Who is wrong? (Warning: Long post! :P)

I wasn't joking with my title, this actually turned about to be a long post, sorry about that.😆 Since there's no episode of Bani for 3 days, I thought I should make a post. 😳

After re-analyzing the situation I think some of my opinions about certain characters have changed. From watching other serials I realized the writers have their ways of manipulating the audience into feeling sorry for the female leads when sometimes they are not really worthy of all that sympathy. Sometimes the male lead deserves more sympathy but we don't give him any again because of the writers; they tend to portray the male leads with many flaws that make us lose sympathy for them.

So with everything that's happening in the show, who's actually wrong? Who deserves more sympathy, who deserves less and who is getting the sympathy or should I say no sympathy that they deserve?

Bani - In her eyes Sohum and Rajji are married (I'll get back to this later with what I mean by this). Bani is wrong for the way she's getting her younger sister's husband involved in her problems. Bani is a married woman and with the decisions that she's making it seems like she wants her marriage to survive. If she intends on staying married to Parmeet, then why is she spending so much of her time with Sohum, a guy who she clearly knows has so many feelings for her. My opinions of Bani have not changed. Bani is wrong for the way she's taken advantage of Sohum to get her goals accomplished. The post I wrote about Bani being selfish, I'm not taking back anything I said about her; I still think she's selfish and doesn't deserve that much sympathy. Yeah it's sad and wrong what Parmeet did, but it's wrong how she's hiding the truth from her entire family and lying to them.

Sohum - We all felt sorry for him initially when he got betrayed by Desho and got married to Rajji. We all felt sympathy for him at that time but most of us lost sympathy for him when refused to stop thinking about Bani and kept mistreating Rajji. The way he's manhandled Rajji, that's wrong and he loses some sympathy points from me there. I get he's frustrated being in an unwanted marriage but taking his anger out at Rajji like that is wrong; that's not the way to solve problems. But is Sohum really wrong for refusing to move on? I know in the past I've said things like Sohum should stop thinking about Bani and just move on with his life with Rajji. However, I've changed my opinions about the situation. As I mentioned earlier, in Bani's eyes Sohum and Rajji are married. Not just for Bani but in society's eyes as well Sohum and Rajji are married. But are Sohum and Rajji actually married? No, they're not. The marriage was a betrayal on Desho's part. Sohum took part in the laavan (the phere/ marriage vows) with Bani, or so he thought it was Bani under the veil. Therefore the marriage is invalid since in reality he got married to Rajji instead, but still probably legal since Desho probably found a way to trick Sohum to sign the marriage certificate. Yes Sohum is a bewakoof for not properly making sure he is getting married to Bani, but with the way Desho and her sister-in-law orchestrated the wedding, how is Sohum at fault for this invalid marriage?

Why are we cussing at Sohum for not honouring this marriage? Why should he honour an invalid marriage? How is Sohum wrong for telling Rajji to leave? Yes it'll ruin Rajji's life but I don't think he's wrong. Put yourself in Sohum's situation. Imagine if you got forced to marry someone or got tricked into marrying someone just like how Sohum did. Would it be fair for you to be stuck in that loveless marriage and forced to stay married? Would it really be wrong if you told your spouse to leave you in this situation? I for one would not accept the betrayal that was thrown at Sohum.

Sohum is wrong for the way he's going about with this situation. He has every right to leave this marriage but he's not doing it the right way. Yes he's made it clear to Rajji he doesn't want to be married to her and Rajji unfortunately isn't properly getting the message to her head; if she did then she would have gone home by now. Sohum needs to stop expecting Rajji will go back home on her on, he needs to grow a spine and take care of the situation. If he really doesn't want this marriage then he needs to take the matter to court. He has every right to get this marriage dissolved through an annulment since the marriage was fraud (I think that's the correct term for it, correct me if I'm wrong). Desho made the mistake, she and her family will have to face the consequences and clean up the mess for Rajji if Sohum chooses to annul the marriage. Yes it sucks for Rajji she was at no fault for the marriage happening but why should Sohum be forced to stay married to her and stay miserable?

