the sacred corner of her heart for him. Shiv understand her dilemma and gave her space and time and slowly she was able to feel love for him again. After her realization Shiv became her life as Jagya once was .

Now She is facing a difficult situation in her married life , since this time both she and her husband are mature persons, both respect and love each other , i am hopeful that they will come out of this testing time successfully. In married life many times couples have to face difficult situations. How they deal with it, decides the fate of their marriage. Having different POVs is not a big issue but having different POVs should not lessen their feelings, their trust for each other.

Time will tell the fate of Ansh marriage, but one thing i am almost sure if some thing unfortunate happens and affects their marriage, Anandi will not be able to trust and love again some one else this time. And in my opinion she will be better off being single.

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

It's will be biggest joke of marriage in any serial if Anandi marries third time...things are not so bad that AnSh should separate...shiv is not suspecting Anandi-Jagya having any affair...what shiv told about Anandi doing vakalat of her on family is very common b/w husband-wife...it's not we are so used to see shiv as perfect lovable husband that we cannot tolerate his typical husband image and so we are imagining they may split soon...it's testing time for AnSh and they will pass it.

It's different if you think just because Jagya-Gauri got separated so will be AnSh

AnSh are mature and not impulsive like JaGa...breaking their marriage for this family drama will the last thing n their mind...even if one of them says other something rude it would never mean it intentionally...JaGa's marriage was already on rocks and Jagya was just looking for an excuse to walk out

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Nandita

@Nandita_Siddian

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: anshurg5
TM,
I do not think that there will be a third hero in Anandi's life.

Writer of both the serials may be same, but Anandi and Jyoti's characters may not be the same.

Anandi is not a person who can fall in and out of love easily.After her Bal vivah with Jagya she was deprived of other friends of her age, Jagya was her sole companian and they became friends . With time and continuous conditioning by elders that he is her beend, that friendship turned into love. She loved him from the core of her heart.He became her God . But he cheated on her and broken his statue in her heart himself. Still it was not easy for her to stop loving him. Very slowly she came out of that phase.
Then Shiv entered in her life. Though he knocked at the door of her heart but she was reluctant to open that door for him and was guarding her heart vigourously with all her strength. She was so scared of her first experience, of giving power on herself to someone else that she flatly refused to give even an ounce of her heart to another this time.
It was only under immense pressure of family and to fulfill dying wish of her mother that she agreed to marry Shiv. Even after marriage she was not able to open the sacred corner of her heart for him. Shiv understand her dilemma and gave her space and time and slowly she was able to feel love for him again. After her realization Shiv became her life as Jagya once was .

Now She is facing a difficult situation in her married life , since this time both she and her husband are mature persons, both respect and love each other , i am hopeful that they will come out of this testing time successfully. In married life many times couples have to face difficult situations. How they deal with it, decides the fate of their marriage. Having different POVs is not a big issue but having different POVs should not lessen their feelings, their trust for each other.

Time will tell the fate of Ansh marriage, but one thing i am almost sure if some thing unfortunate happens and affects their marriage, Anandi will not be able to trust and love again some one else this time. And in my opinion she will be better off being single.

very well said ...👏

M too do not think that Bv makers have brought this track for ansh's permanent separation...or anandi's 3rd love...i think they have brought it only to show that during the tough time how a mature marriege can survive... Jaan marriege was failed becoz they did not face the tough time...and now the testing time for Ansh...if they can not overcome it then it will be proved that this is bad luck of anandi or may be both of anandi and shiv that they is not able to maintain their marriage...their was no wrong in child marriage...which is an evil custom of our society...I do not think that Bv makers will show such things.

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Monamie

@monamie111

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

nice observations...i used to watch jyoti...so i am familiar with jyoti's storyline...but i don think anandi's story will be same!!..plz!!!!...😳...this is BV...a seperate show...with seperate stpryline...

may be shiv is behaving very rudely with anandi...but i think this is temporary!!...i hope everything will be fine soon in thier relationship..AnSh will be together till the end of this show!...why u want Anandi to marry again?..