Amit: The papa pareshaan ;-/

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Guysss.. you have seen the episode and precap too.. Issue is amit's behavior..Though its true that amit was not ready for babies.. And he had bad experiences with them.. But don't you guys think amit is over-reacting.😒 babies se itna b kya darna ki he is having nightmares as to it..😲😲 also after what batuk said to him, he fears that baby will take amita away from him.. in the precap also, he got angry that amita was maintaining distance by placing pillow between them as a precaution.. Is amit's behavior normal..?? is it realistic..?? or is he over reacting.. ?? I am confused... sbare your views guys.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Amit ka baby fear dekh kar toh Oxford waale ek new word coin karne waale hain...
Paedophobia ( paedo means child )


Forum me itna sannataa kyun hai bhayi... 😒
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yaar Aman tere post itna achha aur high quality ka hota hain ki dimaag lagana padta hain comment karne ke liye!!👍🏼 Yeh bhi same hi hain so was thinking..ki koi pehle kare fir main karu. Paedo phobia kahi ya jo bhi kaho..baat simple hain ke Amit is NOT ready to become a father!! You know in our society in maximum cases it is the pressure of the family for which a couple plan their baby but it should have been the couple's choice aur bachcha payda karne mein thodi der kya hogayee to samaaj mein to koi muh dikhane ki laayak nahi rehta especially gals. But papa ya mummy banna ek bahut hi badi zimmedari hain..jiske liye thodisi mental preparation zaroorat hain! and Amit being more practical is also not financially ready also for the baby..jisle baare mein AMita ko chinta karne ki zaroorat nahi coz she is a knows that her in laws are rich enough to bear the finances of the baby. Ab situation ke pressure mein aake Amit had to accept ther eality. But:
1) Sonography video dekh ke Amit ka emotional na hona aur
2) Bar bar woh bachche wale sapne aana
..indicate that Amit is not basically happy & also Batuk's experience added ghee to the fire..so going by that Ami's pareshaani is justified. But Amit babu agar aapko itna chid tha bachcho se to aapko thik tarah se contraceptive precaution leni chahiye thi!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i wonder why he is so much pareshan?...ye batuk ne bhee aaj kuch jyada hee dara diya amit ko...i think amit abhee insecure ho raha hai ke kahee ammu pura time bachee ko na dede...😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ lily.. thank u so much for d reply dear.. i was directionless.. i thought its me Over-reacting... !!
well u are right yaar.. amit is not at all ready... shaayad isi liye kuch zyaada pareshaan hai... upar se batuk ne dara diya..!! but ye nightmares aana is too much...

n i don blame amita at all.. and after all the baby is in her womb.. feeling that motherly feeling is very natural... and her taking precautions while sleeping is justified too.. but amit is not even liking that..!!


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Posted: 11 years ago
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[QUOTE=aanaya16] i wonder why he is so much pareshan?...ye batuk ne bhee aaj kuch jyada hee dara diya amit ko...i think amit abhee insecure ho raha hai ke kahee ammu pura time bachee ko na dede...😆[/QUOTE]
exactly.. and the reason being that he is not all attached to the baby.. agar hota toh usey bhi baby ki utni fikar hoti jitni is time amita ko ho rahi hai... i fear that amit will learn the value of his baby the hard way...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: grintson

@ lily.. thank u so much for d reply dear.. i was directionless.. i thought its me Over-reacting... !!

well u are right yaar.. amit is not at all ready... shaayad isi liye kuch zyaada pareshaan hai... upar se batuk ne dara diya..!! but ye nightmares aana is too much...

n i don blame amita at all.. and after all the baby is in her womb.. feeling that motherly feeling is very natural... and her taking precautions while sleeping is justified too.. but amit is not even liking that..!!


Ohh u r most welcome.🤗 Amita's motherly feeling is natural coz she is carrying the baby to bonding pehle ban gaya & definitely her taking of precaution is justified but kabhi kabhi hum aapne chahat mein itne andhe hojate hain ki theek chheze bhi pareshaan karti hain. Amit ke saath thik waisa hi hua hain. Amit ko abhi bhi baby se bond bana nahi aur upar se Batuk ki baatein use yeh samajh ne pe majboor kar rahi hain ke yeh bachcha ek deewar ban chuka hain uske aur amita ke pyar ke beech...thode din guzarne de..Amit will realize ki yeh bachcha deewar nahi balki uski aur amita ki pyaar ki nishani hain😳...bonding jab ban jayega tab se amit hi sabse zyada laad karega jr ko.😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: grintson


exactly.. and the reason being that he is not all attached to the baby.. agar hota toh usey bhi baby ki utni fikar hoti jitni is time amita ko ho rahi hai... i fear that amit will learn the value of his baby the hard way...

precap me dekha kaise cheed gaya tha amit...OMG ye ladka jaldi se apne bacche ko samaze...aur baccho ko pyaar karne lag jaye
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: lily.lotus.rosy

Ohh u r most welcome.🤗 Amita's motherly feeling is natural coz she is carrying the baby to bonding pehle ban gaya & definitely her taking of precaution is justified but kabhi kabhi hum aapne chahat mein itne andhe hojate hain ki theek chheze bhi pareshaan karti hain. Amit ke saath thik waisa hi hua hain. Amit ko abhi bhi baby se bond bana nahi aur upar se Batuk ki baatein use yeh samajh ne pe majboor kar rahi hain ke yeh bachcha ek deewar ban chuka hain uske aur amita ke pyar ke beech...thode din guzarne de..Amit will realize ki yeh bachcha deewar nahi balki uski aur amita ki pyaar ki nishani hain😳...bonding jab ban jayega tab se amit hi sabse zyada laad karega jr ko.😊


haan lily.. i know this... after all der saver akal aa jaegi amit ko.. but tab tak toh hum viewers ko jhelna padega uska ye attitude... 😡 Gadheda... waise haan yaar, ab kyun ki baby amit ke tummy me ni hai toh uska baby se instantly connect hona mushkil hai aur wo b tab jab baby was unplanned...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aanaya16

precap me dekha kaise cheed gaya tha amit...OMG ye ladka jaldi se apne bacche ko samaze...aur baccho ko pyaar karne lag jaye


yaar ye batuk kaam khrab kar raha hai... 😡 arey jab usey pata hai amit is so nervous.. toh acchi baatein bataani chahiye thee..

and i dint get one thing... batuk said k shilpa bas baby k breakfast k baare me sochti rehti hain.. but if i am not wrong, new born babies are fed only mother's milk upto 6 months.. fir ye shilpa kaunsa breakfast banaati hai baby k liye 😕😕

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