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Just finished Today's episode ...The only thing i got in Mind all three woman in this serial are subjected to Victims of our society .Though they may be educated and well settled and came From good family .
Anandi : what wrong she did that she is facing such humiliations by her in laws ,she is married to a collector and her in laws have good educational Background they believe in Modern Values ..they accepted a good ..Divorce woman ..but yet when it comes to their own blood nothing seems to be good ..what they have said before ..they simply Blaming her and her Family ..
The way Ira was accusing Anandi proved that Nothing changed the mind set of Indian society ..If something wrong happens from Girl side family they have face the humiliations in every way possible .They will hurt her ,punish her and even ind mistakes in each and every move.
So Woman like Anandi ..what ever her position ,what ever she achieved in their life ..whatever struggle they do they will be always humiliated and can became victim of the in laws family no matter how much they do for their in laws Happiness .
Ganga :Her mistake is to marry a Person who loves Her ,because she had a poor Back ground ,she left her husband no matter in what condition she left him with a small kid in her hands .No matter how much gratitude she show to the family she was saved by ,but she will be called as a witch who did Janu Tuna on their beloved son..who is shouting and shouting that he loves her and she is innocent and she loves our family.
The way Sumitra ranting without Gap about Ganga ..Tells us how many good qualities a girl can have she will be never approved by a good family if she has a bad past where she is victim herself.No matter how you struggle ,do education ,stand on your legs but still she will be held responsible for all the mess their son did to the family.
Their son is innocent and the Girl is the witch .if we see such attitude in the family like singhs where their family had implemented so many social reforms ..their own daughter got married twice ..even than this Girl is being subjected to humiliations .
Saachi : what ever saachi did ..what she is doing now ..i am not talking about saachi character here..i am making a point on the situation where saachi like Girls are in ..
The guy said no to the marriage just one week before actual wedding ..just imagine how torcher that girl family will went through ,a girl who is innocent who don't know her mistake but was denied by the guy just before marriage ..may because of dowry are any thing ..but who will be the victim ..the girl and the family .In india its very very hard to get a Girl married by the parents ..so many things will be involved starting from the engagement to marriage preparations so much of Money and Human feelings and mainly the girls family reputation is involved ..if the marriage stopped without giving a solid reason ..like Now in precap the inspector is asking ...if everything is right than why guy said no ..than straightly the question goes on to the girls Character ...is she is pregnant with other guy ..so the boy's family said no ...when i was in my teenage ..i have seen such two cases ..even the young girl commits suicide all our neighbours said may be she is pregnant who knows ..that's why she committed such a crime ..but she did suicide because she was mentally stressed of family financial problems and her father becoming sick because he don't have money to get marry her ..and on the marriage they have hope of distinct relative said no because they got another match with good dowry .
Another girls was tourched by her family to get medical seat ..but she is very social and friendly with boys who are her classmates ..she comitted suicide to get rid family tourcher on medical seat ..but she was held characterless even by the family ..in order to get rid of their guilt that actual reason that caused her death.
so its really Difficult for such girls to get rid of the humiliation that caused because sudden no said by the Boy's family with out actual reason ...
I don't even bother if Shiv angry on Jagia ..if he gets Humiliated by such question asked by Insepctor...because its Directly questioning his Sister Character and his Family reputation is totally distroyed ,its not the question of only inspector asking in the hospital because of her suicide attempt ..it will be asked by every family friend and relative..what is the reason that guy is suddenly saying no ..with out a proper reason ..and its even effect saachi further marriage proposals.
So Indian Society Mentality will never change ..though how much progress we did in past few years ...always Girls and Girls family will be subjected to humiliation ..
Udne Ki Aasha