About Sohum's obsession with Bani- I won't say Sohum is right or wrong for the way he constantly thinks about Bani. You can't stop a person for the way they think. If Sohum wants to spend his whole life only thinking about Bani and stay frozen in the past, not move on in life, then fine that's his choice. I'll still judge him because I'm that judgmental type of person to be frank but still Sohum can go ahead and do that. But Bani being a married woman, it's wrong the way he's interfering in her life. Go ahead and keep Bani in your thoughts but Sohum has no right to be in Bani's life atm.

Rajji - brace yourself for this one, I will tell you straight up right now my opinions about her have changed. As I mentioned earlier the writers tend to make us feel extra sympathy for the female leads (yes I consider Rajji a female lead atm since she's getting so much screen space and importance) and that's the case for Rajji. Is Rajji really that deserving of all the sympathy we've all been giving her? I don't think so anymore, I may sound harsh but I don't feel sorry for her anymore. Yes it's a shame she's stuck in a loveless marriage (or should I say a one-sided love?) which wasn't her fault at first but what is she doing atm? Lately she's been trying to gain her right over Sohum by constantly calling him and trying to spend time with him outside the house. Whenever I saw her doing that, there was just something about it that really bothered me and annoyed me but I couldn't figure it out at first why I felt that way. But now I know why; I realized it's because Rajji is forcing this marriage on Sohum and that's wrong. Why is she staying married to guy who clearly doesn't love her but loves someone else (and that too her sister Bani!). Isn't it wrong what she's doing? Put yourself in Rajji's situation. Would you do that to a man? I wouldn't. I wouldn't stay married to a guy who wasn't even aware that he was marrying me. I would do that right thing which is to set him free and walk away from the loveless invalid marriage. What's the point of torturing yourself and keeping the other person also unhappy? That's why I don't feel sorry for Rajji anymore. No one is forcing her to stay in this marriage, she's made the choice herself; she's made the choice to constantly hear Bua ji's taunts and get hurt by Sohum.

Now in my previous post I said I see Sohum-Rajji as endgame and I still see that as a possibility. However, Rajji needs to give Sohum space, stop forcing this marriage on him, stop forcing him to accept her as his wife, and just be friends with Sohum and let him slowly fall in love with her (I say slowly because obviously his Bani obsession won't allow him to do that fast).

So there you have it. Bani - I haven't gained or lost sympathy for her, I never really had much sympathy for her in the first place. Sohum - I guess you can say I've slightly gained some sympathy for him (like the size of a little pinch of sugar 😆) because it's not fair how he's been forced into this marriage but still he needs to take action and clean up the situation if Rajji won't do anything herself (either drop Rajji back home and stop creating a false image in front of Rajji's family or choose to genuinely move on in life with Rajji). Rajji - I've already mentioned my stance on her, I don't feel so sorry for her anymore. She needs to get real, become independent and move on with her life if Sohum clearly doesn't want to be her husband.

Originally posted by: MannieXO

I wasn't joking with my title, this actually turned about to be a long post, sorry about that.😆 Since there's no episode of Bani for 3 days, I thought I should make a post. 😳

Bani forum has such small posts and less number of posts that it is exciting to see such big and meaningful posts!😃

After re-analyzing the situation I think some of my opinions about certain characters have changed. From watching other serials I realized the writers have their ways of manipulating the audience into feeling sorry for the female leads when sometimes they are not really worthy of all that sympathy. Sometimes the male lead deserves more sympathy but we don't give him any again because of the writers; they tend to portray the male leads with many flaws that make us lose sympathy for them.

So with everything that's happening in the show, who's actually wrong? Who deserves more sympathy, who deserves less and who is getting the sympathy or should I say no sympathy that they deserve?

