Let's Discuss it- **What is NOT GOOD in the show?** - Page 5

i dont think DV is shown as nikamma...at present he is on holiday so he just chilling...

but it was shown that he wanted to take saanchi's case and that too professionally because that time he did not develop any feelings for her...he also wrote notes which was liked by senior lawyer...that means he is competent...wen saanchi refused to hire him as lawyer he can hardly force himself on her...

so its ok na...they r now focusing on "falling in love" stage...and its also not unnatural that wedding is hapening in just one week...i know in real life wen siblings come from US or UK to india they want to see their bros or sis getting married...i mean if groom or bride is settled then y not get married at short notice...

as for saanchi...aji-nani wanting to get her married too in a week is also ok...wen age is running the elders of the family if they get a groom then its ok that they will want to do as the groom's family wants...

so far i find 2 things that need to be changed...one is ulka needs to be removed...secondly as most of u r saying saanchi's "devigiri" must be toned down...its ok to care for her family but its also not sin to think about her own happiness and marriage and love and all...it seems she is treating DV as bachha more because of this reason that she wants to avoid falling in love rather than thinking DV is truly a bachha...so this thing must be changed...because so far DV has gvn her reason to think him as mature man because he has been helping her in many ways like gving her notes or making his dad talk to the judge to postpone court hearing date...

so it is apparent that DV is not gving any reason to call him bacha but saanchi is doing so because she wants to avoid marriage...so this thing must be changed...if at all they hv to show saanchi treating him as bacha then DV shud be gving reasons for that...just because he laughs all the times and takes things less seriously that doesnt mean he is immature...

well druv is mature I guess till date even sanchi felt it and we all see how he handle things

Originally posted by: Heema22

Good topic . I am very happy to see forum members feel comfortable to express their views

. I want to make very clear that I am not criticizing any actor or character they play but this is my own gripes about writers and director . I am fully aware of the fact that actors say what's written for them and act as directed. They have very little saying .

1 TRPs are low . I am not surprise . Most people love to see sizzling chemistry between leads .They need to work on this . DV agreeing and admiring every thing Sachi does , come across very fake . "Ankhiyaan milaaoon kabhi ankhiyaan churaaoon Kya tune kiya jaadu" is not making strong statement to romance . They need to develop characters to make an impact.

2 Most Indian Soaps are preoccupied with women power and go overboard with it . They need to be more realistic . There was time when we needed it but we already had women prime minister we have lots of strong women for role models. I want see realistic portray of a women .In reality , we face failures . Problems without solutions , obstetrical without solutions. Sachi with some failures , Saying no to her siblings . Thinking about her own desires , about her own wedding and dreams about her life will be more realistic . I don't want to see her as superwoman , many times we want to provide to the family but we can't . We cannot solve every problem in our life .

3 . Male lead comes across as Nikkamma , lover boy .I can't disgust this . All day he with Prabhu Pariwar admiring Sachi ,.they need to show male lead in better position . Definitely not joru ka Gulam or rich spoilt kid .DV with work and having goal will be realistic . I want to see him as strong , opposing ,fighting male lead .

4. The way they singled out or Stereotyped Marawadi community is not good . They don't have to mention any community . "Hum Marwadi me" rant needs to go . Thank God , I am not Marwadi , otherwise they will here from me .

Now what I like about the show . No heavy Jewelry and heavy saris, in every day life .no evil sasuma No extraordinary set . Just very cute cottage home . . Very pretty backdrops, Sachis dedication towards her siblings and grandmas is good ,Sachi is nice and caring boss. Two grandmas staying together and helping grand kids in need ,Costumes are good .

Most of you don't like Dil but I love that character. Being obese that actress carries herself well as Dil .she has goal in mind to get Marry and she knows very few good looking men will fall for her so she tries .comes across as looser but interesting one . I have seen these girls . Out of desperation they will do anything .

Prachi , I like her character too. she is a Product of wrong upbringing and environment . We do see these girls in society . The actress is very pretty and excellent portray of the character. She is convincing that why we dislike her and get mad at her . Hats off to the actress it's not easy .

