Why did she not inform Singhs when Shekhars were contemplating coming with their proposal? She couldn't even send an SMS or email? Cake recipies dekhne ke liye toh jhat laptop khol leti hai.
When she clearly knew Jagya's opinion of Sanchi, then how did she assume he'd be okay with this proposal?
If she knows him enough then didn't his neglect towards Sanchi give her a clear message about his state of mind?
She could have agreed to give basic training to Sanchi. What was the need to go extra mile and tell her stuff about kamarbandh etc.? I don't understand this if she had reservations about this alliance too (she never looked fully convinced)
Why did she hide about Sanchi bribing the pundit twice? She could have told Shiv at least. Or is she in habit of covering up blunders of beloveds as she covered up Jagya's lies in childhood?
Why did she fall silent whenever Shiv diverted the topic that she wanted to discuss? Why couldn't she be honest at least to him? Why couldn't she say firmly even once, "Shiv meri baat suniye"?
This time, she knew that Jagya had gone to Mangalore. She could not have prevented Shekhars from going to Jaitser. But she could have informed Singhs or Jagya that they're coming, by sending SMS or calling them! Had she informed then wouldn't everyone be a tad more alert? Perhaps the showdown at hospital could have been avoided...
It is very tough for her balancing between two families in this weird situation. But her lack of contact with Singhs and not informing anyone about anything went against her.
What was the need to throw around her knowledge of Jagya? No wonder Ira and Sanchi are asking her about his mindset now!
I know Jagya should have been careful, Singhs should have used tact (at least bought time to think) or Shekhars could have controlled Sanchi. But Anandi - with her silence is also responsible for inviting trouble.
In fact Anandi caused Ganga also to get more attached with Singhs by literally giving her charge and responsibility of taking care of them and coaching her on things like making cake to impress Doctor sa.
I don't understand what was going on in her mind? She felt Ganga might be in love with Jagya. Yet some months later she lectured Jagya on his responsibilities towards Sanchi! (She could not have united him with Ganga due to pressures of being Shekhars' bahu. But there was no need to talk to him either)
Why did she involve herself in Jagya's matters? Why not tell DS that she could not do anything?
Had she kept herself detached from his personal life then this problem would never have happened. What was the use of obeying DS back then? Today she stands distanced from her!
Put aside promises to DS, in case of this proposal she should have kept away completely from any talk (in front of Shekhars).
Phas gayi na ab bekaar mein!