Bani - In her eyes Sohum and Rajji are married (I'll get back to this later with what I mean by this). Bani is wrong for the way she's getting her younger sister's husband involved in her problems. Bani is a married woman and with the decisions that she's making it seems like she wants her marriage to survive. If she intends on staying married to Parmeet, then why is she spending so much of her time with Sohum, a guy who she clearly knows has so many feelings for her. My opinions of Bani have not changed. Bani is wrong for the way she's taken advantage of Sohum to get her goals accomplished. The post I wrote about Bani being selfish, I'm not taking back anything I said about her; I still think she's selfish and doesn't deserve that much sympathy. Yeah it's sad and wrong what Parmeet did, but it's wrong how she's hiding the truth from her entire family and lying to them.

Bani being the lead could not gain sympathy from most of the audience even after several attempts by the director of the show.. I blame the actress first! She needs to improve first to be called THE lead! But then, her characterization has been such that you cannot easily sympathize with her. On a few occasions like Randeep's rape attempt, we did gain sympathy on her but its like all those issues don't exist anymore. Only thing on Bani's agenda is to find Parmeet.. which is good too.. but hope there was some closure to that Randeep issue first. And her using Soham after Rano's death was the straw which she should not have pulled! I agree I never had much sympathy for this girl either!

Sohum - We all felt sorry for him initially when he got betrayed by Desho and got married to Rajji. We all felt sympathy for him at that time but most of us lost sympathy for him when refused to stop thinking about Bani and kept mistreating Rajji. The way he's manhandled Rajji, that's wrong and he loses some sympathy points from me there. I get he's frustrated being in an unwanted marriage but taking his anger out at Rajji like that is wrong; that's not the way to solve problems. But is Sohum really wrong for refusing to move on? I know in the past I've said things like Sohum should stop thinking about Bani and just move on with his life with Rajji. However, I've changed my opinions about the situation. As I mentioned earlier, in Bani's eyes Sohum and Rajji are married. Not just for Bani but in society's eyes as well Sohum and Rajji are married. But are Sohum and Rajji actually married? No, they're not. The marriage was a betrayal on Desho's part. Sohum took part in the laavan (the phere/ marriage vows) with Bani, or so he thought it was Bani under the veil. Therefore the marriage is invalid since in reality he got married to Rajji instead, but still probably legal since Desho probably found a way to trick Sohum to sign the marriage certificate. Yes Sohum is a bewakoof for not properly making sure he is getting married to Bani, but with the way Desho and her sister-in-law orchestrated the wedding, how is Sohum at fault for this invalid marriage?

Why are we cussing at Sohum for not honouring this marriage? Why should he honour an invalid marriage? How is Sohum wrong for telling Rajji to leave? Yes it'll ruin Rajji's life but I don't think he's wrong. Put yourself in Sohum's situation. Imagine if you got forced to marry someone or got tricked into marrying someone just like how Sohum did. Would it be fair for you to be stuck in that loveless marriage and forced to stay married? Would it really be wrong if you told your spouse to leave you in this situation? I for one would not accept the betrayal that was thrown at Sohum.

Sohum is wrong for the way he's going about with this situation. He has every right to leave this marriage but he's not doing it the right way. Yes he's made it clear to Rajji he doesn't want to be married to her and Rajji unfortunately isn't properly getting the message to her head; if she did then she would have gone home by now. Sohum needs to stop expecting Rajji will go back home on her on, he needs to grow a spine and take care of the situation. If he really doesn't want this marriage then he needs to take the matter to court. He has every right to get this marriage dissolved through an annulment since the marriage was fraud (I think that's the correct term for it, correct me if I'm wrong). Desho made the mistake, she and her family will have to face the consequences and clean up the mess for Rajji if Sohum chooses to annul the marriage. Yes it sucks for Rajji she was at no fault for the marriage happening but why should Sohum be forced to stay married to her and stay miserable?

