Marital problems caused by older people

No matter whether it is rural or urban family, couples face problems because of living under the

Same roof with inlaws. Specially when they have troublesome youngsters. In case of Shekhars

No matter how nice they really were, today Anandi and shiv do not have a minute of peace in

That house due to a pest called Sanchi and Ira. The same way jagia does not have a minute's peace

After Ds forced marriage on him. Older people are constantly bothering young adults with

Their ideas for their own satisfaction. So will it not be better if young adults moved out and lived separately?

No matter whether it is rural or urban family, couples face problems because of living under the

Same roof with in-laws. Specially when they have troublesome youngsters

It depends upon families and their adjusting nature. If a family welcomes a bahu as Lakshmi and believes if Ghar khi Lakshmi cries the family will suffer, those families treat their dil's very well.
Regarding trouble some youngsters, one's own kids can be troublesome. What do you do if you have your own troublesome teen in the house? They are also couples worst nightmares. As years pass by if every member of the family learn to understand each other and give personal space it works well.
In this serial, Shekhars were shown understanding people in the beginning. Even Singh's are really nice people who later understood their mistake and corrected themselves. Now the situation is very complex, were the ladka broke the engagement and married someone else. It is delicate situation to all concerned. I think Jagya is taking right step to be patient and convince his family why h e did what he did. It will take time. This is what I am interested to watch, how he will win his family back along with Ganga. Anandi's case at present all are very hurt and they are only seeing Sanchi. Once they cool down, they will realize what went wrong. Between now and till they all come back to their senses we have to watch unnecessary tears and misunderstandings.

Family. But these oldies have heir own agenda. I ate the expression " uske Ghar bas jaye tho mei

Bahuth khush hongi" as if like paying housie housie with dolls. In Shekhar's residence the menace

Called Sanchi will let no peace for any one. Why should Shiv and Anandi stay with them ?

No wonder couples dont want to stay with in laws.

"No matter whether it is rural or urban family, couples face problems because of living under the

Same roof with inlaws."

We cannot generalise based on situation in the serial. I have not seen even one family where people tolerate a person like Sanchi or force the son to marry sister-in-law of his ex-wife. Creatives want faltu drama, so we have to see such things. In real life - no body can be assumed as married couple just by filling the maang. Here we have agreed that J-G are married now. And even in serial elders also faced trouble due to their children be it Jagya or Sanchi.

Skelpbun, though I have always been a silent reader, commenting on few occasions, I really like your posts and strong opinions.

Remya