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Hi guys,I have seen the topic on Frienship by our dear friend Whynot😛

I just wanted to know your views on ....LOVE.February looks like the month of Love 😆

Ok right...I want to know your opinions on the topic.Love between a man and woman.Gone are those days of remaining faithful to the person and marrying that person.with whom you had a relationship.

Do you think that Saleem and Devdas type felows exist in these days of throw away culture?I most see now that the people who are in love don't end up together citing several reasons....Money,religion are only few among them.

Me thinks....Devdas type wallahs do not exist.....not in 2007😆

True love is no where.If they say that they are in love with each other.....I personally feel and believe with heart that they should take the bond furthur and end it in marriage.That's committment.Not just hanging around in campuses /cafes and ending up with different people for the rest of their lives.

Perhaps my argument may belong to a fairy land.But the fulcrum of my argument is....The net result of a relationship is MARRIAGE.

Hi Vasu, welcome back...Love in 2007, interesting....
Yes, Devdas kind of love does not exist anymore...neither do I want that to exist 😊 ....I think our life is precious enough to be wasted just for the reason that the person we love, does not love us....Though its hard to accept...can be traumatic and painful...but if it is true...I would not like to waste my life for that person and move on with life 😊 ....Moreover I believe life is much more than being in love...It can be an important part of anybody's life but to stick to this love like Devdas....I don't appreciate this 😕 ....I will pray to God to give me the courage to accept if the relationship is over or can't be started at all.... 😊

Finding true love in 2007 is very difficult..ofcourse...Hanging out in campuses/cafes is not love , we know that....Love is different at different ages ....Attraction, Infatuation are important parts of college /school love....Thats a great learning experience also 😛 ...So I am not against that...Thats very natural 😊 ....And all those relationships shud not end in marriage otherwise it will be a complete chaos... 😆

But still I believe that love exists ...between man and woman...whether they marry each other as soon as they realize this..or enter in a livein relationship for some time and then get married or keep on dating each other unless they are prepared for marriage.....I don't have problem with either....It entirely depends on person to person...I don't have any strong opinion against any of this..
But one shud get married ...once he/she is sure of his/her commitment...and prepared mentally to get married...Marriage demands a lot of adjustments...so preparation is important otherwise it can be a great set back... 😊 .

Originally posted by: superbike

Hi Vasu, welcome back...Love in 2007, interesting....
Yes, Devdas kind of love does not exist anymore...neither do I want that to exist 😊 ....I think our life is precious enough to be wasted just for the reason that the person we love, does not love us....Though its hard to accept...can be traumatic and painful...but if it is true...I would not like to waste my life for that person and move on with life 😊 ....Moreover I believe life is much more than being in love...It can be an important part of anybody's life but to stick to this love like Devdas....I don't appreciate this 😕 ....I will pray to God to give me the courage to accept if the relationship is over or can't be started at all.... 😊

Finding true love in 2007 is very difficult..ofcourse...Hanging out in campuses/cafes is not love , we know that....Love is different at different ages ....Attraction, Infatuation are important parts of college /school love....Thats a great learning experience also 😛 ...So I am not against that...Thats very natural 😊 ....And all those relationships shud not end in marriage otherwise it will be a complete chaos... 😆

But still I believe that love exists ...between man and woman...whether they marry each other as soon as they realize this..or enter in a livein relationship for some time and then get married or keep on dating each other unless they are prepared for marriage.....I don't have problem with either....It entirely depends on person to person...I don't have any strong opinion against any of this..
But one shud get married ...once he/she is sure of his/her commitment...and prepared mentally to get married...Marriage demands a lot of adjustments...so preparation is important otherwise it can be a great set back... 😊 .

I completely agree with you Teena on this one.... on each and every point that you make.... so dont need to write a post... will only write 'refer to teena' 😊

😆 Yeah...me too.Well said superbike.

You are right....Crushes at that age ...very wonderful.....Now looking back....can't stop smiling....But those periods were are also traumatic.

Superbike..on one point I beg to differ....

A big NO to live -in relationships.🤢

Move in with the person after marriage 👏That's fine and allright.

Hmm Teena you said it all. 👏 👏 👏 Vasu I too don't agree with the live in relations . One should be married before being involved in anything physical with anyone. Atleast I believe in this.

Originally posted by: blind horizon

Hmm Teena you said it all. 👏 👏 👏 Vasu I too don't agree with the live in relations . involved in anythin One should be married before being g physical with anyone. Atleast I believe in this.

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hi! love is one word but it means so much. you cannot describe word as your thought. you can only feel it when you believe in someone with full faith in him. it is not hard to find love in 2007. the problem of finding love is people dont understand the meaning of love. nowadays youngers think love's second name as sex without any problems because if they broke up, they dont have to worry about because they can find new ones. in the time of devdas, marriege is all about taking care of your partner and give them as much as love to them. nowadays marrige is like carring heavy weight. they think if you get married, you just tied with one person for your life. thats why todays ganaration is so confused and dont make their decisions right and after that they feel bad on it but it is too late. so i think that everybody has to get married in certain age becuase it is too hard to accept your partener's thought in late 30s becuase then you are gone be too mature for yourself to understand other and except them. this is my point of veiw.