About Sohum's obsession with Bani- I won't say Sohum is right or wrong for the way he constantly thinks about Bani. You can't stop a person for the way they think. If Sohum wants to spend his whole life only thinking about Bani and stay frozen in the past, not move on in life, then fine that's his choice. I'll still judge him because I'm that judgmental type of person to be frank but still Sohum can go ahead and do that. But Bani being a married woman, it's wrong the way he's interfering in her life. Go ahead and keep Bani in your thoughts but Sohum has no right to be in Bani's life atm.

I wrote a post about Soham's indifference to Rajji after his marriage long back.. I feel the same.. he needs a lot of time and this marriage cannot be forced on him,, according to the show, its only been a month and a half after their marriage. How can a guy who only imagined another girl as his wife accept Rajji that too after what Desho pulled on him?! Its not fair to expect so much from the guy who has been betrayed so severely. The only issue I have with him is his stubborn attitude and unwillingness to change. If Bani were unmarried, then I agree if he doesn't want to move ahead.. but Bani is very much married and seems to love her husband to the extent of leaving to Canada alone to search and reunite with him. In that case, shouldn't he give his marriage a chance,, after seeing what all Rajji is doing and knowing that Rajji is a very good person. And like you said, he has every right to move away from his marriage.. then why doesn't he do so? Rajji told him that if he tells her to leave in front of everyone, she would leave in a second.. then why did he not say it to Nirvail to take his daughter away? Why does he act like a good person in front of everyone? Should he not be truthful instead of deceitful? Why did he agree to marry some girl bua brought for him to get rid of Rajji? Why again did he hide this in front of Rajji's family? They think he is happy with Rajji now.. is that not a wrong impression he is giving everyone about his state with Rajji? If he is not at fault for the marriage, then why does he shudder at the thought of being truthful to his feelings? Why does he want Rajji to do the dirty work of leaving him and hurting her family? Why doesn't he do that if he is so sick of his marriage? Why did he let buaji give Rajji a month's time to prove herself? He could have straight away sent Rajji home after bua came to know the truth.. but he put up with every stupid challenge.. why? Why can't he being a man, not take the initiative? I have far too many issues with this character and frankly ZERO sympathy for him. I once sympathized for this wrongly done marriage but now, he has lost every single piece of it!

Rajji - brace yourself for this one, I will tell you straight up right now my opinions about her have changed. As I mentioned earlier the writers tend to make us feel extra sympathy for the female leads (yes I consider Rajji a female lead atm since she's getting so much screen space and importance) and that's the case for Rajji. Is Rajji really that deserving of all the sympathy we've all been giving her? I don't think so anymore, I may sound harsh but I don't feel sorry for her anymore. Yes it's a shame she's stuck in a loveless marriage (or should I say a one-sided love?) which wasn't her fault at first but what is she doing atm? Lately she's been trying to gain her right over Sohum by constantly calling him and trying to spend time with him outside the house. Whenever I saw her doing that, there was just something about it that really bothered me and annoyed me but I couldn't figure it out at first why I felt that way. But now I know why; I realized it's because Rajji is forcing this marriage on Sohum and that's wrong. Why is she staying married to guy who clearly doesn't love her but loves someone else (and that too her sister Bani!). Isn't it wrong what she's doing? Put yourself in Rajji's situation. Would you do that to a man? I wouldn't. I wouldn't stay married to a guy who wasn't even aware that he was marrying me. I would do that right thing which is to set him free and walk away from the loveless invalid marriage. What's the point of torturing yourself and keeping the other person also unhappy? That's why I don't feel sorry for Rajji anymore. No one is forcing her to stay in this marriage, she's made the choice herself; she's made the choice to constantly hear Bua ji's taunts and get hurt by Sohum.

Now in my previous post I said I see Sohum-Rajji as endgame and I still see that as a possibility. However, Rajji needs to give Sohum space, stop forcing this marriage on him, stop forcing him to accept her as his wife, and just be friends with Sohum and let him slowly fall in love with her (I say slowly because obviously his Bani obsession won't allow him to do that fast).

