Could Anandi have prevented the mess?

At least from the start itself she could have told Singhs not to send Jagya to her home till she is established there. She wanted to be nice but he's her ex husband and Singhs her ex in laws after all. Someday some member from Shekhar family could have created problem.

Why did she not inform Singhs when Shekhars were contemplating coming with their proposal? She couldn't even send an SMS or email? Cake recipies dekhne ke liye toh jhat laptop khol leti hai.

When she clearly knew Jagya's opinion of Sanchi, then how did she assume he'd be okay with this proposal?

If she knows him enough then didn't his neglect towards Sanchi give her a clear message about his state of mind?

She could have agreed to give basic training to Sanchi. What was the need to go extra mile and tell her stuff about kamarbandh etc.? I don't understand this if she had reservations about this alliance too (she never looked fully convinced)

Why did she hide about Sanchi bribing the pundit twice? She could have told Shiv at least. Or is she in habit of covering up blunders of beloveds as she covered up Jagya's lies in childhood?

Why did she fall silent whenever Shiv diverted the topic that she wanted to discuss? Why couldn't she be honest at least to him? Why couldn't she say firmly even once, "Shiv meri baat suniye"?

This time, she knew that Jagya had gone to Mangalore. She could not have prevented Shekhars from going to Jaitser. But she could have informed Singhs or Jagya that they're coming, by sending SMS or calling them! Had she informed then wouldn't everyone be a tad more alert? Perhaps the showdown at hospital could have been avoided...

It is very tough for her balancing between two families in this weird situation. But her lack of contact with Singhs and not informing anyone about anything went against her.

What was the need to throw around her knowledge of Jagya? No wonder Ira and Sanchi are asking her about his mindset now!

I know Jagya should have been careful, Singhs should have used tact (at least bought time to think) or Shekhars could have controlled Sanchi. But Anandi - with her silence is also responsible for inviting trouble.

In fact Anandi caused Ganga also to get more attached with Singhs by literally giving her charge and responsibility of taking care of them and coaching her on things like making cake to impress Doctor sa.

I don't understand what was going on in her mind? She felt Ganga might be in love with Jagya. Yet some months later she lectured Jagya on his responsibilities towards Sanchi! (She could not have united him with Ganga due to pressures of being Shekhars' bahu. But there was no need to talk to him either)

Why did she involve herself in Jagya's matters? Why not tell DS that she could not do anything?

Had she kept herself detached from his personal life then this problem would never have happened. What was the use of obeying DS back then? Today she stands distanced from her!

Put aside promises to DS, in case of this proposal she should have kept away completely from any talk (in front of Shekhars).

Phas gayi na ab bekaar mein!

Nice Post, Anandi should have handled the situation smartly and avoided the mess.

I don't know about other things but I definitely think she should have informed Singhs and Jagya when Shekhars were coming with marriage proposal to them and now also that they were coming to Jaitser to talk about this rishta. Perhaps Singhs and Jagya would have been a bit more alert if they knew Shekhars were coming.

Khair Sumitra ruined it all with her eagerness and over excitement to accept the proposal on first day and her extra rage and drama at hospital yesterday.

This Lal Singh was quick to congratulate Jagya on taking the right step by marrying Ganga but couldn't inform him about function and family at hospital! Even then tamasha could have been avoided!

Anandi will have to be very tactful in tackling Ira and Sanchi's questions. Warna woh gayi! Shekhars were shocked at her when she refused to indulge in Jagya bashing to convince Sanchi that he was not right for her.

If she'd not been acting as a knowledge guide on Jagya for others then she wouldn't face this! Telling what he was like, what he wanted or did not want from life and all, what food or even ornaments he likes on women! She proved she was key to Jagya. No wonder that to now make sense of why Jagya did what he did, people are examining the key! She should have done only the basic - that was required, teaching about cooking etc. Why go extra mile and tell things that no one has even asked her??

Did Laa sing know about jagya's arrival and that also with ganga? even he was shocked to see them

Anandi has not played an innocent role in all this drama.

Good topic Skep. Anandi could have prevented all this mess if she had refused to marry Shiv. 😃 She was happy in her life as a surpunch of a village and happy at Singh's house being single. She had said no to getting married, but her mom dying wish was to see her married. That mom didn't think after getting married her lado will go through same thing what she went through at Singh's. Basically moral of the story is, if you are educated village girl and divorced don't remarry.Educated village girls are no competition to city girls.😃

Originally posted by: redapple1

Good topic Skep. Anandi could have prevented all this mess if she had refused to marry Shiv. 😃 She was happy in her life as a surpunch of a village and happy at Singh's house being single. She had said no to getting married, but her mom dying wish was to see her married. That mom didn't think after getting married her lado will go through same thing what she went through at Singh's. Basically moral of the story is, if you are educated village girl and divorced don't remarry.Educated village girls are no competition to city girls.😃

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

Where did her righteousness go when she pleaded shiv to marry her. He said its not good to marry this way but she was hell bent on fulfilling her mother's wish. Shiv blind in love or call confidence that she will love him later married her. They both love each other now. Only good advice to anandi is keep away from saanchi and Ira. Just be happy with shiv and do her NGO work. Don't try to become great bahu and solver of all family matters. Ansh were never peaceful in jeytsar or udaipur. Jeytsar DS would bother her married life and here saanchi Ira. Both should be stern to family members to not drag them or they should go to a different city.

😃 I am not arguing who is right and who is wrong here . All I wanted to say is all this mess could have been prevented by not getting remarried. This is what I am getting from this social message oriented soap. How is this any different from other soaps?