Shiv ki Dil & Dimag ka MRI ...pics (revised)

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why is Shiv taking out his anger and frustration on Anandi?

Shaam chupa le sooraj magar, raat ko ek din dhalana hi hai...

Is it Anandi's fault that Shiv had started trusting Jagdeesh completely and blindly? It is not her fault but because he trusts Aji and her decisions so much... seeing her believe and trust J he had also started trusting him. ( who told him to do vishwaas on his biwi's unkaha vishwaas😛 ) .

But Shiv had only told Aji on the day of the engagement that ...I have spoken to J and he has assured me he knows what he is doing... now Jagdeesh does a complete 360 and says... I never loved Sanchi and sindoorifies Ganga ... what will a brother conclude of this? That this guy is not trustworthy, hopelessly careless and heart breaker. His relationship with Aji is based on truth, trust, loyalty and equality. When he heard J's confession loud and clear that he has never loved Sanchi that broke him completely...he feels cheated and feels his reality check Aji who also happens to be J's best friend now would have had some inclination abt his lovelessness for Sanchi.

He is actually mad at himself for trusting J blindly and feels he and his family were taken for a ride by Singh's King . But Aji is felling miserable as she can see and feel Shiv's pain for his sister and remorse in his eyes that he could not do anything for her...

For now he is in ...'do what your heart says' bandwagon.
This he has learnt from Aji only...bah! her pyaar for Singh's when she got to know J has left them and gone somewhere. I have forgotten all those uber kool dialogues ...you put others before self something to that effect. My wife can be so loyal to her family so I also better be a good bro to my darling sis. 😉 Can we blame him??
Aji ki Aansuon ki awaz is reaching him but he is in his own angst and hell now.
He is burning in his sister's dil tootne ki aag...same way earlier he had burned and fumed for Aji

Aji kauna cahta hai TUM se door rehna 😉
magar mai majboor
hoon ...

Now seeing J's sacha sindoori confession ...all the Ateet ki yaado ki gooj is playing a havoc in his head...
YeH J kabhi bhi nahi sudherga Mai Sanchi se pyaar nahi karta...kabhi bhi nahi kiyaaa



Aji ke saath bhi usne bilkul yahe kiya thaa ...He is EVIL n bad n can never be relied upon

Right now ...Jagdeesh's thoughts are churning in his head like clothes in dryer without bounty(cling free)...doing a prefect cherr err noise

yeh mazboriyan aur yeh doriyaan saab all for sindoori clarity 😛 Sometimes such clarity thrust upon us is not good for ones sense and sensibility...


Lato ki bhoot baato se nahi mante...

This guy only understand the language of hitting & beating ...I cannot reason with him or counsel him

Gamandi, batameez Ladka ...OMG such arrogance and rudeness

Saab accident accidently nahi hote hai kuch karvaye bhi jata hai 😉.
Jimnesia 😛 AHHH the yumlacious amnesia track....I'll escort you to bathroom & then the
Dhan dahn gol ...sach ka samana moment J's secret out ...thx to Nandu
But Shiv did not tell this to anybody after he caught J red handed...more important than telling everybody about his low down act was to make sure he if he was taught a good lesson and confident and rightious Shiv thought that he has learnt his lesson but then Shiv ended up in lock up thx to J's number game 😛. Still he was pardoned but now this is unpardonable sin ...this is what Sumi also said today.
Engagement kisse se aur shaadi kisi aur se ...Na Jagdeesh babu na ...itna bada dil na hai hamara 😉

Mai Anandi se sacha walla pyaar karta hoon ...I want her back in my life 😭
This is exactly what Shiv told Jagia after SAnchi break up that tomorrow you may find Sanchi suitable for you and likable too...he was trying to connect the wrong dots... but how on earth will he know abt Ja Ga's holy love
See here how he explained Jagia and got J back in Singh's land...[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Km_O-KCMp8[/YOUTUBE]
he had so much faith in J that J will now not falter...but he did not prove him right so Shiv is shaken and broken


Rishta, bharosa, vishwaas aur yakeen...J ne saab kuch tooda haii

So he is comparing the past and the present and finding it very difficult to pardon himself that how could he not see J's true colors ...he is in dark so who will show him the light??

He was Aji's knight in shinning armor now she has to be his guiding light. he fed her galebe now there is a prefect galebi in his head 😆 Aji has to straighten all galebi and make a perfect halwa in his head 😛

His Aji gets it he is cranky that's why he is being obnoxious. She has seen enuff of his love , serenity and support. Now it is time for her to extend him her unconditional love and support halwa included 😆... Way to man's heart 😃

balm -e-ishq😉

dil mein yeh shor hai kyon...maan kamzor hai kyon
naazuk yeh dor hai kyon...kesariya... baalam...