Rajji did what she did because of pressures from all sides. She did try to get out of the marriage by not going back to Soham's house but got slapped by her father. She returned but did not want to stay. Then buaji entered and she was forced to play along as a good bahu by Soham's family. She told Soham many times that they should let the truth out and end the matter.. but he did not listen as he did not want his bua to know. After the truth came out in front of bua, and Rajji's family, she wanted to get out of the marriage very much. But she stopped herself after listening to what BG told her.. I guess she decided that since Bani is anyway married to another guy, she could try to make her marriage work as well. And Mannie, in India, its not so easy getting out of a marriage. Especially in a village like that of Rajji's its not something people would support or encourage. I think Rajji was thrown head first into the marriage without any breathing time. She decided to stay back because her family couldn't emotionally take the trauma. She decided to accept bua's challenge because she thought she could make a place for herself there even if it took time. Now, I have also lost total sympathy for Rajji ever since she 'fell in love' with Soham! Had she built a nice friendship with him, I would have loved it! But now, its unnatural.. her love.. how can a girl fall in love with a person who treats her like a piece of furniture? What facet of Soham did she actually fall in love with? That he loves Bani? I cannot understand this part.. and I cannot sympathize with her anymore. Falling in love was too soon on Rajji's part. I did not like any of the romance they showed after she fell in love,, because its unnatural. And about the slap she is about to receive, it will bring her back on to the ground,, and hopefully a much needed guilt trip for Soham as well! Lets see!

So there you have it. Bani - I haven't gained or lost sympathy for her, I never really had much sympathy for her in the first place. Sohum - I guess you can say I've slightly gained some sympathy for him (like the size of a little pinch of sugar 😆) because it's not fair how he's been forced into this marriage but still he needs to take action and clean up the situation if Rajji won't do anything herself (either drop Rajji back home and stop creating a false image in front of Rajji's family or choose to genuinely move on in life with Rajji). Rajji - I've already mentioned my stance on her, I don't feel so sorry for her anymore. She needs to get real, become independent and move on with her life if Sohum clearly doesn't want to be her husband.

Originally posted by: JattiTude

too bad they didnt have NIKAH where the qazi would say "Mr Sohum do you take Miss Raji to be your wedded wife?" and Sohum could either say "Qubool hai qubool hai qubool hai" or "Nahi qubool"... it could be the end of that... but now that he is in this situation and they way he is handling things... is still wrong... If Raji is not listening and leaving his home... he is always at Raji's house meeting his ex-flame Bani... he can just tell her family there "yo listen... I aint in love with Raaji... and I still havent accepted the marriage... so make your daughter understand..."

or Bua rather than mistreating Raaji all the time, she can just call her parents and tell them... why drag!!!!!

