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Posted: 12 years ago
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In today's episode the cvs cleverly tried to pacify Ansh fans with Anandi's monologue explaining her state of mind and why she does not blame Shiv and why Shiv is not to blame (patriarchal thinking anyone?). And basically answered some of the questions we critics had, though not adequately in my book.
It was quite a contrived scene inserting little Anandi and Bhago to tug at heart strings.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Any brother will react like the way shiv did when his sister's self respect will be at stake aur karna bhi chahiye...But cvs forgot though shekhar's think what sanchi said about singhs was false but she hurt jagya's self respect...Her each and every word was an insult to him because she insulted his family...singhs are not only jagya's family its anandi's family also where was her self respect when sanchi was saying those things about singhs...why she was in a denial that sanchi can't say that...Why she didn't think about her self respect when sanchi insulted her so many times...Any person will react aggressively after hearing a persom making fun of his/her family...Its clear Cvs are also confused in this bakwaas misunderstanding track...There is no need to show everyone understanding sanchi's pain and sympathizing with her...Its very irritating to watch so many characters sympathizing with that girl...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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But didn't AnSh fans stop watching the show since past few months for X Y Z reasons ????😛
Why would CVs want to pacify the non existent fan group?😆
She thinks her husband has a reason to get upset and at the same time she is hurt and feeling all alone because of the cold shoulder she has been getting even after telling them she is with them.

In her loneliness she remembered her mother and she desperately needed some comforting for herself.What is so contrived about that scene?Only when times like these come in our lives do we remember our mothers' soothing touch and want it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

But didn't AnSh fans stop watching the show since past few months for X Y Z reasons ????😛

Why would CVs want to pacify the non existent fan group?😆
She thinks her husband has a reason to get upset and at the same time she is hurt and feeling all alone because of the cold shoulder she has been getting even after telling them she is with them.

In her loneliness she remembered her mother and she desperately needed some comforting for herself.What is so contrived about that scene?Only when times like these come in our lives do we remember our mothers' soothing touch and want it.


Lol. Touche . Good one . 🤣

But what I really meant was current Ansh fans who did not eject from this 'planet' 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

But didn't AnSh fans stop watching the show since past few months for X Y Z reasons ????😛

Why would CVs want to pacify the non existent fan group?😆
She thinks her husband has a reason to get upset and at the same time she is hurt and feeling all alone because of the cold shoulder she has been getting even after telling them she is with them.

In her loneliness she remembered her mother and she desperately needed some comforting for herself.What is so contrived about that scene?Only when times like these come in our lives do we remember our mothers' soothing touch and want it.


@ bold. The scene was contrived TO ME because I was not swayed by the sentimentalism of it. It was sure nice to see Choti Anandi and Bhago, but suddenly showing this was a bit cheesy and rang hollow. As if it was an after thought. So much has happened since Bhago died, and not once did they show Anandi thinking of her, not even during happy times.

Besides I hate that mentality of sticking to saasra no matter what. If Bhago gave her some good advice like having self respect and standing up to wrong no matter even if the other party is your husband then it would have appealed to me. This message is that no matter how much your Inlaws or husband ill treat you, you have to suck it up and find excuses for them. Because that is what she was doing, finding excuses for Shiv's and Ira's bad attitude towards her.

But I did like the fact that she opened up to Choti Ma and didn't hide the fact that Shiv is also treating her badly. Normally they show the bahu's hiding their marital woes.

Anyway, this is my POV. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I too thought the same about the sudden Bhaago FB scene. I was like achanak kaise yaad agayi. But i think that could be because they don't have any grown up anandi's scenes to show with Bhaago because of the replacement.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Picasso9


@ bold. The scene was contrived TO ME because I was not swayed by the sentimentalism of it. It was sure nice to see Choti Anandi and Bhago, but suddenly showing this was a bit cheesy and rang hollow. As if it was an after thought. So much has happened since Bhago died, and not once did they show Anandi thinking of her, not even during happy times.

Besides I hate that mentality of sticking to saasra no matter what. If Bhago gave her some good advice like having self respect and standing up to wrong no matter even if the other party is your husband then it would have appealed to me. This message is that no matter how much your Inlaws or husband ill treat you, you have to suck it up and find excuses for them. Because that is what she was doing, finding excuses for Shiv's and Ira's bad attitude towards her.

But I did like the fact that she opened up to Choti Ma and didn't hide the fact that Shiv is also treating her badly. Normally they show the bahu's hiding their marital woes.

Anyway, this is my POV. 😊

It was cheesy.But she did feel isolated and wanted someone to turn to and to talk to.Before she came to Shekhar's place she was with Singhs.Sumi was there to hold her when she needed.Now in this place there was absolutely no one at the moment.Not even her husband.
Bhago did brain washing from child hood that her sasra is her home and her maike wale are just her caretakers.Even when she forced a promise from Anandi that she would get married to Shiv she told her to do seva of her new sasrewale.

She found excuses for Jagya and Gauri's bad behaviour too.She felt Jagya did all what he did because of child marriage though she was hurt by what he did to her he found excuses for his behaviour.She excused all that Gauri did to her too by saying that Gauri did all that in her love for Jagya.
Going by that finding excuses for Shiv's and Ira's bad attitude is a very small thing.
She doesn't blame others because she has a habit of thinking from other person's perspective.That helps her not to become bitter about people or things.

Her instinctive nature is to rebel against all these things are at least question them.But years of conditioning by her mother later on by DS has really made her hesitant to voice her opinion about family matters and made her take all the treatment that is meted out to her.
When she steps out of the family confines her real self comes out and she speaks up for others and stands up for what is right.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The apt thing in this scenario is ..she has to remember Sumitra ...her love and affection for which she is at present longing for !...or Dadisa ...I am not saying that she should not recollect her biological mothers' love and attachment ...but ...may be because of the negativity she [Su] is spewing on everybody except Anandi and Sanchi [!?!]-- Cv's must have decided this way ! Oh...now I realised ...they have no intention to show HER !Ya..very simple reason ! If you still insist me to tell her name...wait a minute!...let me go to that site and shout her name there and will come back silently !
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Originally posted by: SEETHA.K

The apt thing in this scenario is ..she has to remember Sumitra ...her love and affection for which she is at present longing for !...or Dadisa ...I am not saying that she should not recollect her biological mothers' love and attachment ...but ...may be because of the negativity she [Su] is spewing on everybody except Anandi and Sanchi [!?!]-- Cv's must have decided this way ! Oh...now I realised ...they have no intention to show HER !Ya..very simple reason !

It could also be because she wanted to go back to those days when things are so simple.
Yearning for childhood days and wanting to be with her mother.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

It could also be because she wanted to go back to those days when things are so simple.
Yearning for childhood days and wanting to be with her mother.

May be true !!Longing for mothers' lap in every crucial moment of our life is a rightful reaction by any child !Here the intentions of the CVS' are not very clear ..they left it to our imagination ??!

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