They are rushing the track wedding in 8 days .why ? I wished they had focus less on Sachi's sunset and sunrise dress( I never heard if this before ) her hair . Bride should be priority . I wish we get to see funny skits about contractors ,Caterer , Photographer, And mess up . Rush wedding with plenty of bloopers will be fun to watch . . They need more funny skits .light comedy is lots of fun.

I want to see person who asked for dowry and who gives dowry to face legal consequences . I want to see more realistic show not fantasy and as someone said before less " Jay ho rant "for the female lead is too much . ( that's good one )

I really want to see DV's BMW .

. Heema22 . You have written excellent points ⭐️⭐️. I agree with you completely. . I think that so much jai Sachi is being done by all her family that sometimes it becomes intolerable,.. . .omg ! Spare her some failures ! . No one can be a winner all the time ! . And Sachi is always donning the mantle of a superwoman ! . It is not a crime to think of one's own desires .. Sachi never gave a thought to having her own family all these years, why? .. They could have shown her making some kind of effort in this regard . Showing that she is searching for a groom on different sites. A modern, strong woman had just resigned to her fate that . no . I shall only serve my family, very literally also, as when ever she is at home she handles all the chores n others just sing her praises. So unreal . .. . . The acting of leads is sometimes very repetitive, sorry if ppl differ but it can be very boring, scenes are also repetitive . . No offence to diehard fans but the chemistry is yet to be shown as so much captivating, natural n mesmerising that one feels to wait for khdjlz . DV is always by her side n agreeing to her, how shall she be impressed by him as to see a strong male . . . n he should be a little more assertive with Sachi . . . . Maybe the chemistry shall be enhanced in future episodes as per the twists in the story . I have seen khdjlz since the start but I feel as if something is missing n it comes across as a good serial but not as a very gripping one. . . . Leads have to do that to pull viewers to it. . . . . It is different as no saas-bahu dramas, heavy jewellery, palatial sets are there . . So to raise trps, hard work is needed. .. Fresh situations, not clichd dowry demands plots are required, copied ideas as fuse scene of another serial was not at all a creative bit . So many new situations for leads can be written. . . . .. .. ... . DV be made a strong, capable man doing some work, striving for some aim n it would be impressive. .. . The shortcomings in other family members, neighbours, relatives is Ok as they are not the leads n they have to enhance the goodness of the leads .. . Even till now Sachi n her family n dv also are happy to welcome a demanding family . N the leads are so well educated n are aware of the consequences. . So unreal .it is . . Sachi is too perfect in doing anything for her family . She can still suffer a lot for them. . In the future episodes . . To end this quickly n strictly for this reason I want her hero to act fast n take her away. . Can't see an overdose of too many sacrifices. !

Originally posted by: mm250314

. Heema22 . You have written excellent points ⭐️⭐️. I agree with you completely. . I think that so much jai Sachi is being done by all her family that sometimes it becomes intolerable,.. . .omg ! Spare her some failures ! . No one can be a winner all the time ! . And Sachi is always donning the mantle of a superwoman ! . It is not a crime to think of one's own desires .. Sachi never gave a thought to having her own family all these years, why? .. They could have shown her making some kind of effort in this regard . Showing that she is searching for a groom on different sites. A modern, strong woman had just resigned to her fate that . no . I shall only serve my family, very literally also, as when ever she is at home she handles all the chores n others just sing her praises. So unreal . .. . . The acting of leads is sometimes very repetitive, sorry if ppl differ but it can be very boring, scenes are also repetitive . . No offence to diehard fans but the chemistry is yet to be shown as so much captivating, natural n mesmerising that one feels to wait for khdjlz . DV is always by her side n agreeing to her, how shall she be impressed by him as to see a strong male . . . n he should be a little more assertive with Sachi . . . . Maybe the chemistry shall be enhanced in future episodes as per the twists in the story . I have seen khdjlz since the start but I feel as if something is missing n it comes across as a good serial but not as a very gripping one. . . . Leads have to do that to pull viewers to it. . . . . It is different as no saas-bahu dramas, heavy jewellery, palatial sets are there . . So to raise trps, hard work is needed. .. Fresh situations, not clichd dowry demands plots are required, copied ideas as fuse scene of another serial was not at all a creative bit . So many new situations for leads can be written. . . . .. .. ... . DV be made a strong, capable man doing some work, striving for some aim n it would be impressive. .. . The shortcomings in other family members, neighbours, relatives is Ok as they are not the leads n they have to enhance the goodness of the leads .. . Even till now Sachi n her family n dv also are happy to welcome a demanding family . N the leads are so well educated n are aware of the consequences. . So unreal .it is . . Sachi is too perfect in doing anything for her family . She can still suffer a lot for them. . In the future episodes . . To end this quickly n strictly for this reason I want her hero to act fast n take her away. . Can't see an overdose of too many sacrifices. !