Originally posted by: Lumzz

phew i read that fully oh my and now I'm getting long comments 😆 thanks for commenting 😊...nd lemme guess hw ur pov changed abt dis track is it bcoz of Asya ?? Actually yes it kinda did influence my viewpoint if yes then i dont think so bcoz sohum is nt zoya or bani was never asad..sohums love was onesided nd nw by tryin to help bani he is somewhat forcin himself on her That's what I dont like about Sohum, he's free to think and daydream about Bani all he wants if he's not married to Rajji, no one can stop him from doing that...but he has no right stepping into Bani's life...evn i used to sympathise with him after d mrg bt den his behaviour to rajji was appalling nd my sympaty went down nd dislike crept up...nd rajji evn i have lost sympathy for her bt nt fully..bcoZ nw she behaving all like a abla naari takin all d shit thrown her way ...bt jus like sohum she never wanted all dis bt ut happnd nd she accepted it as faith nd is trying to move on...nd when sohum asked her to leave she clearky said it to him to go nd say this in frnt of outside world she will easily leave bciz she is fed up of being always bad tbh I actually forgot about this, thanks to you and Hima for reminding me...nd he never saud it in frnt of her fam he acts as if nothin is wrong..if he loves bani so much nd cant move on den why cant he jus take rajji her home say directly to nivrel dat he cant accept this mrg nd leave her bt no he doesnt have d guts yes, which is why he needs to man up and either accept Rajji or tell everyone he's leaving Rajji nd to some extent rajji is d code dat let him meet bani so he is holdin on to it never leaving it completely I feel like that's partly why he's not letting Rajji go... actually if you compare Sohum and Bani they're pretty much the same...both will use and manipulate ppl to get their job done ...nd rajhi she is a village gurl nd a stuburn one at that she promised hersekf to make dis mrg a success so she us taking all d hekp evn if dat is comin kukki nd doin everything to get his affection nd d most imp thing is evn after knwing dat he loves bani she never tried to stop bani sohum meeting or dint evn doubt them once abt their intention..if she wanted she could easily thrown sohum is my hubby stay d hell awsy frm him card on bani bt she never did nd i truly sympathize with dis girl bcoz evn after doing everything taking evry nonesense frm his family what did she get??its sad reakly think abt in rajji's pov as a village girl... As much as I want to sympathize with Rajji based on your last few words about Rajji, I still cant because instead of being a abla naari, she can tell her family the truth and try to get out of the situation, and move on in life ... she also shouldnt rely on Sohum to change
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good post:-D thanks :)

Amazing and meaning ful post dear.. intersining question?👏

i think my point of view these three people are wrong in different way...

😉

bani--bani is a nice girl 😃 but who is acting main portray indiz serail.. but she doen'thave any qualifed as lead .. she should improve her charact a slead diz girl before had get softcorner with sohum afterthat married NRI boy Only for MOTHER'S dream. 😡..then she change his heart afterthat she started to love parmeet .. who has been cheated still now bani ..then she recognize all around problems in her life ..then she has decided to find da permeet .. so she will goto eventually canada ..so that she asked help with.. sohum who is obession with her i mean ex lover stlill now that's big mistaked bani did becoz he is married sister rajji now how could she ake help him? it is big misstaked.. becoz bani should solve herproblem herself not to ask help him that's very wrong.. bani did.. she behaved like sefish girl.😡. that time she should think rajji's life... and her happiness that's bani mistakedtshe should move on to raji and sohams life so now cv seperate bani from rajji-sohum's life😉

then if i take sohum .. sohum allready loved bani then now who is married rajji for destinity i know he got betrayed by desho..,..but he still now loves bani not to any try to fall love with his wife...rajji.. he s very irrirating person always chanting bani bani..and her problem as and life.. as well ashe just doesnt want rajji to his life He told her more than 100 times than he doesnt love her but rajji is acting like a nuisance The problem is with Soham but diz man always doing wrong.. beccoz he is loved bani . if he really loved bani .. he should fight to married bani from desho so that guy didn't do that that time he was behaved spineslles person ... but now he also behaving like stupid nd uselessness.. becoz he well know bani didn't love him sincerely just got small softcornet with him now bani changed her heart and has started to her new life..so how can he think bani still now..? how can love another married women.. ? so he should changed his mind and heart then should come out his obession .. but now he is acting good husband and good manin front of others.. why is he acting as good human..if he really doesn't like to her he would tell frankly with her and her family.. why is making to sacrifice her in his house ?he should tell out of da house before but still now he didn't take da any step.. i don't undestnd wat is da main plan of him? or either he should start to love new life with his wiffe.. becoz he should change his destiny... but problem is sohum is wrong.. becoz he is loving and caring another marriedwomen than his wife as well as he is only person creating da misunderstanding between two sisters... but diz guy very irritating and toruring in diz seraill. if this negativity of sohum continues people will stop watching the serial...pls show sohum and rajji's new life..😡 now i don't like him as male lead 😡😡

