Balika Vadhu 2nd Oct 2013 Written update - Page 2

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Esha - Agree.The two main characters have not changed at all.

I always see them as hare and the tortoise.Both are so different from each other and yet they were tied up together in a marriage and made to lead a life together.

Hare is fast and tortoise is slow.

Jagya is impulsive and Anandi is contemplative.

Jagya runs mindlessly and ties himself up in knots and Anandi in her contemplative mode knots up herself😆

I am glad they retained their basic characters but they can still show them learning lessons and improving.

Originally posted by: dixie123

Ira has amnesia or what ? She is asking Anandi to understand Sanchi's pain ! 😡 What a joke !
Mother-daughter duo completely insane..

Aww.. Shiv cannot meet his wifey's eyes.. He knows he cannot see her tears. So, avoiding her and continue to be mad with himself for trusting Jagya.

oh...waht shiv...why are u angry on anandi...

@hina thanx 4 the update!!😊i liked BH part & liked shashnak's acting v.much.he was awesum.

- Jagya should have told family about Sanchi's bribing the pandit to manipulate mahurat too.

Why didn't he tell her entire truth to them? 😲

- DS is right he did things in wrong way and once again Anandi was in a problem due to his action. He coughed up that he was sorry for what Anandi had to go through but in reality he was not thinking about her at all.

- What is a ghar ke laayak bahu for Singhs? Just adequately educated, smothered by their aid and ehsaan, always into housework and tolerating them despite their blunders, never saying a word against them and quietly weeping village woman who could give up work or bring it home at Singhs' orders?

- Jagya should have reminded Bhairon and DS that he had refused first but they had pressurised him to say yes.

- It is natural that his "I did this for long term interest of the family" would naturally not ring a bell with Singhs immediately. It's all thanks to his silence earlier and the way it all unfolded. They are insulted now. They weren't told anything earlier. So how will they easily believe he did it for them?

- If DS felt Anandi was more important and she was indeed concerned for her then why didn't she fathom how this alliance could cause problem to her in future or put her in an awkward position?

- Why is Ira behaving as if Anandi knows nothing about pain that woman goes through upon rejection? Anandi has borne worse than Sanchi! Why's Ira forgetting this? 🤢

- Ira is making Sanchi feel worse and is magnifying the effects of the situation. Her daughter is foolish enough to suspect Anandi might have planned this. But at least she should have had the sense to wonder why Anandi would plot against Sanchi? What did she have to gain?

- Shiv toh...no words for him. Since last few months it is always about his mood. No concern for what Anandi feels. He can be horny when he wants to. He can be cold when he wants to. Not bothered what wife is going through.

- If Anandi had not brought food or water then she would be called callous. If she brought it then again she is thrashed. Damned in every way?

- Hard to feel sympathy for Jagya after all that has happened. Even while telling Sanchi's truth he did not give them full picture! Why hide it from them? They are his family!

- Dialogues these days in BV are regressive and mindless. Each one irritates and is against the characters' nature. 🤢

- Jagya wants to do all rasams to give pehchaan to this relationship. But I think he MUST check with a lawyer on his past relationships, how to close them and prevent them from affecting him in future in any way and how to ensure his relationship with Ganga is safe and fully LEGAL.
Only doing pheras at temple are not enough as safeguard in future.

- Precap was disgusting and once again showed how CVs berate urban and highly educated women. 😡
I also don't know how Shekhars allowed same friends into the house, conversations with whom were responsible for this mess!

The only person I feel sympathy for this show now is Mannu. Poor baby is used and ignored at will and taken away here and there. He has no sense of space, identity or time. He only sees crying or creepy faces around him and is growing up in extreme conditions. 😭 This is real bad upbringing and trauma for early childhood of any human being. I hope it doesn't impact him negatively in future.

Thank you for update hina 🤗

jagya's impulsiveness come forward yet again..even though i love his jodi with ganga, but the fact remains tht he shud have at the very least informed his family what had happened..anyways, will sort out in sum time..

Anandi shud have been shown sorting out her own feelings first in her room instead of shedding buckets coz IRA n S are getting cozy. Go in leave a tray, and come out. Why sit there n listen n try to be a part of it ? I agreed for once w S when she said - pls let me sit alone w my mom !

Why must A ad loved n praised sky high or shed tears ? Is there no midway ? Is her only criteria pleasing her hubby n his folks ? Does right n wrong matter at allto her ?

A people pleases can as such, never be happy.

Also Sumi n DS were so rude today. By pretty much telling him that he has no right to do anything by himself n that Anandi is so much more important than him. And to Sumi, I think Sanchi is now more precious than even Anandi. So maybe its best J leave, why bother staying somewhere if you aren't trusted or loved n all your sacrifices are do nothing.