Kya bebasi hai ye kya majbooriya...Hum paas hai phir bhi kitni hai dooriyan

Bahi ka gussa-e-dard seeing behen ka pain


Ma ki peeda usne bajeye band😛

Helplessly mad & sad Shiv. Now Shiv should use his head but he has given permission to his heart. Earlier when on J's insistence he had called off the wedding he had given right to his head and called off the wedding wherein he should have taken the decision from his heart😊. His sister's apparent pain and chota sa toota dil is clouding his dil & thoughts. Dahhh all the drama lies btw this dil aur dimag ka yudh. 😉


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For now he deserves a few golies...


Aji I'm sorry... goli maro, joota maro pere mere pyaar ko maat thukarao... ...I'm sorry for my blind love towards my sister 😛 There is nothing phony and superficial about this man...he is the way he is with everybody..loving, caring and highly principled .

Everything in marriage does not fit into comfort zone all the time. A good relationship does not depend on good understanding but how we can avoid misunderstanding 😉
Pyaar... ...Yeh aag ka dariya hai, aur doob ke jaana hai..😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post tinaji...🤗

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Chahat why such precise concise reply😉

Tumhare dil aur dimag mai kya chal raha hai ❓
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Originally posted by: nandita.jana

Awesome post tinaji...🤗



Thx Nandita 🤗 you can drop the Ji. Acha ji 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 5cents

Chahat why such precise concise reply😉

Tumhare dil aur dimag mai kya chal raha hai ❓

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Posted: 12 years ago
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👏Wow... Tina ...
Awesome post... ⭐️⭐️⭐️...A huge round applause for u...👏👏...

I 100% agree with u...
the way u explain... ohh... My God...

Well in start me too... misunderstood him... but later I u/s his situation thanks to u nd Nivi...🤗...

now U given me clear cut pic...
Tune mere Dimag ki batti jala di... now No complies against him..🤗
Hum khata karna nahi chahate... par kae bar ho jati hai galatiya...😭

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I love this part...😉...😆

Lato ki bhoot baato se nahi mante...

This guy only understand the language of hitting & beating ...I cannot reason with him or counsel him

Gamandi, batameez Ladka ...OMG such arrogance and rudeness

Saab accident accidently nahi hote hai kuch karvaye bhi jata hai 😉.




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Tina u r Rockstar...🤗⭐️... Muah...❤️...
Thank u for ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post Tina!! what i cudnt completely bring out in my posts regarding Shiv ...you have beautifully done that through your pics and your awesome words...
very well said...Shiv is completely lost in his emotional turmoil, his love for his sister and his broken trust on J...and Anandi really needs to take the reins in her hand to straighten out the things...she knows everything inside out right from the start and so she can only explain it to him...
but she needs to be equally careful too - Shiv is very disturbed now, any wrong string pulled and he will go complete beserk...but our Ajee is master when it comes to emotions and handling people...so i hope she will do it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Tina
what a post!!🤗-loved it-

everything is crystal clear- well explained-

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Tina,

Wonderful post.

You said everything that i had in my mind.

From day 1 i am also in the Shiv is not wrong he is hurt boat. His trust is broken by J and he feels helpless that he cannot do anything. But i always fall short of words to express. You have done it perfectly.

Just hoping that our Aji does not hurt him more and gets him out of this state. Because she in the only one who can show him the clear picture in proper way.

He has always stood by her and got her out of situations and now it is her turn. It is the beauty of relationship called marriage where both have to balance.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Tina - great analysis ⭐️

When it comes to people Shiv loves, he seems to be listening to his Dil - first with Aji and then with his doll. His dimaag ki rational thoughts seem to have been overpowered atm..

He succumbed to the emotional blackmail of his sister just like he did earlier with J. Such a good soul could never in his dreams think that Saanchi is doing exactly the same thing J did earlier with him - manipulate him emotionally to achieve what she wanted. Imagine, the pain he will go through when he finds this out . - his own blood out to destroy his happiness.. what a double blow 😒

And regarding handling of this issue, hope BV writers rise upto the occasion and give us a sensible track on how the issue is resolved.. Throughout, this track, similar to the track after their wedding, there is lack of open communication - want Ansh to sit down and talk, share each other's perception, threadbare analyze what went wrong. Shiv has always listened to Anandi - want him to do it this time with open mind and not cold shoulder her attempts..

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