rajji is another lead in serial but i like da mostly her acting indiz serail.. i really attracting character only for watching in diz serial for rajji she i is beautiful and intelligent girl but now she changed her behaviour and attitude..after married sohum...now I dont rajji is acting like someone who doesnt have self respect .. she is acting like a dog(nuisance) , but she should know husband is loving someone else etc and caring his ex-lover i mean with sister .. then why has she been frighted for save her wedding? but diz girl is very irriarting ...but sohum has said many times ..he simple doesn't want her.. but diz girl again to again wasting her efforts and sacrificing her life ...for sensless husband😡😡😡.. now she did the same thing mistaked with amrik .. she didnt listen to anyone she had her own mind and now she still now doing da samething with sohum house making women looks like dog to begging love.. bot women should save da self respect .. aswell as rajji should save herself respect.. finally she gets a slappped for being honest and telling da sohum truth.. she is behaving like a dog towards with sohum... but diz is da hightime rajji leave da house and save da self repect.. but i don't know whether it will happen or not😕😕

wait and watch wat will happe next? in their life

Originally posted by: saila1305

Amazing and meaning ful post dear.. intersining question?👏

i think my point of view these three people are wrong in different way...

😉

bani--bani is a nice girl 😃 but who is acting main portray indiz serail.. but she doen'thave any qualifed as lead .. she should improve her charact a slead diz girl before had get softcorner with sohum afterthat married NRI boy Only for MOTHER'S dream. 😡..then she change his heart afterthat she started to love parmeet .. who has been cheated still now bani ..then she recognize all around problems in her life ..then she has decided to find da permeet .. so she will goto eventually canada ..so that she asked help with.. sohum who is obession with her i mean ex lover stlill now that's big mistaked bani did becoz he is married sister rajji now how could she ake help him? it is big misstaked.. becoz bani should solve herproblem herself not to ask help him that's very wrong.. bani did.. she behaved like sefish girl.😡. that time she should think rajji's life... and her happiness that's bani mistakedtshe should move on to raji and sohams life so now cv seperate bani from rajji-sohum's life😉

then if i take sohum .. sohum allready loved bani then now who is married rajji for destinity i know he got betrayed by desho..,..but he still now loves bani not to any try to fall love with his wife...rajji.. he s very irrirating person always chanting bani bani..and her problem as and life.. as well ashe just doesnt want rajji to his life He told her more than 100 times than he doesnt love her but rajji is acting like a nuisance The problem is with Soham but diz man always doing wrong.. beccoz he is loved bani . if he really loved bani .. he should fight to married bani from desho so that guy didn't do that that time he was behaved spineslles person ... but now he also behaving like stupid nd uselessness.. becoz he well know bani didn't love him sincerely just got small softcornet with him now bani changed her heart and has started to her new life..so how can he think bani still now..? how can love another married women.. ? so he should changed his mind and heart then should come out his obession .. but now he is acting good husband and good manin front of others.. why is he acting as good human..if he really doesn't like to her he would tell frankly with her and her family.. why is making to sacrifice her in his house ?he should tell out of da house before but still now he didn't take da any step.. i don't undestnd wat is da main plan of him? or either he should start to love new life with his wiffe.. becoz he should change his destiny... but problem is sohum is wrong.. becoz he is loving and caring another marriedwomen than his wife as well as he is only person creating da misunderstanding between two sisters... but diz guy very irritating and toruring in diz seraill. if this negativity of sohum continues people will stop watching the serial...pls show sohum and rajji's new life..😡 now i don't like him as male lead 😡😡