1. Seeing Sanchi loose hair while cooking I doubt if she is serving hair also with the food

thanks for liking the feedback heema! I am Monica n I had read posts on hd, your posts were always excellent there also, very clear views! Here in khdjlz, I feel that Sachi should be made more realistic,cooking with hair set loose is a tough task indeed! . different concepts in serials apart from saas-bahu sagas are indigestible to many viewers n lots of extra labour n carefully handling of all details, nittygritties are required to make them palatable 😆 but anything served in some serials get a thumbs up n trps 😆so effortlessly !

Originally posted by: mm250314

thanks for liking the feedback heema! I am Monica n I had read posts on hd, your posts were always excellent there also, very clear views! Here in khdjlz, I feel that Sachi should be made more realistic,cooking with hair set loose is a tough task indeed! . different concepts in serials apart from saas-bahu sagas are indigestible to many viewers n lots of extra labour n carefully handling of all details, nittygritties are required to make them palatable 😆 but anything served in some serials get a thumbs up n trps 😆so effortlessly !

Originally posted by: mm250314

. Heema22 . You have written excellent points ⭐️⭐️. I agree with you completely. . I think that so much jai Sachi is being done by all her family that sometimes it becomes intolerable,.. . .omg ! Spare her some failures ! . No one can be a winner all the time ! . And Sachi is always donning the mantle of a superwoman ! . It is not a crime to think of one's own desires .. Sachi never gave a thought to having her own family all these years, why? .. They could have shown her making some kind of effort in this regard . Showing that she is searching for a groom on different sites. A modern, strong woman had just resigned to her fate that . no . I shall only serve my family, very literally also, as when ever she is at home she handles all the chores n others just sing her praises. So unreal . .. . . The acting of leads is sometimes very repetitive, sorry if ppl differ but it can be very boring, scenes are also repetitive . . No offence to diehard fans but the chemistry is yet to be shown as so much captivating, natural n mesmerising that one feels to wait for khdjlz . DV is always by her side n agreeing to her, how shall she be impressed by him as to see a strong male . . . n he should be a little more assertive with Sachi . . . . Maybe the chemistry shall be enhanced in future episodes as per the twists in the story . I have seen khdjlz since the start but I feel as if something is missing n it comes across as a good serial but not as a very gripping one. . . . Leads have to do that to pull viewers to it. . . . . It is different as no saas-bahu dramas, heavy jewellery, palatial sets are there . . So to raise trps, hard work is needed. .. Fresh situations, not clichd dowry demands plots are required, copied ideas as fuse scene of another serial was not at all a creative bit . So many new situations for leads can be written. . . . .. .. ... . DV be made a strong, capable man doing some work, striving for some aim n it would be impressive. .. . The shortcomings in other family members, neighbours, relatives is Ok as they are not the leads n they have to enhance the goodness of the leads .. . Even till now Sachi n her family n dv also are happy to welcome a demanding family . N the leads are so well educated n are aware of the consequences. . So unreal .it is . . Sachi is too perfect in doing anything for her family . She can still suffer a lot for them. . In the future episodes . . To end this quickly n strictly for this reason I want her hero to act fast n take her away. . Can't see an overdose of too many sacrifices. !

well i can see the effect of this topic

Ulka kaku's scene are not there
and
Dilz they made her the bridge -in b/w sanchi n druv

so i guess it does help 👏