rajji is another lead in serial but i like da mostly her acting indiz serail.. i really attracting character only for watching in diz serial for rajji she i is beautiful and intelligent girl but now she changed her behaviour and attitude..after married sohum...now I dont rajji is acting like someone who doesnt have self respect .. she is acting like a dog(nuisance) , but she should know husband is loving someone else etc and caring his ex-lover i mean with sister .. then why has she been frighted for save her wedding? but diz girl is very irriarting ...but sohum has said many times ..he simple doesn't want her.. but diz girl again to again wasting her efforts and sacrificing her life ...for sensless husband😡😡😡.. now she did the same thing mistaked with amrik .. she didnt listen to anyone she had her own mind and now she still now doing da samething with sohum house making women looks like dog to begging love.. bot women should save da self respect .. aswell as rajji should save herself respect.. finally she gets a slappped for being honest and telling da sohum truth.. she is behaving like a dog towards with sohum... but diz is da hightime rajji leave da house and save da self repect.. but i don't know whether it will happen or not😕😕

wait and watch wat will happe next? in their life

Amazing and meaning ful post dear.. so far been the best post that I have seen(I am new here 😊)

below is my point of view these three people

Bani : Yes I do feel bad for her for two reasons.

1. She lost a "Loyal Lover" as Soham cuz of her mother's stupid dream and 2nd her Husband(even her in-laws are bad) cheated her so badly and left her without any reason. I am glad that she decided to search for him than to simply crying and waiting for him. I don't think she did wrong by hiding this from her family as any daughter can not tell all this to her father knowing about his health and also IF THEY COME TO KNOW ABOUT THIS 100% THEY WILL NOT LET HER GO ALONE TO CANADA TO FIND PERMEET BY ANY MEANS. so she had to lie.

Yes it would have been better had she not involved Sohan in this, I totally agree to that, but Soham is the one who forced that he will come along with her and even blackmailed her that he will tell the truth to her family and than they will now let her go. She actually never asked Soham to come with her to Delhi.

Soham: Poor guy! all his life he loved a girl who betrayed him her mother's nonsense dream. I wont blame Soham for LOVING BANI and also for NOT LOVING RAJJI.. both are not in his hands. He has always been in love with Bani so its not possible to forget her and move on so easily for him. Secondly he did accept Rajji as a friend tried to be nice with her but this stupid Rajji irritates him by trying to be his wife. He never ever gave any false hope to Rajji and very clearly told her that he loves only Bani(Main Sirf Bani se Pyar karta hu,,, 1 dialog he repeated 200 times in this show😆) I only problem I have with Soham is his misbehaving with Rajji and in involving himself in Bani's problems

Rajji: I Used love this character earlier not now her stupidity is forcing me to start to hate her😡. she was not a character to sympathize but these writers ruined her totally. I have two major problems with her. 1st WHAT SHE DID WITH AMREEK WAS WRONG AND SHE CAN NOT BE FORGIVEN FOR THAT. she never took him seriously and now that same thing soham is doing to her what she did to Amreek she is feeling bad. (Tit for tat I would say)

2nd the biggest problem that I have with her is " WHAT ON EARTH MADE HER FALL IN LOVE WITH SOHAM????? HIS MISBEHAVING SO BADLY WITH HER? OR HER KNOWING THE FACT THAT HE STILL LOVES BANI SO MUCH??? EXACTLY WHAT MADE SHE LOVE SOHAM???? CAN ANYONE ANS???😡😡😡

Ok For once I understand that somehow she has grown some feelings for soham but still can not understand HOW ON UNIVERSE SHE CAN EXPECT SOHAM TO LOVE HER BACK AND THAT SHE CAN MAKE PLACE IN SOHAM'S HEART BY BURNING FEW DIYA'S AND WEARING SAREE AND DANCING AROUND HIM???? IS IT EVEN POSSIBLE ?? CAN YOU ACTUALLY MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU BY DOING ALL THAT??? IS LOVE IS SUCH A CHEAP THING???

Stupid Stupid Stupid this is all what she is... She fall in love when she saw Soham dancing in DHABA on that "TU JANE YA NA JANE DILDARA" song😆 so she thinks that she can make Soham fall for her by those CHEAP TRICKS. RAJJI need to stop caring about soham and give a fresh start for her life,,,, if she continues with her stupidity further also than I am certainly not gonna watch this serial anymore🤔(As I watch this all for her alone)